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    I feel like I'm struggling and yet I'm putting so much effort into this. Last night I cammed from my bathroom and had a white tank with neon panties and bra on so you could see the outline. I said I would do a full on bath show at so many tokens and was on almost 3 hours and never even got close to that amount. I was working it hard to, harder than I ever have before. Dancing until I was drenched in sweat, teasing, the whole 9 and only made 70 tokens. I had the most people I've ever had in my room at once, tons of rates and admires but no tips. Of course I got the constant barrage of, show me your tits bb, let me see that pussy bb but that does not pay my bills. I guess I'm just looking for a little advice and some encouragement today. Thanks!

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    Maybe time to try another site? Like not a token based one.





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    How's your lighting, cam quality, and internet speed? when my internet sucked, I was lucky to break $120 in 6 hours... where as I could make that in 2.5hrs with faster internet and better lighting in the same week. Try messing with that and also a different site. SM seems to be good for a lot of women. I have some luck with MGF. you just have to hunt around.

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    Key phrase, You were workin' it to hard.. let me ask you?? Do men bother to marry women who just fuck them on the first date?? this is NO different.. be nice, polite, smiley agreeable , give great shows , don't complain.. don't work so hard.. men don't appreciate that. men like women they CAN'T get!

    Quote Originally Posted by thickpeach View Post
    I feel like I'm struggling and yet I'm putting so much effort into this. Last night I cammed from my bathroom and had a white tank with neon panties and bra on so you could see the outline. I said I would do a full on bath show at so many tokens and was on almost 3 hours and never even got close to that amount. I was working it hard to, harder than I ever have before. Dancing until I was drenched in sweat, teasing, the whole 9 and only made 70 tokens. I had the most people I've ever had in my room at once, tons of rates and admires but no tips. Of course I got the constant barrage of, show me your tits bb, let me see that pussy bb but that does not pay my bills. I guess I'm just looking for a little advice and some encouragement today. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Maybe time to try another site? Like not a token based one.
    What she said, or at least work it a little differently. When I started out I made the mistake of doing MFC first, huge disaster. Although I don't do MFC anymore I had better luck going on in the morning hours and showing less. It varies for everyone but I found for me that teasing with a low-cut top and some shorts got more tokens and privates than revealing attire. And less tight wads But it really varies from one person to the next. Just try something different and good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by thickpeach View Post
    I was working it hard to, harder than I ever have before. Dancing until I was drenched in sweat, teasing, the whole 9 and only made 70 tokens. I had the most people I've ever had in my room at once, tons of rates and admires but no tips. Of course I got the constant barrage of, show me your tits bb, let me see that pussy bb but that does not pay my bills. I guess I'm just looking for a little advice and some encouragement today. Thanks!
    I used to do all that 'I'm gonna stand the entire time I'm on cam and dance/shake it to the music' thing, and instead of it getting me tips, it got me exhausted, a bunch of guys just staring, and a lower cam score (on MFC) due to lack of tips. I know you don't wanna be boring and just sit there like a rock, so I do understand why you did all that dancing. And those "I rated and admired you, bb" guys...man, that is a pain in the ass too since rates/admires don't do anything for your cam score or income. I agree that you may want to try a private-based cam site or two (splitcamming two sites at once) where guys have to pay in order to see your nakedness. I like men who are willing to spend money on me...NOT men who think sitting in free chat everyday rating/admiring and kissing my ass is acceptable, because that ain't gonna pay my bills.

    I don't cam on MFC anymore, but since you're obviously referring to MFC in your original post, have you checked out The MyFreeCams Thread?

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...reeCams-Thread
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    And maybe tell them you're gonna log off in 10-20 minutes if you don't make x amount of tokens (in a non-bitchy way). That has sometimes worked for me-then guys realize you're not just there for your free entertainment. Sounds like you were maybe giving too much away for free-instead of dancing the whole time, dance a couple songs, sit and take a break and chat for a couple songs, off and on. Stand up and tease once in a while, but don't give too much away for free. Also, don't answer too many sexual questions for free-some guys will ask you a bunch of sexual questions without tipping to try and get off for free. Good luck!






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    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie
    Also, don't answer too many sexual questions for free-some guys will ask you a bunch of sexual questions without tipping to try and get off for free. Good luck!
    Yes, good point! The guys who come in the room and don't even say hi or tip, but ask questions like "What's your favorite position? Do you swallow? Where do you like a guy to cum?" are getting off to your answers.

    We're not allowed to name models on here, but there's a Streamate model who's really good at the whole dirty talk thing (God, I wish I could just naturally dirty talk like that on cam, but I can't do it without feeling awkward and feeling like I'm gonna bust out laughing...haha). But she used to do it in free chat. I remember thinking "Damn, that's hot, but she might wanna tone it down a notch cuz she's gonna make a lot of these guys bust their loads here in free chat." Lol. I guess that was her way of enticing guys into buying into her Gold show?
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    Hey ThickPeach, I am newish here also ( Tend to lurk more, first time posting ) but have been camming off and on for about 12 years now and have noticed I tend to do better on per minute sites vs token sites as a bbw. I get those same questions also and just tend to ignore them and let em roll off because I think most of these viewers forget that this is our job, if I am in a good mood I might give a little peek, or a tease but that's about it. I have been reading this site for awhile now and have found lots of great information ( in general about camming ) and also some body type specific threads that have a lot of great information in them. I also think it takes a bit of time to find out what works good for you and what doesn't, Good luck .

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    First time you drove a car, where you able to drive in the Indy 500?

    All jobs & new skills take time to figure out what works best & what doesn't. There is a lot of trial & error to camming, to make money at it.

    I bet NOT one time did you ask the guys to tip. Did you have a list of things you will do for tips on a TIPPING site? Did you have any kind of up selling techniques like every other model on MFC?

    Did you ask anyone to take you private? Or to do group?

    Men RARELY ever give a girl money because she is hot or doing what they want for free. You have to train them, tease them just enough to get them soooo horny that they will spend money to get off.
    Customers dont care that you have bills to pay & are doing this for money. They come on to have fun & to escape from life, when they find a girl new & clueless they exploit it all they can.

    You didn't do your research and watch what the top girls do to see how you should evolve & adapt, what the girls on mid-level do so you can watch & learn new hustles & watch the girls at the bottom of the last page on what NOT to do.

    Then you formulate a better plan & hustle next time you are on.

    This is a SALES job, you got to SELL yourself. Dancing around, being sexy & being nice doesn't make a girl money. Got to hustle. Guys who hate hustlers & girls who ask for tips or private are Guys who NEVER spend $$$ are are looking to CON you. So what if you make them mad & run them off. They are NOT nice guys & using you for free.

    All those good manners your family pounded into you for years as a kid, go out the window with camming. Took me a long time to learn that hard lesson.

    Good Luck,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    First time you drove a car, where you able to drive in the Indy 500?

    All jobs & new skills take time to figure out what works best & what doesn't. There is a lot of trial & error to camming, to make money at it.

    I bet NOT one time did you ask the guys to tip. Did you have a list of things you will do for tips on a TIPPING site? Did you have any kind of up selling techniques like every other model on MFC?

    Did you ask anyone to take you private? Or to do group?

    Men RARELY ever give a girl money because she is hot or doing what they want for free. You have to train them, tease them just enough to get them soooo horny that they will spend money to get off.
    Customers dont care that you have bills to pay & are doing this for money. They come on to have fun & to escape from life, when they find a girl new & clueless they exploit it all they can.

    You didn't do your research and watch what the top girls do to see how you should evolve & adapt, what the girls on mid-level do so you can watch & learn new hustles & watch the girls at the bottom of the last page on what NOT to do.

    Then you formulate a better plan & hustle next time you are on.

    This is a SALES job, you got to SELL yourself. Dancing around, being sexy & being nice doesn't make a girl money. Got to hustle. Guys who hate hustlers & girls who ask for tips or private are Guys who NEVER spend $$$ are are looking to CON you. So what if you make them mad & run them off. They are NOT nice guys & using you for free.

    All those good manners your family pounded into you for years as a kid, go out the window with camming. Took me a long time to learn that hard lesson.

    Good Luck,
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    Again what Sam says, when I first started I Never asked any guy to ever go to pvt or even ask for tips when tipping first came out.. They would sit in free chat for hours, I had some customers who would spend maybe 5 bucks a month and come to free chat ALL Day everyday while they were working. I was SO frustrated. I was raised to be VERY submissive and I felt uncomfortable asking for money.. but NOW! after being taken advantage of all the time. I am all about where is my money BITCH?? The money in your wallet is already mine and you owe it to me...lol.. I still sometimes feel uncomfortable asking but I do it anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Get yourself all turned on before going on cam. And believe in yourself and all your glorious sexiness! Stay positive, and I swear to you, the men come in droves, literally. Don't even start camming until you are totally in the zone. I promise you'll see major results!

    Awe, Hell, If we all waited till we were majorly turned on to cam, we would never make money.... Oh please.

    But it is good to have an inner voice convo with yourself saying, "I'm hot, I'm make money easily" and such.

    Guys love newbies, they love to train them to work hard for NO $$$.. they even tried to do that to me the first month I cammed on MFC. I knew better, but a truly new gal won't. They try to take advantage or you not knowing how this all works. They push your boundaries & push you into doing way more than you plan on for NO money. They will hate, push, guilt be rude & mean to get you to perform for free.

    You do have to demand, ask, go for what you want. Men will NOT give it to you simply because they think you are hot.

    Do have fun & use the kick/block button often for those who are killing your good mood.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

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