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    Dear Stripper Web
    I went to MYNX on Friday afternoon and had a pretty good time. I was planning on going back on Sunday afternoon to watch the World Cup Final and meet back up with the cute little Russian girl that had kept me company on Friday. This all changed on Saturday when my buddy suggested we hit Mohegan Sun. I got a little drunk since I had a DD and on the way back suggested we hit MYNX in Hartford. It was a little before 10pm, we walked in, payed the $10 cover and needless to say it was a little more crowded than on Friday afternoon. Luckily there were two seats at the bar open with a nice view of the whole place. We ordered two beers (I think $5.75, they were $4.75 on Friday afternoon) from the very cute bartender.


    I few girls passed by with the usual quick, “Hi, how ya doin?, wanna dance?” I reply with my usual “Maybe later, I just got a beer and wanna check the place out.” Not too long after we got there I made eye contact with a nice looking blonde with a killer body. She came over and sat down next to me and basically waits for me to make the first move, so i initiate some conversation. I quickly realize she’s not my style. I’m not saying she had an ugly face or anything, just not my type. So the conversation goes ok, but it was a little bit like pulling teeth. She was definitely more into light touching to show her interest/availability for LD etc… I don’t know if she wanted me to ask for something, but after awhile I was kind of board and started talking to my buddy again.


    The dancing on stage was pretty good and I especially liked the girl doing pull-ups from the ceiling scaffolding. I noticed things were starting to pick up and I’m guessing it’s a little after 11. Now at this moment I would have rated this experience around average for me (44 years old and I’ve been to a strip club maybe 50 times, approximately 20 or so different clubs over the years.) It was around this time I notice this girl, she’s definitely a stripper but I’m guessing she has just shown up for her shift as she was not dressed for the stage yet. At one point we make eye contact and at that moment I know exactly what I want. I would say it’s another 45 min to an hour before I see that she is now in full stripper mode and I watch her from across the bar. She’s trying to get a party of 3 young guys a little revved up, but they are basically just kinda standing there looking a little shy. She laughs and just moves on. I can tell she has a real “feisty” attitude and she is definitely my type. Meanwhile the blonde comes back and is trying the light touching, basically no talking tactic. I’m a little more drunk now so I can lead the conversation a little better. I end up buying her a Tequila Sunrise and an Old Fashion for myself. You know what happens next right?


    I quickly shove down the Old Fashion, lose interest in the blonde and start looking for the thin brunette with the upbeat personality. The blonde eventually gets it and I now have an empty seat next to me. When the brunette makes it over it was instantaneous pure lust for everything about her. I was surprised to learn she is 34. We were getting handsier and progressively more aggressive. She was hot, and best of all her mind was just as sexy as her body & face. So she eventually ask what I want to do. I tell her that I’m going to skip the LD & take her straight back to the CR. She smiles and we have another drink and a shot.


    She took me back to the CR where there were 2 guys with 2 strippers on top of them in one of the booths. We sit in the booth across and I basically attacked her. Not in an aggressively violent way, but using my hands exploring her body and my mouth, sucking and lightly nibbling her chest. She was letting herself get pushed down into the large bed-like cushion in the booth; she moans, giggles and says, “aren't I the one who should be on top?” As she moves me into position she adds, “but I am a bit submissive.” The other 2 guys and stippers leave and we are all alone. Basically the rest was very nice and we were all over each other. At one point, we were facing each other basically eyeing each other as we moved and we started to LFK. It was only for a few seconds, she hesitates, chuckles and says, “You got me to break my stripper rule.” That happened a couple more times before it was over. As we were leaving the CR, she says “you are the best looking guy in the club.” She says it twice, I don’t know if she was saying to me or to herself, but it was sexy as hell. I really want to go back and see if I can find her, but I’m not sure my wallet can handle it.

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    I can't stop thinking about the above experience at a club last Saturday. To the point that I'm now registered on this site and another ( where I left the review you see below.) I felt like I had a genuine moment with a stripper and started searching examples of strippers kissing customers to kind of reassure myself I was just letting the stripper get to me with her SS. Now after reading some of the post here and the other site, I'm thinking it might have been real to a point. I'm usually pretty good at this stuff and I've never had a problem with knowing a stripper is just doing her job. I've always had pretty good looks, but I seem to be one of those guys that has gotten better with age. What do you all think?
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    Default Re: Kissed a stripper - did I cross a line?

    She's 34 -- that means she's likely not new to the game of making customers feel like they're special and she's having just as much fun as you. It doesn't have to be "genuine" to be a good time, so get over yourself and just enjoy the fact that you had a fun time with a stripper who knows how to hustle.


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    First thing, it's "chuckles" not "chuggles". Second things, it's an act, and one that really hurts my business. I hate kissing in SCs.

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    'You got me to break my stripper rule' she is full of shit. I will bet you any amt of LDs that your mouth wasn't the only one on her mouth that nite, or on her chest for that matter.

    I think you both crossed a line in that, that kind of behaviour does not belong in the club. Be adults & take it OTC. Girls that allow making-out & chest sucking tend to create an expectation in customers that can put a real hurt in the business of clean dancers.

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    Yeah that. I had to read twice to figure out what LFK means. That didn't sound like a clean dancer, I bet that is her hustle.

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    @Johnpercy, Good report one suggestion, you should have started it with "Dear Stripper Web" like you are writing a letter.
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    OP, I edited your original post in the quote below.


    Quote Originally Posted by Johnpercy View Post
    Dear Stripper Web
    I went to MYNX on Friday afternoon and had a pretty good time. I was planning on going back on Sunday afternoon to watch the World Cup Final and meet back up with the cute little Russian girl that had kept me company on Friday. This all changed on Saturday when my buddy suggested we hit Mohegan Sun. I got a little drunk since I had a DD and on the way back suggested we hit MYNX in Hartford. It was a little before 10pm, we walked in, payed the $10 cover and needless to say it was a little more crowded than on Friday afternoon. Luckily there were two seats at the bar open with a nice view of the whole place. We ordered two beers (I think $5.75, they were $4.75 on Friday afternoon) from the very cute bartender.


    I few girls passed by with the usual quick, “Hi, how ya doin?, wanna dance?” I reply with my usual “Maybe later, I just got a beer and wanna check the place out.” Not too long after we got there I made eye contact with a nice looking blonde with a killer body. She came over and sat down next to me and basically waits for me to make the first move, so i initiate some conversation. I quickly realize she’s not my style. I’m not saying she had an ugly face or anything, just not my type. So the conversation goes ok, but it was a little bit like pulling teeth. She was definitely more into light touching to show her interest/availability for LD etc… I don’t know if she wanted me to ask for something, but after awhile I was kind of board and started talking to my buddy again.


    The dancing on stage was pretty good and I especially liked the girl doing pull-ups from the ceiling scaffolding. I noticed things were starting to pick up and I’m guessing it’s a little after 11. Now at this moment I would have rated this experience around average for me (44 years old and I’ve been to a strip club maybe 50 times, approximately 20 or so different clubs over the years.) It was around this time I notice this girl, she’s definitely a stripper but I’m guessing she has just shown up for her shift as she was not dressed for the stage yet. At one point we make eye contact and at that moment I know exactly what I want. I would say it’s another 45 min to an hour before I see that she is now in full stripper mode and I watch her from across the bar. She’s trying to get a party of 3 young guys a little revved up, but they are basically just kinda standing there looking a little shy. She laughs and just moves on. I can tell she has a real “feisty” attitude and she is definitely my type. Meanwhile the blonde comes back and is trying the light touching, basically no talking tactic. I’m a little more drunk now so I can lead the conversation a little better. I end up buying her a Tequila Sunrise and an Old Fashion for myself. You know what happens next right?


    I quickly shove down the Old Fashion, lose interest in the blonde and start looking for the thin brunette with the upbeat personality. The blonde eventually gets it and I now have an empty seat next to me. When the brunette makes it over it was instantaneous pure lust for everything about her. I was surprised to learn she is 34. We were getting handsier and progressively more aggressive. She was hot, and best of all her mind was just as sexy as her body & face. So she eventually ask what I want to do. I tell her that I’m going to skip the LD & take her straight back to the CR. She smiles and we have another drink and a shot.


    She took me back to the CR where there were 2 guys with 2 strippers on top of them in one of the booths. We sit in the booth across and I basically attacked her. Not in an aggressively violent way, but using my hands exploring her body and my mouth, sucking and lightly nibbling her chest. She was letting herself get pushed down into the large bed-like cushion in the booth; she moans, giggles and says, “aren't I the one who should be on top?” As she moves me into position she adds, “but I am a bit submissive.” The other 2 guys and stippers leave and we are all alone. Basically the rest was very nice and we were all over each other. At one point, we were facing each other basically eyeing each other as we moved and we started to LFK. It was only for a few seconds, she hesitates, chuggles and says, “You got me to break my stripper rule.” That happened a couple more times before it was over. As we were leaving the CR, she says “you are the best looking guy in the club.” She says it twice, I don’t know if she was saying to me or to herself, but it was sexy as hell. I really want to go back and see if I can find her, but I’m not sure my wallet can handle it.

    Sincerely
    Johnpercy



    I can't stop thinking about the above experience at a club last Saturday. To the point that I'm now registered on this site and another ( where I left the review you see below.) I felt like I had a genuine moment with a stripper and started searching examples of strippers kissing customers to kind of reassure myself I was just letting the stripper get to me with her SS. Now after reading some of the post here and the other site, I'm thinking it might have been real to a point. I'm usually pretty good at this stuff and I've never had a problem with knowing a stripper is just doing her job. I've always had pretty good looks, but I seem to be one of those guys that has gotten better with age. What do you all think?
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    Default Re: Kissed a stripper - did I cross a line?

    I just can't read thru this, sorry.


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    there is no way of us knowing whether it was "genuine" or not, but in my professional opinion, it was just a hustle.. pretty much the first thing you learn as a stripper is to make the customer feel that he is special, unique, not like the rest,important, and to make your dance seem intimate..yada yada.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    I just can't read thru this, sorry.
    neither can I!

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    I generally avoid kissing strippers. Mostly because I have no idea how many other guys she's been kissing that night. Unfortunately, turning them down often leads to uncomfortable moments.

    There's only one dancer I've ever had repeated LFK with. And that's only because she was well known as a clean dancer, I had known her for some time and on a somewhat personal level, and she was just that damn kissable! That said, I never once saw it as something meaningful, and neither should you. That doesn't mean she didn't enjoy it. But it's almost a certainty she's done the same routine with someone else, right down to those lines she said.

    By all means track her down again and have some fun. But the last thing you want to be is naive in a strip club!

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    Every single dancer that I've ever ended up being involved with OTC over the years, was either completely clean ITC or light touching only during LD's or VIP's. The CONVERSATION quickly led to when she got off work and us spending time together/hooking up, etc. - but there was no kissing or sucking going on.

    Conversely, the few dancers that have been all up in my business in dances, pushing contact and or kissing, etc and saying how into me they were, have always been hustlers that never went anywhere.

    Food for thought.

    ALso - the OP is suspect anyway. It reads like a Penthouse Letters submission, not a post. :rolleyes:

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    Sounds like black hat stripper tactics to me, stick to the white hatters and help out the biz that you love so very much!

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    Sounds like you got hustled, and from the sounds of it, not by a clean dancer either.
    You probably shouldn't try kissing strippers. Most girls would never allow it...and those that do probably aren't the most hygienic

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    To expedite matters, just give her one of your credit cards.

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    Classic, Grade A hustle. There are plenty of dancers who will kiss customers and say what they want to hear. Kissing is powerful stuff, not only because of the turn-on factor, but also the feeling of intimacy that it conveys. In recent years, it seems that a lot more girls are doing this as they realize how much it can loosen up wallets.

    Her goal was to get you really worked up, both physically and mentally, and wanting more. Obviously she succeeded.

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    YEARS ago I was at a KC strip club...and the dancer was a bit long in the tooth, but attractive, and she started kissing me. I hate to say this, but she was probably the best kisser I've ever been with...I got up from the lap dance shaking...

    As I...umm....calmed down....I took a look around the club (and then at myself), and I realized 2 things:

    1) I'm not rich
    2) I'm not good looking

    So, if she kissed me...then she's probably kissed EVERY guy in the place, nothing wrong that...though I did imagine kissing the guy next to me, which helped me calm down a whole lot more!

    Enjoy the time you had, but realize you just kissed every guy in that place.

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    I think she really likes you! You should keep going back and buying CRs with her until she agrees to marry you.


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    Dude she's totally into you. I'm sure she never kisses any other customers and you definitely DO NOT have mouth herpes now. But, you know it can take a while for a dancer to feel comfortable enough with a customer before she will consider OTC activities, so you should probably keep visiting her on a weekly basis. (Also wtf does "LFK" mean??)

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    ^^^Light French kissing.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Too long, didn't read.

    Does this question really require a wall of text?

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    Am I the only one thinking that he just stuck his tongue in the mouth of a dirty dancer... who chances are had her mouth on more than one dick that night... We've already mentioned she probably made out with tons of men that night, but you know, chances are her mouth made out with a few dicks too... Whose to say whats too far for a girl already doing extras? Kissing used to be extras at least, I sure as hell know sucking breasts is extras, and you were licking ones that have probably been licked hundreds of times that week.

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    It depends on the club as to what qualifies as an extra.

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