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    I work outside of London in the summer, and the club I go to is busy, and reasonably easy to get dances, despite them packing hundreds of girls on each shift. The dances have always had a bit of contact, which made upgrading to rooms very easy.
    However, the council paid us a surprise visit a few weeks ago and threatened to close the place down if the dances weren't cleaned up immediately. (They're doing undercover checks to make sure)

    So now the rules are - air dances, 3ft away, not even allowed to touch their chair. Plus you aren't allowed to touch yourself sexually at all. You can't touch your boobs, your thighs, or even play with your thong. Basically you're just turning on the spot naked! You are allowed to bend over, but not allowed to do floor work
    When trying to sell a room, you're not allowed to use the words "closer" "intimate" or "naughty", or anything like that, and they aren't allowed to put their arm around you even if you're dressed, nor can you cuddle up to them.

    This has resulted in most groups of guys coming in, buying the bachelor a dance, hearing how shit it was, and walking straight out again. If they do stay, they mostly refuse dances because their last one was awful, and I can't even tell them mine will be better, because it won't! And I've tried telling them I'm better, but I just get asked if I'll get closer to them, or put my boobs in their face, and I have to say no!
    I get a few dances here and there if I'm the first girl they speak to, and I did a long VIP room last week, but generally I'm struggling.

    Basically what I'm asking is - should I give up and go somewhere else, or is there a way to still make money in this situation? I love the club, but I'm not sure what to do here! I'd love some advice!

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    Go elsewhere -- before all the other girls do! It's going to take a while for the clientele to get used to the drastic reduction in contact, though if all the clubs in the city are not following this rules, it will be a bit faster since they won't have a choice if they want to get dances in the city.

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    I'm all for diversifying your hustle but it does sound challenging.

    Does air dances mean on the floor AND in the VIP room? Can you touch them at all? For example, touch their thigh, arm, give them a small shoulder or head rub (even if fully clothed)? Closing in on a guy's personal space is always something that helps me push VIP rooms.

    I know when I worked in an air dance club, it was tough, but maybe you can really practice intensifying your sexual expressions if you feel that might benefit? I know it sounds corny for some people but I think it really helps make a huge difference, especially if you're limited in being able to touch yourself.

    For VIP rooms, maybe you can offer dirty talk with a view of your gorgeous body, offer to explore fantasies verbally? I know it's not for everyone but it can be a good tool to have in your arsenal if you are open to it. And I know it's been said before, but when describing rooms you could consider words like "private" or "sensual" or "visually enticing". I have to be honest, I've drastically reduced the use of words like "naughty" and even "intimate" as I've been getting more guys thinking I am alluding to extras.

    That being said, I do think Shanna offers good advice too. If the money remains shit at that club, hightail it out of there and onto another place that will make up for the loss in earnings.

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    Thank you both for your replies.

    I'm not allowed to make any contact at all, even in VIP rooms. The other week a guy tried to touch me, so I took his hand and moved it away, and got told off for holding his hand!
    If the guy is already spending a massive amount of money, they'll turn a blind eye to arm touching or very mild stuff like that, but not in a regular dance or short room, like 30 minutes or something.

    I'm terrible at dirty talk, but I'm going to give it a go at this club again this weekend, as I don't have anywhere else to go, and I'll take Jackie's advice and try dirty talk and sexual expressions and see if it helps.
    Ultimately though, I think you're both right in that I should bail before all the other dancers go elsewhere and those clubs become impossible to get into! It's hard to leave a favourite club, but I need money. If this weekend sucks I'll try another club or another coastal town.

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    The same thing has happened in Brighton but its nowhere near as strict as that. I worked in a different town this weekend where you are still aloud to give real lapdances and its just sooo much easier to sell dances and upgrage to multiples and VIP. If I were you I would leave.

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    I would leave. That sounds like a nightmare. Not even allowed to touch your own tits?? What?

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    it sounds like it IS an impossible hustle! i've heard of really strict clubs of course,but to switch that drastically all of a sudden and where you get yelled at for trying to fend off a hand or touching your OWN body?? screw that! what were you supposed to do? jump and dance away from his hand instead of removing it??
    i don't see how you can make any money unless you find that rare gem that just wants to pay hundreds to talk..and these days, that's a very rare gem in most clubs..especially if they can get a lot more contact elsewhere or just see it from stage for a dollar.i would look for another club asap

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    Yep, I agree go elsewhere, air dances suck, there wayyy too much work!

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    Thanks everyone, I think you're right.
    I don't want to leave but I think I'll go elsewhere until things have calmed down a bit and the rules are a bit more relaxed again.
    Even if I was asking money, I pride myself on doing a great lapdance, and I hate seeing the disappointment in the customer's eyes when I spend an entire song sort of shimmying around naked on the other side of the room to him!

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    I would go somewhere else. I wouldn't want to deal with the drastic decrease in my income.

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    I may be mistaken, but if you are fully clothed, I don't think any legal authority can restrict you from making physical contact with others. They may as well put all the girls behind glass and allow the guys to feed money through a slot, if that is really what they want.

    I'm with the others, time to find a new place to work. This one will either start bending to the will of the customers or will be out of business soon.

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    Default Re: Feels like an impossible hustle

    Quote Originally Posted by Tourdefranzia View Post
    I may be mistaken, but if you are fully clothed, I don't think any legal authority can restrict you from making physical contact with others.
    I thought that was the law too.
    It's certainly how it works in London.

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