



Um, we are women. You're not. I think WE would know better than you.
Girls may perspire a little at work, like I said. People don't have to be drenched in sweat to perspire. So there goes your theory about that.
It seems like you believe she was wet because of YOU and nothing will change your mind. I'm just curious as to why if you believe this to be true you came here to ask us out opinions in the first place.......

Are you though? Because I count 8 (yes i'm bored and yes I counted!) women on this thread alone who have backed up the notion that their vaginas are sometimes wet with no sexual arousal at all. And counting me, 9, because I sometimes get absolutely soaking for no reason whatsoever. Like the other girls said, it's a cleaning mechanism and it's completely natural. Pretty much every single man i've ever met has also said that men occasionally get erections with no sexual arousal at all too, so this idea should not be that foreign to you! If you were that willing to change your mind, wouldn't the 9 females who, unlike you, actually HAVE vaginas telling you this have changed it by now? I mean why ask us our opinion if you're just going to argue that we're wrong about our OWN genitalia?!





certain times of the month, yes. i will usually change my underwear out half way through my shift..and no it doesn't "stain". its not hazardous waste, its just clear vaginal discharge.
i really don't think there is a point in arguing this though because you are DEAD SET on this gal being soaking wet because of your masculine charm..because she hasn't probably danced for hundreds of men before you, and this must be a new exciting experience for her


Only your pride.![]()
I was only giving possibilities, and it's quite possible she really is attracted to you and was so into the session she was turned on by it. But you'd be an idiot to go into this thing dead set on that being the case. Like I said in another thread, the last thing you want to be in a strip club is naive. And even if she was turned on by you, it doesn't mean she wants to go out with you.
If you do ask her, I'm sure we'd all be interested to know how it goes. Good luck!





Meaning "use the explanation with the fewest assumptions"? Or the "simplest" explanation?
If that's what you want to argue, any of these responses will do. Yours is the most full of assumptions since you do not have a vagina nor do you know the feelings of the dancer in question. Ours are all much simpler as they use basic biology and aren't based on the fickle psychology of humans...
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."


If it was around the time in her cycle where she was ovulating (and because I know so many people are clueless about this...frequently men...ovulation happens between periods. It is not the period), her vagina would have been secreting a clear-whitish liquid with a consistency a little thicker than water. Perhaps even a little gooey. Women tend to secrete this fluid the most for the week right between periods as the body is creating the ideal conditions for egg fertilization. It has nothing to do with being turned on...it is the vagina cleaning itself and preparing the environment for the egg's temporary survival. During other times of the cycle, vaginas secrete, generally, a clear, watery fluid that is routine body cleaning and maintenance. You might notice a little more of the clear liquid around the period as the body prepares/finishes shedding the dead skin in the uterus aka a woman's period.
How much and how often this secretion happens as well as the consistency and color variation differs woman to woman. Now, I don't know about others, but the insides of my thighs tend to perspire more when I'm dancing because the muscles are being worked in that area, and my thighs might be rubbing against each other, the chair, or the customer's clothing depending on what I'm doing. It could give the appearance of being wet when the sweat is right up between the thighs.
She's doing a job, OP. I'm sorry, but I doubt she was getting turned on by your manliness.





MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





^It can be and men, in general do not understand this, to the point where I knew a dancer once who wore tampons constantly because she was naturally "moist". Or it can be a sign that this dancer has a problem down there, applied lube to appear "wet" (I don't understand why anyone would, but I have encountered some that do) or she had previously given extras and it was lube, someone else's salvia or worse.
“Give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world” -Marilyn Monroe
"True sexiness has many facets-confidence, strength, intelligence, and humor. It isn’t just about trying to look sexy; it’s an art and one becomes skillful in it when she realizes that there are all these conflicting elements that all come together to make something magical"-Dita Von Teese




I dunno about other guys, but when the ladies see me at the stage with that crisp one dollar bill folded over the rail, chair pushed back so the can see me sporting my tiny tepee, lookout, the waterworks start. I have to start dressing like I'm going to a Gallagher show. Yessir, bouncer calls the guy with the mop bucket when I walk in the door.
Seriously, dude..........
Personally when I've had a couple of drinks and have been gyrating all day or night I tend to get wet, but I'm not turned on.
It's because my body is relaxed from drinking so maybe that's what happened OP.
Hell I'll even throw out there that it's easier to become aroused while performing actions meant to arouse while under the influence of alcohol,
but it most certainly isn't because we are so attracted to you we became wet.
I promise you, sorry.
Hate to break it to guys... she's not into you... she's into your wallet. But whatever you think... of COURSE she wants you!
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Well, let's see, looking through the responses, they go something like this: maybe it's that time of the month, maybe she's sweating, maybe she's intentionally using lube to scam me.
Obviously a lot of "maybes", so no, these responses are pretty far from being explanations with the fewest assumptions. As I've shown, there are a lot of assumptions, with the explanation that most rational people would use in this situation being avoided like the plague. If there was a situation where you saw a guy looking at a beautiful woman and you saw him popping a stiffy, what would you think? Going by the responses, I guess something like: "It's because his pants are chafing him". Hopefully now you see what your arguments look like from the other side.

How, praytell, did this person fake anything that made me want to spend money on her? Doesn't seem like an effective strategy if you're suggesting she wet herself on purpose in hopes that I would touch her pussy so I would buy more dances (which I didn't) without her drawing any attention to it. But of course, I'm the unreasonable one in this thread.

That's how we make our money! lol
Women dont get turned on the same way men do, especially sex workers,
but hey if you wanna believe you're hot shit and disregard all we have said then fine.
You believing the fantasy is the point of our job and whoever gave you that dance and happened to become wet, discharge or arousal from action not attraction, has done her job well enough for you to believing the things you do.



Ladies and gents, I smell a troll. I mean, this is the only the thread the guy's posted on. He wants our "opinions" then immediately discounts them and is starting to make personal claims which looks a hell of a lot like trying to get a rise out of us. He's basically going "fuck biology. I know how all women's minds and bodies work. It doesn't matter that there's several incredibly plausible biological reasons for the wetness; it must be this one incredibly weak theory because I'm a sexy stallion." He could poke through any number of threads to discover just how unsexy we find our jobs.
We're talking to someone who has no interest in the forum beyond the thread he started where he's doing nothing but arguing against and denying everything anyone says. My guess is he's either incredibly desperate because nobody wants him outside the club, so he "needs" to hang onto his theory to validate himself (in which case, OP, of COURSE she's soooo wet for you. I don't want to steal your dreams), or he's a troll.
My vote is troll.





I just don't get why male members ask for opinions and then disregard them when they differ from one already cemented in their minds. He's just excited cuz (he thinks) he got a hot girl wet and wants to brag.

Actually I was thinking of posting on other threads, but naturally, since I made this one, I would be much invested in it. It's also pretty unfair that you accuse me of making personal attacks when you said nothing about a person who made a homophobic attack by posting a pic calling me a cocksucker (which, by the way, got 4 likes). You're also calling me undesirable outside the club while complaining I'm making personal attacks. Please edit your comment and leave out those nasty comments.
Last edited by devil_himself; 07-24-2014 at 01:27 PM.

I have not disregarded anything. I am merely taking part in a discussion. Others on the other hand, have resorted to personal attacks. Your post, for example, accuses me of being some lonely, sexless loser that gets excited about a wet vagina. Many have also liked those personal attacks in an attempt to ostracize and bully me. When the claws come out after someone expresses certain opinions (in this case, a dancer being attracted to a customer), one has to wonder if there are any hidden agendas. So if you wonder why people will "disregard" your opinions, then please look into how you conduct yourselves.
Last edited by devil_himself; 07-24-2014 at 01:29 PM.


Well, I do apologize for the attacks. What I was describing is a trend of trolls, though. If you explore the internet a lot, you know what I mean, and I still think you may be one.
However, you've made it clear that we can't sway your mind, so keep thinking what you want and enjoying the product we sell (which is a fantasy). If you ask her out and she says yes, then more power to you. All I can say is don't be surprised if she says no or gives an unclear answer to keep you hanging and coming back with the hopes of getting a yes.





Maybe she peed her pants.
Btw the women are completely on the mark about the vagina cleaning itself. It does this and it doesn't mean one is turned on.
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