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    Quote Originally Posted by SexedUpCat View Post
    Well, I do apologize for the attacks. What I was describing is a trend of trolls, though. If you explore the internet a lot, you know what I mean, and I still think you may be one.

    However, you've made it clear that we can't sway your mind, so keep thinking what you want and enjoying the product we sell (which is a fantasy). If you ask her out and she says yes, then more power to you. All I can say is don't be surprised if she says no or gives an unclear answer to keep you hanging and coming back with the hopes of getting a yes.
    Well I've been thinking about why my thread has gotten such a negative reaction and my theory about it is it must be resentment out of experiences in the workplace. I realize all of you here deal with constant rejection at work. I imagine there's quite a bit of dismissal over your desirability, so I'm guessing that has caused a certain amount of bitterness towards men like myself. That's what I think, anyway.

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    Well I've been thinking about why my thread has gotten such a negative reaction and my theory about it is it must be resentment out of experiences in the workplace. I realize all of you here deal with constant rejection at work. I imagine there's quite a bit of dismissal over your desirability, so I'm guessing that has caused a certain amount of bitterness towards men like myself. That's what I think, anyway.
    LMAO wow. We don't care about being dismissed at work, if you don't spend money on us, someone else will. There's no shortage of money or customers. That's why we do this. Money. Speaking of money, this site is a place we can be honest without it affecting our money, like it would if we were on the clock right now. We were just trying to give you an anatomy lesson, since you asked for opinions.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    LMAO wow. We don't care about being dismissed at work, if you don't spend money on us, someone else will. There's no shortage of money or customers. That's why we do this. Money. Speaking of money, this site is a place we can be honest without it affecting our money, like it would if we were on the clock right now. We were just trying to give you an anatomy lesson, since you asked for opinions.
    Well, I don't know if I agree with that. There are quite a few dancers who make no money and, looking around this board, there are also quite a few threads complaining how little money there is to be made. Let me ask you, how much do you make per night on average?

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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    Well I've been thinking about why my thread has gotten such a negative reaction and my theory about it is it must be resentment out of experiences in the workplace. I realize all of you here deal with constant rejection at work. I imagine there's quite a bit of dismissal over your desirability, so I'm guessing that has caused a certain amount of bitterness towards men like myself. That's what I think, anyway.
    I can see how it'd come across that way, but you have to look at the flip side. To be honest, I've never had so many men tell me how much they want me in my entire life. The only rejection I get is not wanting a dance, but I've had men constantly telling me how sexy I am, saying things like "Oh what I would do with you..." while I dance, asking me out or for my number...the attention is ridiculous. My confidence is constantly growing. With that, though, it gets tiring when men are constantly trying to do things like grab my breasts or touch my vagina without permission. When they won't stop trying to get my number and when I say no, they go "why not?" and start whining. They keep asking me to have sex with them for money (fine for the girls that do this, but I don't, so I'm not comfortable with it).

    I have bitterness towards men like yourself because it's men like you who won't stop asking me out or trying to get my personal information or touching me. It's irritating. I get you're into it, but I don't like being constantly prodded and groped. I tell you the boundaries, and I expect them to be respected.

    You see, it isn't constant rejection. If it were, we wouldn't be making the amounts of money that we do, so we wouldn't be in the business. It's us constantly having to reject men and play the delicate game of providing entertainment while drawing boundaries and enforcing them. From my experience, it's men that are incredibly insistent that they must turn me on and I must want them that make some of the worst customers because they lose all respect for me and my wishes in their own manly manliness.

    I'm not saying you're the jerk that does all of this (though I really hope you had full permission to touch her vagina), but most men who behave this way are bad customers. They also tend to not tip because our own "enjoyment" is tip enough... It's frustrating.

    Do you want to know my frequent thought while I'm dancing? It's usually along the lines of: Is the DJ making this song longer? Wow, my thighs burn. Dancing is like taking several aerobic classes in a row. Damn! My feet hurt. How long until these shoes break in because I'm sick of all these bloody blisters. Keep sexy... Come on, don't let the customer know that this is a workout. Smile. Eye contact. Ignore your feet and muscles. Whew. Song over. "Aww, I was just getting into it...let's do another!"

    Sorry to break the fantasy here, but there's nothing sexual there for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexedUpCat View Post
    though I really hope you had full permission to touch her vagina
    ??? I didn't ask permission but I didn't think I had to. There have been girls who've taken my hand and had me masturbate them, which brings me to another point, I suppose. Some dancers get really into dances so I think it's fair to say some of them indeed get turned on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    ??? I didn't ask permission but I didn't think I had to. There have been girls who've taken my hand and had me masturbate them, which brings me to another point, I suppose. Some dancers get really into dances so I think it's fair to say some of them indeed get turned on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    Well, I don't know if I agree with that. There are quite a few dancers who make no money and, looking around this board, there are also quite a few threads complaining how little money there is to be made. Let me ask you, how much do you make per night on average?
    1-I stopped dancing cuz of grabby customers, like ones who think they can touch your cunt without permission, I cam now.
    2-While it's none of your business, just as much as I did stripping.
    Anyway, so it doesn't look like I'm threadjacking, please DO let us know what she says if you ask her out, this is gonna be good.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    When men tried to touch me when I was dancing I smacked their hand and said no. Kind of sad that grown men need to be treated like little kids but some have to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetJulia View Post
    1-I stopped dancing cuz of grabby customers, like ones who think they can touch your cunt without permission, I cam now.
    2-While it's none of your business, just as much as I did stripping.
    Anyway, so it doesn't look like I'm threadjacking, please DO let us know what she says if you ask her out, this is gonna be good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    ??? I didn't ask permission but I didn't think I had to. There have been girls who've taken my hand and had me masturbate them, which brings me to another point, I suppose. Some dancers get really into dances so I think it's fair to say some of them indeed get turned on.
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    Silly troll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexedUpCat View Post
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    Silly troll.
    Everything I wrote in that post is 100% true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    ??? I didn't ask permission but I didn't think I had to. There have been girls who've taken my hand and had me masturbate them, which brings me to another point, I suppose. Some dancers get really into dances so I think it's fair to say some of them indeed get turned on.
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    You god damn troll, that or you go to some crusty ass strip clubs that double as whorehouses.
    I've told you a perfectly good reason why what happened to you happened, and my post is the only one you've ignored. I don't think that's coincidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SavannaS View Post
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    You god damn troll, that or you go to some crusty ass strip clubs that double as whorehouses.
    I've told you a perfectly good reason why what happened to you happened, and my post is the only one you've ignored. I don't think that's coincidence.
    I didn't reply to you because I already addressed similar points in other posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    Well I've been thinking about why my thread has gotten such a negative reaction and my theory about it is it must be resentment out of experiences in the workplace. I realize all of you here deal with constant rejection at work. I imagine there's quite a bit of dismissal over your desirability, so I'm guessing that has caused a certain amount of bitterness towards men like myself. That's what I think, anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    Everything I wrote in that post is 100% true.
    I was speaking in reference to not thinking you needed permission to grope strangers. The only person I've met who truly believed groping people without permission was OK was mentally handicapped. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt that you're just a troll.

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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexedUpCat View Post
    I was speaking in reference to not thinking you needed permission to grope strangers. The only person I've met who truly believed groping people without permission was OK was mentally handicapped. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt that you're just a troll.
    I'm not a troll, just confused about why you thought I should have asked. What I meant was that it was clear to me that heavy contact was allowed at that club, which is why I didn't think I needed permission.

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    Sigh* *wonders where Yoda is??


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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    I'm not a troll, just confused about why you thought I should have asked. What I meant was that it was clear to me that heavy contact was allowed at that club, which is why I didn't think I needed permission.
    If you ever find yourself wondering why a dancer would flip out on a customer at work, try checking a reflective surface. You don't listen when the answers you get from girls who DO THIS FOR A LIVING don't match what you want to hear, & apparently you have no concept of personal boundaries.

    Desirability issues? Please -- the girls w/ 'desirability issues' are the ones who encourage outright sex acts bc they are too lazy, greedy or desperate to make $$ any other way, but don't have the balls to jump full-on into escorting.

    'I don't think I need to ask b4 grabbing a girl's privates!'? Seriously? Sounds like you're less of a club hound than a brothel hound if that kind of contact is so normal that asking permission wouldn't even be considered. Just going by your posts in this thread, you sound like the kind of customer who would rationalise sexual assault by saying, 'She was wet, so OBVIOUSLY she wanted it!'

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Sigh* *wonders where Yoda is??
    I think he is on Dagobah training Luke.
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    Quote Originally Posted by safado View Post
    I think he is on Dagobah training Luke.
    I laughed way too hard at that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    If you ever find yourself wondering why a dancer would flip out on a customer at work, try checking a reflective surface. You don't listen when the answers you get from girls who DO THIS FOR A LIVING don't match what you want to hear, & apparently you have no concept of personal boundaries.

    Desirability issues? Please -- the girls w/ 'desirability issues' are the ones who encourage outright sex acts bc they are too lazy, greedy or desperate to make $$ any other way, but don't have the balls to jump full-on into escorting.

    'I don't think I need to ask b4 grabbing a girl's privates!'? Seriously? Sounds like you're less of a club hound than a brothel hound if that kind of contact is so normal that asking permission wouldn't even be considered. Just going by your posts in this thread, you sound like the kind of customer who would rationalise sexual assault by saying, 'She was wet, so OBVIOUSLY she wanted it!'
    My apologies. I just didn't think it was a big deal. Next time I'm there I will ask permission.

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    [email protected] OP and replies....

    Ok, first of all...you come here to ask us a question right and what do we think, right??? We give you legit answers and then you refuse to believe them? Why do guys on this forum do that, I dunno...

    Secondly, let's say she WAS turned on...doesn't mean she's into you. I get turned on by MYSELF being sexy, dancing sexy, being in the atmosphere.

    And DUDE, again, WHY DO GUYS COME HERE, ask us questions to answers WE WOULD KNOW and because it's something they they cannot accept THEY GET SO DEFENSIVE AND HOSTILE.

    If you don't want to hear the truth, then keep imagining that this girl is sooooooooooooooo into you that she got wet but then don't come back here telling us a sob story how this girl used you for your money really wasn't into after all- BECAUSE WE TOLD YOU.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    [email protected] OP and replies....

    Ok, first of all...you come here to ask us a question right and what do we think, right??? We give you legit answers and then you refuse to believe them? Why do guys on this forum do that, I dunno...

    Secondly, let's say she WAS turned on...doesn't mean she's into you. I get turned on by MYSELF being sexy, dancing sexy, being in the atmosphere.

    And DUDE, again, WHY DO GUYS COME HERE, ask us questions to answers WE WOULD KNOW and because it's something they they cannot accept THEY GET SO DEFENSIVE AND HOSTILE.

    If you don't want to hear the truth, then keep imagining that this girl is sooooooooooooooo into you that she got wet but then don't come back here telling us a sob story how this girl used you for your money really wasn't into after all- BECAUSE WE TOLD YOU.
    If you're wondering why guys might not always take your word, well, let me try to illustrate my point with this



    As the title makes clear, it's about dancers' experiences getting turned down by clubs. Reading through the posts, there are all sorts of posts talking about how they got rejected because the club was full, they did not like her tattoos, she's too tall, she's too short, the manager was an idiot, etc. All sorts of reasons, except of course, the most obvious one. Do you get what the point I'm making?

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