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    Dizzy Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    So I'm really clumsy. When it comes to dancing, I can writhe sensuously, or do some sexy belly-dancing moves, but that's it. For now I'm fine with that. There are so many dancing tutorials online that eventually I may be able to learn enough for my camming needs.

    However, for the life of me I can't work out how to actually take my clothes off in a sensual, teasing way, and I can't find any tutorials that say, "This is how you get rid of your shirt sexy-like. This is how you get rid of your bra." Etc. Right now I just take my clothes off normally, but without the sexy tease it takes 30 seconds flat to get naked, which, on cam, is not to my advantage.

    Has anyone got any tips, or a favourite video, or something, that a clumsy person could understand?

    Slothie xx

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    I don't really get the dancing and camming thing...I do not dance! I'd probably lose my customers straight away

    I like to dress up and role play, so I'm always in character...I strip according to the character I've chosen for the day in a scenario I make up and invite them to be the other character who goes with it, if that makes sense. So I'm doing and saying things inbetween taking off each item of clothing.
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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    Wow, this got long. But if you wanna know exactly what I do, here it is.

    Assuming I'm kneeling on my bed and wearing a top, shorts, bra, and panties: Yada yada intro (I'm usually talking, asking questions, etc all through this.) Slowwwwly pull down the zipper on my shorts while swaying my hips a bit, unbutton them, start to slip them down a bit. Turn around, ass to the cam and hands on the bed, kind of rotate my ass in a slow circle going toward/away from the cam. This is super hard to explain but it looks awesome... I'm mostly pivoting on my knees at this point. Straighten up, pull my shorts down to my knees, do the same deal, maybe a bit more of a close-up of my ass/covered puss and maybe throw a spank or two in there. Flip myself onto my ass and pull my shorts the rest of the way off (this is not graceful at all haha.) Get back to kneeling facing the camera, pull my shirt off with my arms crossed, verrrrry slowly, letting them savor my boobs bouncing out of my top and my hair falling back down. Close up of my (covered) boobs, squeeze them a bit. Turn around again, show off my ass the way I did before. Straighten up again (back to the camera) and take off my bra. Show off my ass again and the curve of my waist, tease them a bit with my naked back. Turn back around and shove my boobs in the cam. Play with them a bit. Lean back and try to be sensual, playing with my tits, dragging my finger tips up my thighs, pulling at my panties. Pull them a bit of the way down (not enough to show anything), get back in doggy, ass to the cam, tease them with my ass again. I do this a lot haha. Lot of slow circles, lot of spanking. Then finally slowly pull my panties down to my knees and show off my ass/puss a bit, maybe some tentative fingering (not a full finger-banging, just a slow, single finger sort of deal.) Then more teasing/spanking, lol. Eventually I'll flip over and rubber-band-shoot my panties out of frame.

    This usually takes anywhere from 2-8 min depending on the guy and what I'm wearing. Typing this out was sort of weird since I've never really thought about it step-by-step like this before but I realized that I do essentially the same thing for most of my shows and it's always been well received. I ask them what their favorite body parts are (in a less serial-killer-esque fashion) and take extra time showing those off to the camera, stuff like that. And I do this all very, very slowly. It's really just something that comes with time but hopefully this helps

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    I like to dress up and role play, so I'm always in character...I strip according to the character I've chosen for the day in a scenario I make up and invite them to be the other character who goes with it, if that makes sense.
    It does make sense, and it's a bit of a relief, tbh. Roleplay is my sex work home, as when I was in better health I used to pro-sub. I hope that as time goes on, role-playing dudes will find me. For now it's mostly the "tits pls" brigade.

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    I ask them what their favorite body parts are (in a less serial-killer-esque fashion) and take extra time showing those off to the camera, stuff like that. And I do this all very, very slowly. It's really just something that comes with time but hopefully this helps
    Thank you so much, this is really helpful. I'm going to practise something similar that's adjusted to my body shape, and hopefully my shows will stop being quite so much like a military strip-in-30/dress-in-30 drill.

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    I don't dance on cam. Last night somebody went private and told me to "dance for me bb, sexy dance". Oh no! Super awkward! I feel really self conscious dancing on cam. Oh well, I gave it my best shot while stripping and he seemed to enjoy it!

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    Most guys are happy to drawn into a sexy scenario and it gives me something to go by...I was dressing up and being the sub in role plays with my partner before I started camming, so now I'm a slutty milf who's asking for it
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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    I can't dance lol. I do it if they ask (and feel ridiculous), but in terms of eating a little time, I just show off each body part a bit at a time (tits, pussy, asshole). They love it.
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    Yea I don't dance either. I remember when I first was asked ......I was like I am a cam girl....I don't dance. If someone ask me to dance I tell them I don't and I ask if there is something else I can do for them. 9 out of 10 they find something else for me to do to entertain them.

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    I tried the "showing specific body parts to the camera while talking about them" trick today, and it worked pretty well! Thanks, ladies, I feel much more at ease with my slothy nature

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    I can totally understand where you are coming from here! I am not a dancer, infact I am chubby and extremely clumsy. Combine that with a small working space as opposed to a "stage", a lot of the dancing tutorials don't translate very well to cam. That being said I get guys ALL the time asking me if I am/was a stripper. I don't get it, cuz I am not being modest-I am NOT a good dancer. I will echo the other ladies by saying slow, fluid circular motions are the way to go, talking and flirting. But I think the main thing is not to overthink it. You may feel awkward or self conscios because you don't think you "look" like a dancer or whatever, but these guys chose you! They like Your body and want to see how it moves. I just put on sexy music and dance with how I feel like and I think the confidence is what really sells it, even if you feel like an elephant on rollerskates. They will love it, just do what feels good.

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    It's funny to me reading this, because I have the opposite situation.
    I come from the stripping world, and didn't understand how to cam at first.
    The studio I worked for just told me to 'dance' to attract customers.
    It was the worst thing I could have done. All of that dancing in free chat, might have been great exercise, but it just brought in gawkers and freeloaders.
    I use my dance skills in prvt. and that's what I feel most comfortable doing.
    I agree that slow, and fluid movements are best. Remember that a guy doesn't have to 'touch You to feel You', when you are sensually touching yourself. It translates beautifully.

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    Default Re: Sensual stripping tips for non-dancers

    Something that stuck with me was someone on SW said "don't 'wipe!' your body with your hands, not sexy!"
    touch yourself the way you'd want your lover to touch you, and just sort of sway. You don't have to be a stripper, you don't have to have moves I do not. When I try to dance, I die. Like immediately. Things explode. It's bad

    But if I just sort of gyrate and run my fingers over my body, it's allll good. So take your mind out of "I need to strip and dance" to "sway and show how I'd like to be touched"
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissQuirk View Post
    touch yourself the way you'd want your lover to touch you, and just sort of sway.
    Ha, tried this today - just the swaying and the fingertips, and it was totally comfortable to the point I was turning even myself on

    (Then my skirt button got stuck and things got unsexy for a while, but I don't think the dude noticed.)

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    Ooh yayy!
    Haha, I got stuck in a dress once on cam, either dude didn't notice or he was too polite to say anything >__>


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    Ha, tried this today - just the swaying and the fingertips, and it was totally comfortable to the point I was turning even myself on

    (Then my skirt button got stuck and things got unsexy for a while, but I don't think the dude noticed.)
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