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    I was wondering, is there anyone on this board who likes high contact? I know that some do because some will run your hands over them even if you don't touch them. In my other thread, many of the posters did not believe that a dancer got into the dance and that it was only about money. I'm wondering if there are any of you out there that LOVE dances?

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    I like high contact because it's an easy sell and less work for me than air dances -- getting touched by strangers doesn't even remotely factor into that liking. The vast vast vast majority of the time, the only reason a dancer is letting you run your hands over her body is to try and sell more dances -- not because she likes you touching her. That's not to say we all *hate* it, but just because we don't mind doing it when you're paying us, doesn't mean we *like* it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    I like high contact because it's an easy sell and less work for me than air dances -- getting touched by strangers doesn't even remotely factor into that liking. The vast vast vast majority of the time, the only reason a dancer is letting you run your hands over her body is to try and sell more dances -- not because she likes you touching her. That's not to say we all *hate* it, but just because we don't mind doing it when you're paying us, doesn't mean we *like* it.
    But what about those who move your hands to their body even if you keep your hands to yourself?

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    I don't mind touching tbh as long as the customer is not gross. I just hate guys licking my nipples or touching my vagina.

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    Basically this guy wants to know if you've ever been so attracted to a customer that you let him touch you wherever he wants because you're turned on by him.
    He had damn never 20 or so dancers tell him what you summarized for us Shanna.

    OP for fuck's sake, give it a rest.

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    Devil, you mimic what hundreds of other guys have asked on here in the past, though you seem to be a little more aggressive in the asking than most!

    Most of those guys found out the hard way that what they believed to be the case simply wasn't true. I'm not sure how much experience you've had in strip clubs. I've had close to a decade. I'd say roughly half of the dancers I've taken to the vip will take my hand and put it on her chest, ass, or between her legs. Of those, do you know how many I've taken for free OTC fun? One. How many I've dated? One (different girl). How many became actual friends? Two. It's incredibly rare. Yet every few weeks or so some guy comes on here knowing for sure he's got the real thing. I'm not denying that what you're saying is possible. I'm saying what little evidence you've acquired so far is not near enough to know the truth. And until you have enough evidence, you'd be smart to not give the benefit of the doubt. You will get burned. Probably with this girl. But if not her, then someone else!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genoveve View Post
    Most likely doing it hoping you'll assume her instigation of contact means she is into you sexually and that that will make your $$$ flow.
    This. In clubs where it's not standard, it's because they are hoping you'll either get the idea more dicey contact will happen (and thus buy more dances) or that you'll just enjoy it more than a no-touch dance (and thus buy more dances).

    I do work in a high contact club and it does make it easier to sell dances. I am generally suspicious of anyone who DOESN'T touch me during one because they may be vice and trying to find an excuse to write me a ticket. However, I do NOT enjoy strangers touching me. The only enjoyment I get out of a dance is either watching the guy become completely entranced (and thus draining his wallet) or the end of it (when he pays me).

    So uh... yeah. Sorry to burst your bubble in yet another thread, but it does revolve around money for us. Not even the "stereotypical" dancers with self-esteem/need for attention issues would do this for free. Sure, there might be fetishists who get turned on getting naked for strangers, but they find other outlets besides employment at a strip club... I've been in the industry for 5 years and never found one of those, which seem to be what you're looking for.
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    Do I allow contact (in areas where it is legal) yes, but I allow it for two reasons: 1) generally means more $$$ for me & 2) easier for me to know at all times where his hands are. I despise contact, to be honest, & that is not necessarily anything personally against a customer -- I am just not a people person.

    I am clear from the beginning abt what is acceptable to me & what is off-limits. Can I appreciate a physically attractive customer? Certainly, male & female both. But pushing the boundaries I have set is not tolerated from any of my customers, for any amt of $$$ or hotness.

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    Oh, for the love of ____, another thread of this, really???


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    Whirlerz you know what to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SavannaS View Post
    Basically this guy wants to know if you've ever been so attracted to a customer that you let him touch you wherever he wants because you're turned on by him.
    He had damn never 20 or so dancers tell him what you summarized for us Shanna.

    OP for fuck's sake, give it a rest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    I was wondering, is there anyone on this board who likes high contact? I know that some do because some will run your hands over them even if you don't touch them. In my other thread, many of the posters did not believe that a dancer got into the dance and that it was only about money. I'm wondering if there are any of you out there that LOVE dances?
    Enjoy the experience, enjoy the thoughts in your head, but remember women are doing this for a reason, to make money. I suggest you go and read the Hustle Hut section and get a bit of education before you post again.
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    oh for god's sake. i don't like "air dances" because it puts a horrible strain on my legs, and i don't have too many air dance moves..its also more money to do light contact. these girls are putting your hands on them to get more money out of you and to make you think they enjoy it. they most likely do it with every customer. i don't HATE a little bit of contact, but i don't enjoy it either. its just my job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bone View Post
    Enjoy the experience, enjoy the thoughts in your head, but remember women are doing this for a reason, to make money. I suggest you go and read the Hustle Hut section and get a bit of education before you post again.
    I thought they did it because the Devil himself made them do it. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    This. In clubs where it's not standard, it's because they are hoping you'll either get the idea more dicey contact will happen (and thus buy more dances) or that you'll just enjoy it more than a no-touch dance (and thus buy more dances).

    I do work in a high contact club and it does make it easier to sell dances. I am generally suspicious of anyone who DOESN'T touch me during one because they may be vice and trying to find an excuse to write me a ticket. However, I do NOT enjoy strangers touching me. The only enjoyment I get out of a dance is either watching the guy become completely entranced (and thus draining his wallet) or the end of it (when he pays me).

    So uh... yeah. Sorry to burst your bubble in yet another thread, but it does revolve around money for us. Not even the "stereotypical" dancers with self-esteem/need for attention issues would do this for free. Sure, there might be fetishists who get turned on getting naked for strangers, but they find other outlets besides employment at a strip club... I've been in the industry for 5 years and never found one of those, which seem to be what you're looking for.
    Nope, usually this takes place in a high contact club.

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    Best.Thread. Evaaa.

    Especially after scouting for sugardaddies at a local bar tonight n coming home with zilch BC my lightweight friend wanted to BS with the "cute" young guys instead of chatting it up with the potential sugar daddy/client/custie who invited us out in his hot red Ferrari..yowwww. :-/

    This is pretty Grey Goose inspired, but ladies, stay true to the hustle! XD I love the no B.S. attitudes in this thread..the essence of a real woman is captured here! I WILL say that there have been some custies that I don't mind getting ratchet with/high contact, but it's typically a very good regular and I'm able to think in terms of hundreds with him, not ones or 10s. And ya, at that point, he becomes pretty "cute." Lmao..
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    Best.Thread. Evaaa.

    Especially after scouting for sugardaddies at a local bar tonight n coming home with zilch BC my lightweight friend wanted to BS with the "cute" young guys instead of chatting it up with the potential sugar daddy/client/custie who invited us out in his hot red Ferrari..yowwww. :-/

    This is pretty Grey Goose inspired, but ladies, stay true to the hustle! XD I love the no B.S. attitudes in this thread..the essence of a real woman is captured here! I WILL say that there have been some custies that I don't mind getting ratchet with/high contact, but it's typically a very good regular and I'm able to think in terms of hundreds with him, not ones or 10s. And ya, at that point, he becomes pretty "cute." Lmao..
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    Quote Originally Posted by GypsyLace View Post
    I'm really interested in why exactly the OP feels such a strong desire to keep posting this.
    Because that is what trolls do. They get some perverse pleasure in fishing for strong reactions from others. I've never understood this mentality myself, but I guess that some people feel so powerless, and are so desperate for attention, that getting a rise from other anonymous posters on an Internet discussion board holds value for them. It is why most of these boards are forced to have Moderators, because trolls will do it forever if you let them.

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    *Has been waiting for Rick to weigh in..


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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Because that is what trolls do. They get some perverse pleasure in fishing for strong reactions from others. I've never understood this mentality myself, but I guess that some people feel so powerless, and are so desperate for attention, that getting a rise from other anonymous posters on an Internet discussion board holds value for them. It is why most of these boards are forced to have Moderators, because trolls will do it forever if you let them.
    Really ladies. This is just a dude looking for both attention and humiliation through ego-beating from a fuckload of hot strippers.
    You're all feeding the troll, gourmet all-you-can-eat buffet attention right now.

    Make the fucker pay for it at least.
    For $400 I'll straddle your lap work my knee that special way, slide your hands onto my spectacular designer rack, and moan into your ear everything you want to hear and more, and i'll even swear that I'm telling you the truth while i do it. for an hour!
    pay up or otherwise fuck the hell off.
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    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Because that is what trolls do. They get some perverse pleasure in fishing for strong reactions from others. I've never understood this mentality myself, but I guess that some people feel so powerless, and are so desperate for attention, that getting a rise from other anonymous posters on an Internet discussion board holds value for them. It is why most of these boards are forced to have Moderators, because trolls will do it forever if you let them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devil_himself View Post
    For a minute there I thought you were talking about yourself. But you're more like those "tough" men that drive jacked up pick ups (a complete abomination if you ask me. Trucks are meant for work: not some pretty boy toy)...you're overcompensating

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    Lol dh. I'm not often confused for a white knight. But I'm sure that it's much easier to label guys who interact maturely with dancers as white knights than it is to cope with whatever problems you have with women that lead you to posting misogynistic material in the first place.

    Your screen name is new, but your blatantly baiting questions in several posts and your use of certain terminology common to strip club sites make it pretty clear that you are not new to posting about clubs and dancers, whether it is here or on customer boards or both. That last silly little post just confirmed that you are a troll. I'm guessing that, with Yoda basically MIA for the last few weeks, you are trying the waters to see what you can get away with.

    Not cool dude.
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