
Originally Posted by
thatgirl00
It's a party environment, so have fun & people will want to party with you. You don't have to learn any tricks, unless YOU feel it's necessary. It's all about YOU, & they will either like you or they won't. Veteran club goers admire 'different', look like everyone else and you will get treated like everyone else. Plus, everyone likes something new every now and then!! Understand that most people aren't paying unless you're fucking. Pray for discernment and be appreciative of & respect the 'real ones' who will let you know what they want up front. They might diss you initially, but the truth always prevails, & when their go-to hoe is unavailable, if you stay friendly & open, you'll be the first one they'll come looking for when the opportunity arises. Have goals and know what you want, and never settle for less.
Don't let the smoky mirrors fool you. A lot of the 'paid/top' dancers have a lot of people in their pockets/bed lol. It's the sex industry no matter what, and while they may not be fucking the customers, they probably have a good relationship with the DJ or the owner. Keep your eyes open, don't entertain talk. Stay cool and remember your motive-MONEY!!!!!
As far as looks go, dress for YOU. You know what you feel sexy in. Men smell sexy, they don't see it lol. Ass is everywhere and so are titties, what makes yours special is YOU! So once again, you're in the business of selling yourself. Once you're friends out the club, don't expect shit in it-unless it's a favor for a favor. You can have your 'friends' throw you money inside to draw attention, but you'll have to give it back when the night is over.
That's how the urban market is- favor for a favor, and the other party must always feel like they got the most bang for their buck. Figure out what you have to offer & sell it like it's going out of style.
You should try getting popular on social media...everybody wants to be/feel like a star. Be a celebrity, and the minions will come. Treat everybody like they're somebody & you won't restrict yourself to 'types'. Get your money in all the ways you're comfortable with, because if you keep your ears and eyes open, you will discover that there are too many ways to skin those cats!!
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