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    I wasn't sure where to post this, but I figure this forum is the best place for advice I can trust. I have a situation I will try to explain as simply as possible but it will be long.

    Ok, so I'm 33 (told I look 24-25), recently divorced, trauma after trauma the past 10 mo., moved to Las Vegas, live in a house w/ my brother, his wife & her sister, drowning in debt, just decided to start dancing, need my own space, found an amazing home in a mansion like house in a gated community, pool of my dreams, caves, waterfalls, lighting..

    owner of the house owns 7 businesses...he's legit rich...super elite social circles in Vegas, Beverly Hills, and Dubai...seen all the proof down to photos with numerous celebrities, business docs and websites...knows Im a dancer...has taken a liking to me...knows every manager to every club I've always wanted to work at, has called his friend at spearmint rhino about me working there but I'm just way too intimidated to start at such a huge club..but whether or not he is legit isn't my concern at this point. The fact I know he is legit is what scares me as he is now talking working with me as he knows my background as an executive assistant. He's told me super sensitive business info & shown me financial statements.

    Promises he has made thus far: my breast implants for free by his friend, new wardrobe for work, a position as an executive assistant for 3 of his 7 companies, a business trip to Dubai in 2 weeks, VIP hookups at the club I am going to be dancing at, all my student loans paid off, and a $30,000 per month, yes month, salary + expense account. On top of building my resume & providing a cover for dancing as well as a way out within months if I want. (but I actually love dancing from the little I've done so far so want to keep dancing regardless for as long as I can)..

    Problem: I'm naive & have been thinking I could keep this on a professional only level. I've given absolutely no reason for him to assume otherwise except that I dance I guess if that's even a reason. I don't know, this is Vegas. I thought I had made that clear, yet tonight in regards to my implants I swear he said something about "seeing alot of me in that regard" and he just texted asking if it's ok to start buying me gifts. He asked my shoe size. He also mentioned me wearing lingerie while we are working. Ok, now I see I think I've been naive as hell and I guess what I'm asking if you ladies think there is any way possible to get this to a professional level and still take advantage of the opportunity in any way, shape, or form...or am I kidding myself?

    I'm about to move into this guy's house & am freaked at the possibility of moving in...then having to deal with this. So I have to make my feelings clear now. I responded to his message saying I felt bad taking things I haven't earned. I'm waiting for his reply. I don't have anything against those who do, but I just can't be sexual with this guy no matter how I think about it. I'm cool with wearing lingerie but that is as far as that goes. He's over 70...looks 50 though...ex wives are playmate level...he's attractive for his age, no doubt....if there ever was a 100% perfect sugar daddy this would be the guy. But I just can't. But then I think about how shitty my life has been & this is the opportunity of a lifetime & wonder if there is anyway around this to keep it professional and get these ideas out of his head....but thinking that's when he will likely tell me to kick rocks if he's thinking along those lines.

    I've already paid the deposit and am supposed to move in Friday, although he wants me around everyday as I think he's lonely...says he wants us to "become best friends" and "business partners" ...I know in life you don't get something for nothing, but I've made it super clear that I am more than willing to work hard and am all about my independence. I don't know, creep factor is near zero with this guy, he's really actually sweet & very smart. Makes this feel impossible...like I'd be a complete idiot to walk away from this for any reason. He talks about me taking over when he can't work anymore because all his friends are "only out for money" and he has "no kids or heirs." I feel like no matter what I do...it will be wrong.

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    Yeah. You're gonna have to bang him. Sounds like a good daddy situation though, I know many a gal who wouldn't think to pass it up.
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    Huh?

    Why would you be paying to live there?

    Why would you still be dancing? Most guys that are giving you that kind of money insist that you stay far away from strip clubs.

    I would not count on this experience as a resume builder. Most likely he will get super pissed at you about something and that will be the end.

    Can you do it for a couple months and make sure you have the cash and then just walk away with 60k minus expenses? Make sure you use a condom when you have sex with this guy!!! He will def be having (paid) sex with others at the same time!!

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    Or don't use a condom, get knocked up, and instead of a few thousands, you'll be 'set' for life.
    My older self tells my younger self that I missed the boat on this over 20 years ago, when I had the chance.
    instead, I believed all my 'rich' dude's lies, and was left penniless.

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    Few things:

    Rich older men (especially the really high net worth self made ones) get to the top because they are extremely savvy and sometimes dangerously smart. Inside, I don't ever kid when I ever mix with them even if I might act like I'm cool with everything they say. I used to be on friendly terms with a billionaire - actually a very funny, sweet and downright ridiculous man at times but underneath it all this man was sharp as a knife. Some people would take this playful facade at face value, but when people left the things he would say about them would show me how he was always thinking ten steps ahead.

    If this guy is clearly setting the ground rules for what he wants from this arrangement with you, you need to be firm about what you expect in return. It's not a one-way deal. Sure, what he's putting on the table sounds good, but if you look at it relatively, who is giving more? Relatively for him, $30K a month is probably peanuts. A business trip every fortnight is nothing. And he's getting his pal to do your boob job. Relatively for you, sleeping with this guy might emotionally really set you back - you've already had to deal with a lot of shit to get to this stage of personal growth, so you have to weigh up how much this arrangement really is worth to you if sex is part of the deal. If he does really like you, then this is a situation he should be willing to at least hear your views on.

    Another thing, this guy may indeed be for real but always keep to the back of your mind if he may be baiting you. You are attractive. Also judging from what you've written, you're possibly also vulnerable. He may have picked up on that (unless you have shared this with him). Some sugardaddies are notorious for targeting vulnerable females with big promises. You even said, these are "promises he has made thus far" - not things he has done thus far. I don't know how long you've known him but has actually given/done anything to show good intentions yet? Call me skeptical but he might also be trying to lower your defenses/create a bond with you by sharing carefully selected 'sensitive business info' with you. If you want to pursue something with him, don't believe in promises, believe in actions (and they must come from a gentleman - that is one thing that you shouldn't compromise on).

    Chances are he is used to meeting lots of young women all the time and knows how to deal with them. I would suggest that before you even take your interactions with him further, you need to be sure you can be pleasantly assertive in your dealings with him. If this is going to be an arrangement that lasts for a while, make sure you both actually talk about your expectations so that there is no confusion (you never know, he might be fine with sexy companionship instead of intercourse even if only for a while). But you will have to be able to say the word "No" firmly when you need to. I sometimes think that this is a downfall that a lot of girls have when it comes to dealing with powerful men and that's why a lot of them end up feeling used and getting walked all over. And even if the arrangement doesn't work out, I still suggest keeping on good terms with him. He might still be able to help you out and become a great ally down the line.


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    Well, I think you're going to HAVE to fuck him but talk to him about it FIRST. Will you get ur 30G BEFORE fucking him or after? I would be worried about that. Most girls I know wouldn't pass it up. They would lie back and close their eyes, get it over with, and have 30G in the bank more than they had before..even without the boobjob and other perks. He's trying to buy you gifts? Let him ! By saying you don't think you've earned it, you're basically saying you WANT to earn it IE FUCK HIM so you're setting yourself up to have to have intercourse. Figure out what you want, and talk to him about it but...my inkling is he isn't going to be paying 30G a month for someone to file papers for him..

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    ^^^^ This is what I was thinking of OP, the whole time I read your description of this guy & the perks he is offering you.

    Djoser's opening post in this thread is smtg that I would apply not just to club scouting, but networking as your loaded gentleman friend seems to be encouraging you to do. Union Jackie put it much more succinctly than I ever could, but I will re-iterate -- this guy did not become this successful thru luck or accident, & I would highly doubt that you are the first young lady he's tried to dazzle w/ all of his wealth & perks. I also got the impression from your post that you may be in smtg of a vulnerable position emotionally; think of how many guys we meet ITC who are just run-of-the-mill predators that specifically seek out the girls they see as more vulnerable. In the chess-like power struggle that certain SC customers entertain, this guy could well be a Life Master. If you are going to consider taking him up on all of these offers he is dangling in front of you, then you need to be very certain for yourself of what you can & cannot tolerate, & you need to make that very clear to him. I agree this could be the chance of a lifetime, but if your bullshit meter starts dinging, you may have to just take it as the dodged-bullet of a lifetime & be prepared to walk away.

    One point further -- if you are seriously considering getting your BA done thru his friend, do your own research into his qualifications rather than just taking this guy's word for it.

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    LMAO

    Good luck with that.

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    LMAO

    Good luck with that.

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    Oh yes the boob job is not something to take lightly. If you get a bad boob job, sometimes the damage is irreversible so make sure this guy is the best of the best or buy your own boob job with your own money.

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    I am confused, you paid a deposit to live with a man who is going to pay you $30,000 a month?

    So you will be his assistant for 3 companies & dance?

    You think any man is going to move you in, pay you $30,000 a month & NOT want sex? Are you delusional? There are plenty of hot gals who would live there for free & fuck him for the gifts alone. I bet you never see a dime of that $30,000.

    Once you get to Dubai he will sell you off & then you are a sex slave to be disposed of once they are done.

    No man moves a gal in& NOT expect sex. They are MEN after all.
    NO man pays a gal $30,000 to keep him company & NOT expect sex.
    No man gets a gal a boob job & NOT expect to play with them.
    No man buys a gal lots of gifts, expensive or not & NOT expect SEX.

    Even if you do work for him, everyone will know you sucked his old dick for the job & NEVER take you seriously.

    Did you throw common sense out the door? Of course he asked your sizes, but bet he hasn't bought you a single thing.

    On top of this, this is VEGAS mega con artist place of the fucking world. Tell tell sign is that you had to give him a deposit to move in. Showing you financial statements, LMAO anyone can type those up on a computer. Con artist trick to reel you in. Mega rich men, even just millionaires do NOT rent out rooms to rent in their homes even if they claim to be lonely. LMAO

    If you are hot enough, you don't need him to get a job at a good strip club in Vegas. Vegas isn't that big of a town, all the con artist know the guys who run strip clubs & such. He brings in a hot gal who will work the VIP rooms & suck dick, bet he gets paid by the manager for bringing you in for the job. Vegas people are shady. Then the club management will expect you to pay them a % of those VIP room deals.

    You are to old & know better.

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    OK, thank you ladies so much for the helpful advice. And to the post littered with LMAO...not helpful, needed & I didn't really read it as I couldn't through all your sarcasm...nor do I care for that type of opinion. I need constructive, meaningful advice right now but thanks for your time.

    Moving on..

    To those who have taken the time to offer your thoughts and advice thank you SO much! You have told me some great information. I know for a fact that he has done this as he mentions his "ex girlfriends" and has shown me their pictures...I'm not the first, that is for sure.

    Regarding working for him & all the perks..I know you don't get something for nothing in life which is why I'm in this forum asking questions...I know there is a sexual element to this somewhere..guess I just need to figure out how to define it before Friday. I am SUPER vulnerable and yes he knows this..down to the painful ugly details. I am also super naive being new to Las Vegas, I've met nothing but con artists, pervs, time wasters, and people full of absolute shit so my meter is up for sure..I've done my internet research. I plan to continue dancing because I want to dance & so I will. He said I'll be allowed to dance 3-4 nights per wk working w/ him when I'm not at the club. He has made no secret about wanting to basically control my entire life. Down to eating, sleeping, exercise, all medical and dental work done all that. He has also made it no secret he wants me spending tons of time with him to learn as much as I can. He has pretty much laid everything out...ie..wearing lingerie around the house ect...on the line...just no mention of sex. Except...

    We were talking about one of his girlfriends who ended up setting up a companion site for her VIP connections she met. Said she was getting paid $15,000 to chill....now I've read the debates about this topic on this forum & so I asked him if that's for real...is it really possible to make that kind of money without compromising myself...his response was there are tons of wealthy baby boomers who've been married forever, bored w/ their wives, high profile so nobody to talk to that they can trust. He said yes they pay for companionship because most can't even get it up anymore!

    OK. I'm sorry this is gonna be a stupid question. Is this true? Can a 73 year old even get it up anymore? I feel like him saying that at least throws it out there that it's possible he can't even have sex but again...maybe I'm just naive here....

    I mean I'm down for many things...I'll even be a wing woman and go pick up women for him. Lingerie in the house I can do...guys see me at the club for less...even giving over control of my time I can do for this type of money...plus I need constant business to keep my mind occupied or I go downhill mentally...but sex I just don't see happening. Even if I were able to manage to do it once...I would start to look at him different & will live my life dreading the next time he hits on me. Since I'm moving in his house that will be a huge huge problem and will blow this situation up within 1 week having me wanting to move out. The thing that is even making this seem doable to me is the fact I actually like him & his personality...I've tried this sugar daddy thing before & theres a reason I've never gotten anywhere...I have to really have some type of interest when it gets to that level..I can fake it in the club but not otherwise. Shit...40 years ago I would've been all over this dude...but I'm currently messing with a 24 year old so I'm more the cougar type haha

    I think whatever happens...I'm about to learn some major life lessons one way or another...I appreciate the response I had no idea so many would reply..I will make an effort to keep this thread updated, whatever happens good or bad as I really appreciate having you ladies to talk to...I'm kind of alone in this city so it means so much.

    And to clarify...I answered an ad for a room for rent & paid the deposit as the pool is amazing...yes I googled the ad, the pictures in the ad, the phone number, the address, his name, and every one of his 7 companies...I've been here long enough to know ads on the internet here are 98% scams whether it's for a job, house, gig, or shit for sale people here are simply full of shit trying to exploit people. I am still learning about the businesses, haven't worked much except emails...he wants me over there constantly though I can't always make it...mostly I just listen to him talk & learn about all that's going on..do my research...I'm set to move in this Friday...he said he rents it as he is never there & is usually in Dubai or California...he has 2 guys renting now...a 20 something from Chicago has been there awhile and likes him although they say they never see each other...which I was excited about except now I guess the plan is I would be traveling with him. The other guy has the room I'm taking over.

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    sounds like a grade a sex trafficker.

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    Don't ignore your own intuition.

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    Millionaires do NOT rent rooms out to other people.

    I know many millionaires & about 3 billionaires NONE of them would turn their homes into a boarding house.

    They have staff, they may let a friend live in the pool house. NONE of them have paying roommates.

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    I'm sorry, but I can't get past the fact that you PAID A DEPOSIT when he wants to hire you, get you boobs and give you $30k a month salary. The saying "if it's too good to be true, it probably is" is highly applicable here, I guarantee it. I've done the sugar daddy thing and not once did I ever pay for anything. I even had a rough circumstance and lived in a room at a guy's house for a few months and I didn't pay a dime. Unless you want to go to Dubai only to likely never return, I'd get the fuck out. Now. Best of luck to you, be safe. There are better and safer ways to get yourself out of debt.

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    Sounds like sex trafficking or a weird pimp situation. Avoid at all costs.
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    Pussy is truly the great uniter.

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    OP, please be careful, this story does not sound right. Your guy might be different, but all the especially wealthy guys that I have known (and had relationships with) had one thing in common - they were excellent with their finances. In other words, they would not spend money unless they thought they are getting a good deal. I have seen people worth many millions, with numerous houses, condos, boats and planes, cut out coupons from the paper, even before the recession. It's an ego thing. They look at spending money as an investment. Also, please don't take it the wrong way, but most of them prefer someone very young for an arrangement like this, maybe early to mid 20s. Of course, there are exceptions. Also, a man like that would not have to look for anyone, women would chase him themselves, and would fight till the end over him. People like that are very known in communities. Finally, controlling may mean violent. My gut feeling is saying that there's something going on, and it's not good.
    Best if luck to you, and keep us posted!

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    If you aren't dead or a sex slave in a few months, please come back and tell us how horrible it turned out to be. Other girls could learn an important lesson from this ridiculously stupid bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    I am confused, you paid a deposit to live with a man who is going to pay you $30,000 a month?

    Sam
    What Sam, you've never heard of those Nigerian princes who will give you millions of their fortune if you just send them a couple grand? This is basically the same exact thing so I'm sure it's totally legit.

    LMAO, this is too rich. Is his name Dave or Rick, OP? Because those are two men in Vegas who routinely pull this exact scam on idiot women. I'm sure there are many more than just those two since this crap sadly works over and over again.

    And big wow at him showing you pictures of other women. Obviously that means he's for real. Pimps, psychos and con artists are not allowed to have pictures of women.

    Seriously though, I hope you don't die or end up raped or anything. What you're doing is beyond stupid though. You should know better at your age.

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    Giiiirl, this sounds super sketchy. I think this piece of advice is particularly relevant for you: trust no one and always have an exit plan. Do what you want, but assume this guy has bad intentions, and always know where the door is.

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    Just going on all you have posted so far, OP: you would be a bloody fool to take this guy up on his offer. Just, walk away, plz. Your intuition is telling you smtg important here -- it's telling you that all of these things he is dangling are not being dangled out of boredom or the goodness of his heart. Listen to it.

    Plenty of women make it in Vegas w/o selling themselves out as this guy is asking of you. Those that don't make it, they go elsewhere. You've said nothing good abt your experiences in Vegas so far, & even if you were not in this vulnerable state, your naïveté is certainly doing you no favours.

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    if your avatar is you then you shoukd have no issues getting hired at any vegas club and making bank. girls that have never been to vegas ir dancrd at the big clubs overhype them way too much. its not miss america, theres no talent portion or costume fittings and guys dont expect you to backflip into each lap dance. theyre just bigger than usual clubs that have mostly attractive girls. your audition for both is just you getting into a bikini and thats it. i guarantee that if you are "brought into" a club the managers will treat you like they do the other sex trafficking victims, whereas if you just show up like everyone else you will have minimal contact with them at most and can just do your own thing.

    im really worried about you which is why im writing out so much. i know you say you have debt but in vegas that can be easily payed off. here is the better way to do that:
    1) ask for your deposit back and if you dont get it back, dont worry about it. its not worth it, especially in vegas.
    2) find your own apartment so you can have your own sense of autonomy. you can get a nice 1 bedroom for 700-800 easily. i recommend lasvegasliving.com. theyre a really lovely and professional property management group that owns a ton of apartments all over vegas. they all have pools, gyms, and a lot also have private garages.
    3) start working 3 normal days a week at whatever club you are at and stick to that. same hours, same days.
    4) 1 extra day a week, try something new. audition at a new cub, work different hours, different days. remember that you can leave clubs for a really long time and still stay on the roster so go get on the roster at the top clubs (sr, sapphire, the horse, ch3, og, treasures, hustler, palomino, ld, might be more im forgetting).
    5) keep up this schedule of 3 days:regular, 1 day:different but feel free to change your regular club or shift. ive been working a lot of 3am shifts lately and have been doing great and its helping me not get burnt out.
    6) work out 5 days/week. not because you need to lose weight, but because you need to be fit to do well in vegas. the shifts can be long and exhausting so you need strong muscles and endurance.
    7) get involved in a social activity outside of work. book club, yoga class, whatever. or take a class at one of the colleges. itll keep you sane.
    your monthly expenses should stay under 2k/month.
    9) for every 1k you directly pay off your debt, give yourself 100 to treat yourself. i recommend at least at first to buy things for your home (like nice sheets) or beauty things that you can do yourself (like at home waxing or gel nails) and waiting a few months before you get really lavish. youll appreciate these nice things at home and it will motivate you to go to work. itll also keep you from stressing out over money if you dont spend a ton on nails and hair each month.

    this might seem basic but sometimes we need to be reminded of basic self preservation like this. i forget some of this stuff all the time and have to remind myself to get back on track. anyway, take care of yourself and please dont go near this guy. vegas has the cheapest cost of living ive ever seen. you can definitely find your own nice apartment.


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    You can't put a price on independence, pride, or self-reliance. And regret happens to be one of the most difficult and destructive emotions.

    This is an important time for you, OP. If you pull through this rough patch on your own, and crawl out of this hole without outside help, you'll be unstoppable for the rest of your life. Dependence is a tough pattern to break.

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    I worked with a girl who was human trafficked and it started out much the same way.

    Do not do this.

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