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    Hello stripperweb! I have been dancing for almost 7 months now, but I still feel shy and clueless towards female/ couple costumers, I don't know what to say, even though they usually tip me very well on stage, I don't know how to hustle them. I have given less than 5 dances to females or couples but they all have approached me. What are some pick up lines I can use? do you have any good experience you can share? I am usually very nice and I crack jokes but I don't know how to ask for dances or champagne rooms, any tips would be much appreciated, thanks!!
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    Most women are just looking to have one dance so I only approach if there are no one else to go to. I will probably start off by complimenting on something they are wearing "I love your shoes/dress/necklace/lipstick!" and then have a little girly chat. They usually have loads of questions to ask so conversation is usually easy. To be honest I don't waste much time, no need for any lines with women, a pretty straight forward "would you like a dance" is usually enough.
    For couples, it's best to give most of the attention to the woman, but I believe there is loads on this subject if you do a search on here!

    (I did have a lesbian regular a few years back, with her the hustle was the same as with any man.)

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    Quite frankly civilian vagina isn't worth it IME. They're worse than any male customer because they think that a vagina gives them an EZ Pass to Gropeville. They're like clipping coupons: too much trouble (more than they're worth) to get a few extra dollars. They either want to be us or they hate us.
    You'll figure that out in your own time though. I always say bringing female customers in is like bringing sand to the beach.

    If you absolutely must approach 99.9% of these creatures try the "It's us vs. the boys" routine. I've found that works with the female customers that I actually like and don't want to punch in the throat.
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    OMG ... I must put my 2cnts in on this post. Couples and women custys make me soo incredibly uncomfortable especially the jeoulous girlfriends that shouldn't come to a strip club I the first place if they cant handle the environment. I have done about maybe 4 dances with couples in my 2-3 yr dancing lol and that was only because they payed top money upfront and you never walk away from $$ but usually I try to avoid them.

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    The only ones I've ever had good experiences with are usually older women who take care of themselves or skinny hot young ones.
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    Fuck female customers. They're entitled bitches who want Cirque du Soleil performances on stage, and then molest your during lap dances.


    They're last resorts in the club.
    Get a few buck, do a few dances and move on to better customers.


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    I'm a camgirl, not a stripper, so I usually use the forum down below. I've never got a dance on my own, but on my birthday a long time ago I went with my (now) husband. I understand why we had a hard time finding a girl to dance for us. Eventually the shooter girl found us a girl, and she hustled us (we were quite willing) for, I don't know, at least 10 dances. It was a great time. I didn't grope, neither did he, actually she did the groping, then charged us double. I didn't mind but whew she did a great hustle, had us really believe she was into it and especially me. It was like magic. I get why she charged us double, even though she was only lapdancing one of us at a time, she was actually *entertaining* the two of us at once.
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    I've hated female customers usually, and most women do. However I'm greedy lol so I find they can also be an easy target
    I don't go up to women who are alone, just to clarify. I go up to couples. The men will be the spenders unless its a sugar momma/sugar baby situation which I've experienced. I only approach women who are clearly lesbian, not the ones who are 'bicurious' for the night because ultimately they aren't focused on you or you getting money they just want attention from the guys around them and to look 'cool' at your expense. These are the worst customers possible and must avoid at ALL costs. Even when they come to your stage these are the ones who want to get a lesbian show for a dollar. Be graceful so you don't look like a major bitch on stage but take the dollar as quickly as possible and move on or start collecting from other people/dance do tricks.

    I don't waste time with couples. I usually offer them a dance and a more expensive one because I literally need a bigger room to be able to dance for both of them plus its fair because its two people. I always approach kindly but with purpose, don't know how to explain. Basically in a way that gives them the air that I'm giving them a really good opportunity (most girls don't even bother with them) and I'm totally okay if they'd don't take it, also when I walk over to the dance rooms and explain that they should get the bigger one for $10 dollars more for a better quality dance otherwise it would be an air dance. Also, couples tend to try to discuss if they want the dance or not, I don't have time for this. If they want to talk about it like its a car purchase I tell them I will be back at a later time if I get a chance or for them to grab me if they decide to go. I make sure to be friendly and remind them of my name. Often times they'll find me for a dance.
    I think with everyone but women in particular its important to be confident and establish who the boss is before you even walk up to them. Be careful with couples, sometimes they're swingers or interested in living out a fantasy and think a strip club is an okay place to act it out. A woman's money is just as green as the next guy so same rules. Its just a dance.

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    thank you love!

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    I won't go up to a couple unless there ins't anyone left to hustle in the room. That being said, I always introduce myself to her FIRST then her bf/husband and then I automatically compliment her on something, ask where she got it, etc. THEN, I go on with my usual questions (have they been here before, what brings them in tonight, etc) then I ask if they would like a dance.

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    I just wanted to make a thread about this, not really how to hustle them but why it is they think that having a vagina gives them a free pass to grope my breasts, ass, or vagina. If it's not cool for the guy you're with to do it, it's certainly not cool for you to do it. Hubby and I have been to SC's before and most of the time girls don't approach us, we usually drink and I end up finding a girl, telling her I'm in the industry and we're bored and felt like seeing a new pair of tits in person so she should come dance for him, I buy him 3 floor dances and let the girl keep the rest of the hundred as a tip. Then we buy her a drink and leave. Most female customers are not like me though, too many of them are handsy and intrusive, and cheap. When I'm working, I avoid them unless it's dead, even then it really depends on my mood and the vibe I get from the customer. Like others say, always talk to the girl first and shower her in attention. Don't expect them to spend too much.

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    I especially hate it when the guy tells them to touch!! It's like he's trying to live vicariously through the female. UGH, and has anyone noticed they slap your ass so hard?! One time this girl slapped me so hard, she left a red handprint on my ass and the manager went and yelled at them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I especially hate it when the guy tells them to touch!! It's like he's trying to live vicariously through the female. UGH, and has anyone noticed they slap your ass so hard?! One time this girl slapped me so hard, she left a red handprint on my ass and the manager went and yelled at them!
    The only time anyone has ever painfully slapped my ass, it has been a female. Guys don't usually slap my ass and if they do, it's more of a playful slap but women act like they're trying to seriously inflict pain on me, which gets me even more annoyed. Not only do you want to touch me inappropriately but you want to hurt me too? Annoying.

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    So today I was dancing for a guy and this girl just came up and slapped my ass SO hard, so I turned around and told her not to do that and she goes "oh baby it was only me" and I go "IDC plz don't do that" and she asks me why and I'm like cause I'm not here to be touched "so what are u here for"??? I got so pissed I told the guy I was dancing for "can we go in a room" and he's like YES. We did an hour and he tipped me...like I can't.

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    I wish most of them would get cunt punched.
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    I won't go up to females sitting alone, groups of lesbians, or 1 female with a bunch of guy friends. In my experiences they are cheap, physically aggressive (the word NO is universal), or they are verbally rude (which always gets on my nerves; if your whole point in coming to the club is to hate on our appearances, then wtf are you in our domain for?).

    If I approach any females, it's females that are coupled. Both preferably over 40. These types of customers prefer my girl next door looks and personality, and financially it pays. But I've always had better luck with couples than most dancers I know.

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    I approach them like I would a rabid dog. And treat them as such.
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    lmao hate much?
    The OP asks for advice and all she gets is spewed hate.
    Thank goodness you all don't represent the dancers out there.
    Pathetic.

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    And I suppose you got appointed union rep? If you've dealt with as much bullshit as we have from these invasive, gropey, entitled cunts you'd be singing a different tune. If I actually paid female customers any mind I wouldn't use the word "hate". It's too strong and that vermin isn't worthy of my hate. I'm more contemptuous of them. They don't belong in the strip club a majority of the time.
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    Don't ever approach the ones where the female looks uncomfortable, jealous, or pissed off.
    However, if you do manage to come across a couple that actually enjoys going to the strip club together, when you talk to them, make sure you mention that you think it's really great that they go to the club together, rather than going to the club to get away from each other. Especially if they're in a non traditional relationship (entirely open, possibly swingers etc) they will appreciate the fact that you respect their lifestyle and relationship.
    Usually couples are the only time I mention my open relationship with my boyfriend, or the fact that we occasionally go to strip clubs together. It earns their trust, they see that we all have something in common.
    I haven't really had too many bad experiences with couples that are actually there having a good time together, but stay far, far away from the ones that have the pissed off girlfriend

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    For me it's not even about hating or loving them. It's simple economics and marketing. The bulk of (MY) money does not come from civilian vagina. Therefore I do not waste my time trying to cater to some invasive vermin for a few measly dollars when I can get the real money whale hunting. You wouldn't try to market pork to Muslims would you?
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    I always had amazing luck with women and couples. Always. But they have to keep the same boundaries. And usually if you let them know and are really sweet they are going to comply with your request. I know most girls hate dealing with them but half my regulars for a long time were women. And I was thankful for that, it kept open lots of options for me when I wanted to keep busy. I don't think I have ever once had one that was just a bitch. I made them feel as comfortable as possible and gave them lots of attention so they didn't feel that I was only going to bug their man for a dance. No, I wanted both to get dances. Together or separate didn't bother me. Because I made the same either way. Just have to work that properly. I say personally, don't count them out. But they just aren't for all of us. 😊





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    ^ You have the patience of a saint.
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    Lol I do 😇😉





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    Go with what pixie is saying or ignore them. I have had such bad experiences there are only two customers I won't dance for: Indians and women. Both if they ask me, I say no thank you. Not worth the trouble.

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