I have mostly had good luck & good times w/ females/couples. Like pixierocks says, they gotta respect my boundaries just like guys. In 5 yrs dancing I can count on one hand how many times I have had bad experiences w/ women customers, & while those were pretty ... ahem ... uncomfy, to be charitable ... I find that hustling women is a bit like hustling men in that you have to tailor your approach to the individual (or couple). Just like sm guys, sm women are IMPOSSIBLE to please & nothing you or any other dancer can do will change that, you will have shy ones, nasty ones, freaks & ones who come in just to have a good time & blow a stack or two on their favourite girl.
So I treat them like I do most male customers -- give them a few min to settle in & observe their attitudes & reactions, esp to not just the girls onstage but their particular actions, if that makes sense. You will be able to see if she is particularly impressed by the pole monkey, the lingerie model, the booty-trick master, etc. I have had good results by starting a conversation w/ compliments toward the dancer she seems to favour. It puts her at ease & makes me look positive, & that goes a long way toward making a good first impression. Use the discussion of the girl onstage to segue into things like music or other interests & from there you can work towards the sale.



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