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    I have mostly had good luck & good times w/ females/couples. Like pixierocks says, they gotta respect my boundaries just like guys. In 5 yrs dancing I can count on one hand how many times I have had bad experiences w/ women customers, & while those were pretty ... ahem ... uncomfy, to be charitable ... I find that hustling women is a bit like hustling men in that you have to tailor your approach to the individual (or couple). Just like sm guys, sm women are IMPOSSIBLE to please & nothing you or any other dancer can do will change that, you will have shy ones, nasty ones, freaks & ones who come in just to have a good time & blow a stack or two on their favourite girl.

    So I treat them like I do most male customers -- give them a few min to settle in & observe their attitudes & reactions, esp to not just the girls onstage but their particular actions, if that makes sense. You will be able to see if she is particularly impressed by the pole monkey, the lingerie model, the booty-trick master, etc. I have had good results by starting a conversation w/ compliments toward the dancer she seems to favour. It puts her at ease & makes me look positive, & that goes a long way toward making a good first impression. Use the discussion of the girl onstage to segue into things like music or other interests & from there you can work towards the sale.

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    Wow... I am shocked at how poorly women act. Before I was in the industry I LOVED to get dances, never once did I grope, insult, or act inappropriately. So don't count the girls out, if you would have hit me up it would have been an easy $300, I did notice that my guy friends/ boyfriends would buy dance after dance for me for obvious reasons so I guess if the voyeur part turns you off skip it for sure. Just remember don't judge too soon, for every 5 pain in the ass, jealous chicks there will be one like me - someone who respects you and your hustle and :-) someone who has lots of horny guys friends that want to watch you dance with another girl and are willing to dig into their DEEP pockets to pay you for it. One night my ex and I had two girls for 4 hours (he was wealthy and generous) we walked out $3000 poorer but still call one another and talk about the awesome dancers we had.

    The dancers were so comfortable one of them asked me to make sure her tampon string wasn't peeking out which I happily did and then bought her a drink for working on her rag. Just remember keep an open mind and an open wallet, spend a minute or two, be direct, don't let them cross your boundaries and make that money girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MISS_TENAY View Post
    OMG ... I must put my 2cnts in on this post. Couples and women custys make me soo incredibly uncomfortable especially the jeoulous girlfriends that shouldn't come to a strip club I the first place if they cant handle the environment. I have done about maybe 4 dances with couples in my 2-3 yr dancing lol and that was only because they payed top money upfront and you never walk away from $$ but usually I try to avoid them.
    I had have a few of those and the first thing I do is try to make them feel comfortable and flattered. I had made entire nights solely on couples and females: I never dared to ignore them.





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    I'm surprised so many of y'all have had bad experiences with women and couples. At my first "home" club I did a lot of dances for women and couples and they were usually fine. Sat night during our Dollar Dances I made a good chunk of $$ off of a whole row of females that came in together. I didn't so much "dance" as I sort of bounced on their laps, complimented their hair or boobs and collected my $$. I kind of laughed along with them if they seemed uncomfortable and made jokes. They all tipped me several dollars for about a 30 second "dance." Meanwhile they were completely ignored by the other strippers.

    Last night I did an LD with a female that came in with her husband (as per her request.) I told her that she was beautiful (which she was) and chit chatted about how I just got married a couple of years ago too, and that we sometimes go to SCs together. She wasn't gropy or anything. It was a welcome change from getting man handled all night by drunk, sweaty artards. Idk, maybe I've just been lucky...but I've found compliments and a little girl talk to go a long way. Flattery gets you everywhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    I'm surprised so many of y'all have had bad experiences with women and couples. At my first "home" club I did a lot of dances for women and couples and they were usually fine. Sat night during our Dollar Dances I made a good chunk of $$ off of a whole row of females that came in together. I didn't so much "dance" as I sort of bounced on their laps, complimented their hair or boobs and collected my $$. I kind of laughed along with them if they seemed uncomfortable and made jokes. They all tipped me several dollars for about a 30 second "dance." Meanwhile they were completely ignored by the other strippers.

    Last night I did an LD with a female that came in with her husband (as per her request.) I told her that she was beautiful (which she was) and chit chatted about how I just got married a couple of years ago too, and that we sometimes go to SCs together. She wasn't gropy or anything. It was a welcome change from getting man handled all night by drunk, sweaty artards. Idk, maybe I've just been lucky...but I've found compliments and a little girl talk to go a long way. Flattery gets you everywhere.
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    I'm glad most of you ladies hate females/couples because I make pretty good money off them usually....lol more for me!

    I agree with the point that if the female looks pissed off in any way, DO NOT I repeat DO NOT APPROACH! That's just asking to have some jealous bitch give you attitude.

    However if the couple is looking around like they're searching for a girl, or laughing and having fun, I usually walk over, smile, and somehow compliment the girl. Usually they will immediately ask me to dance for their man....and after that dance I'll convince her to let me give her one too. Then I bring up VIP....where I mostly pay attention to the girl and ask them things like if they've ever had a threesome, etc. The girls love the attention and the guys love watching their girl with another girl. Almost every night I make money off of couples.

    Groups of females....that's another story lol I don't approach them. Those are usually the crazy ones who will slap your ass and grope you and give you NOTHING for it.

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    I had an awesome female the other night. I asked her if she was mentally unstable or on drugs. Those are the only rational explanations for a female customer liking me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I wish most of them would get cunt punched.
    hahaha! i inhaled my drink when i read this and cough/laughed out loud!
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    I sold my first couple dance the other night and lord, it was so uncomfortable. I was trying to make it all about her, complimenting her and going on and on about how beautiful she was (she really was gorgeous) and it was so obvious she didn't want to be there. The guy was trying to make out with her, and she looked like she wanted to cry.

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    ^ I feel genuinely sorry for those ones. Last night I had a decent group of female customers. I was shocked.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Graci View Post
    I sold my first couple dance the other night and lord, it was so uncomfortable. I was trying to make it all about her, complimenting her and going on and on about how beautiful she was (she really was gorgeous) and it was so obvious she didn't want to be there. The guy was trying to make out with her, and she looked like she wanted to cry.
    Yes I feel sry for those girls too. I have seen myself in them bc b4 I started dancing I wasn't anything close to the hard-ass I am now, & was dating a guy who would put me down for not being comfortable w/ sm of his sexual desires. When I get girls like that, I will actually whisper in her ear (while acting super seductive for the guy's benefit) that I can take her in the back alone & we can just sit & chill for however long, & tell him after that we got all naughty & he does not have to know any different. I stress that her comfort is more important to me than him getting his rocks off at her expense.

    Sm times that works & I basically end up getting paid to keep her from having a self-hating nervous breakdown in the back room, sm times she is just too over-loaded & doesn't want to do it.

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    I also did my first couples' dance Saturday (usually the husband will buy a dance for the wife or vice versa.) The girl seemed okay but was obviously a little shy, and the guy was SO fucking annoying! He was like "You can touch her more if you want. She's fine with whatever. If you want to put her hands on your boobs, you can blah blah blah" the whole fucking dance. I just wanted to be like "Stop speaking for her and telling me how to do MY job you ugly fuck." I don't know why on earth she was with him. She was waaaay too pretty for him and he was a pain in the ass!

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    Now I'm sad. I miss my unicorn.
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    I banked off of couples because most of the other girls stayed away. Money was money to me, and I didn't find the women any grabbier than some men. Steps of the hustle were the same: greet, establish rapport, close. Difference was lots of attention on female while getting male to pay.

    *Big smile* "How are you guys doing? It looks like you're having fun." *Big smile* "I love it when couples come in and have a good time. That means your my kind of people" *Big smile* "Can I join you?" *sit next to woman*

    Say to woman: "Oh my gosh! Look at your (shoes, purse, clothes, boobs, you pick)! I love it!" *Look at guy* "She's so hot. You're super lucky. And she comes to the club?? I think I love her."

    Establish rapport, but don't be long about it. Then transition.

    "You guys are so much fun. She's so hot. I think she needs to come play with me. You ready?" Then sell dances.

    Upsell to guy: "I think she needs a VIP dance so we can really have fun. Maybe if you're good, I'll let you watch. You ready?"

    If no: "You're not ready just yet? I'll check back soon. I can't wait to play with her!" And continue the hustle. I made it a rule not to spend longer than 10 minutes unless there was absolutely NOTHING going on.

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    I love female customers. Sometimes. I mean, they are like every customer, you never know until you try. Some of them are god-awful, like some guys, and some of them are bad ass. The couples I have danced for have all been favorites of mine, though they often ask me to come "party" with them afterwards and I keep it real with them and tell them that I don't do that/ charge an exorbitant amount.

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    I usually avoid couples unless they approach me or the woman seems in a very happy, engaging mood. I've mostly had good luck with couples particularly middle age couples. Funny story, the last shift I worked I approached a very pretty blonde sitting with a middle age guy . I complimented her and introduced myself and he went off to get drinks. She told me that she used to be a dancer but just had a baby and felt insecure and she just wanted him to have a good time. When he came back she practically sold the CR room for me. The guy spent $1200 for less than 39 minutes. Split between me and my hustle buddy who I took in with me. Super easy and the guy was chill as fuck. Like a moron I totally forgot to grab their info. I think what made all the difference was that I made her feel really good and at ease.
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    OMG this is gold.

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    I don't like dancing for girls! I feel SO awkward. I danced for two very pretty girls. One was bisexual and touched me everywhere and the other was straight as an arrow and was just trying to entertain her boyfriend. A w k w a r d. I couldn't wait for it to be over. Now at my urban club I go danxe wih a couple and the girl tells me to "suck his sick. Take off your thong" and I'm like "that's against the rules ect ect" then she says I need to come harder with my dance and ugh I was soooooooooooooooooooo uncomfortable. Then it was over and she says "my pussy isn't wet no way". Oh wow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prettyglitter View Post
    I don't like dancing for girls! I feel SO awkward. I danced for two very pretty girls. One was bisexual and touched me everywhere and the other was straight as an arrow and was just trying to entertain her boyfriend. A w k w a r d. I couldn't wait for it to be over. Now at my urban club I go danxe wih a couple and the girl tells me to "suck his sick. Take off your thong" and I'm like "that's against the rules ect ect" then she says I need to come harder with my dance and ugh I was soooooooooooooooooooo uncomfortable. Then it was over and she says "my pussy isn't wet no way". Oh wow.
    Tell 'suck his dick' girls to shut the fuck up or take him OTC & do it herself. Don't even try to be cute or polite abt that shit, they don't deserve one iota of respect after talking to you like that!

    If a girl customer is handsy but not *too* aggressive/forceful, take her by the wrists & pin her hands over her head. Make it look like a sexy power play, but it is a very clear power play saying 'I am in charge here!' I would recommend this action toward girl customers rather than guys, bc after a few months of dancing, most dancers I have known were physically stronger than the majority of female customers, even if they only did 'light' pole work.

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    Some days I'd rather play in an ebola patient's feces than deal with some females.
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    Back again to comment on this. Complimenting the girl definitely works wonders! While I still hate dancing for females, building a rapport with them and their friends/boyfriends makes them tip me during my stage set which I like lol. Besides that, a lot of female customers really really like me, maybe because I smile at them lol.

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    My rule of hustling female customers is don't. There are more serious clientele to focus my time and energy on. I won't force my triangle inside a square. Draining as fuck and not very much rewarding. Couples are double the work and you can't get much out of them. The only purpose female customers serve in the club is to feed my ego; as in make em feel like shit when I'm on the stage and on the floor. Fuck their stage tips, fuck their boyfriends and most importantly, fuck female customers. I hate you cock blocking bitches.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kassie View Post
    My rule of hustling female customers is don't. There are more serious clientele to focus my time and energy on. I won't force my triangle inside a square. Draining as fuck and not very much rewarding. Couples are double the work and you can't get much out of them. The only purpose female customers serve in the club is to feed my ego; as in make em feel like shit when I'm on the stage and on the floor. Fuck their stage tips, fuck their boyfriends and most importantly, fuck female customers. I hate you cock blocking bitches.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kassie View Post
    My rule of hustling female customers is don't. There are more serious clientele to focus my time and energy on. I won't force my triangle inside a square. Draining as fuck and not very much rewarding. Couples are double the work and you can't get much out of them. The only purpose female customers serve in the club is to feed my ego; as in make em feel like shit when I'm on the stage and on the floor. Fuck their stage tips, fuck their boyfriends and most importantly, fuck female customers. I hate you cock blocking bitches.
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