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    Default guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    So I have only done 2 cam shows so far and for whatever reason I have been making the most $ from men who say they want to date me, marry me, be with me, blah blah blah.

    They give me contact info and I play along but I don't know what to do.

    I feel I can use this to my advantage obviously but I have no idea how to.

    Can you girls give me some tips?

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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    You can talk about the fantasy. (What would you do together? How would he treat you? What kind of man is he? ETC.)

    Never give out your contact information. (Obviously.)
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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    Yeah that's what I usually do.

    I wouldn't contact them but I do kind of want them to come back and become regulars.

    Or should I not worry? Is there really always an influx of men? I'm scared of making the ones who like me not want to come back.

    Also when I said to my advantage I meant should I email them and play a long and have them come back?

    As terrible as this is maybe ask for $? Say I need the help( I honestly do trust me)

    Or is that getting into scumbag territory on my part?

    I honestly only ask just because this is all about moving cash from a dudes wallet into my pocket so I didn't know what was going too far.

    I meant asking for $ outside the site, like maybe to a PayPal or PO box to receive checks.

    Am I just a terrible person? I'm really desperate for cash right now and I'm transgender so I have to get my facial hair removed to pass as a female in real life and live somewhat of a normal life, pay for constant doctors appointments, a whole bunch of medications, support myself, but all new clothes and wardrobe, possible surgery, car and car insurance, food, apartment.

    So it's not like it's going to just material objects because I just want nice things.

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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    Most of these guys aren't serious about meeting and none of these guys are worth getting banned from the site. I ignore the contact information and never promise to meet them but as the above poster said, play along with the fantasy, ask what they would do if we met, etc. etc. Contact them outside the site and you stop the money flow and maybe even get yourself blackmailed. They know it's against the rules and may threaten telling the site and turning you in. I know of a few cam hosts who had guys pull that to try for free shows.

    Most of them are just there for the fantasy anyway so get the money while you can, don't contact outside the site or tell them you will meet. All viewers have an expiration date so don't depend on any one guy. More will come along so don't risk getting banned.


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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    There are a few theories here,
    1.) They say that just because everyone woman wants a fairy tale of a marriage so they are just fucking with you.
    2.) They are lonely and pathetic and think that you can't get a man cuz that's why you are on cam, you are a desperate poor woman who needs a man to save them.

    FEEL FREE to add more...

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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    3. It's their fetish? :s
    I've had a few men drop hundreds to talk to me as though they were in the process of buying plane tickets, discussing the date, what we're gonna do when I get there, how long I'll stay, etc etc. They often have tagalong fetishes, like for example: they love the thought of a live-in whore girlfriend, and they also want to keep me barefoot and pregnant, lol. I really dig in and go with whatever they're talking about, and try to play off of it and stay one step ahead of them. Connect the dots, but with fetishes! Okay, if he likes this, he'll probably like... 'Oh, I don't know if this is weird -giggle- but would you like it if I...?' Drives them nuts when you can predict what else they'll be into, they think you're really balls deep in their fetish.
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    Lol when they say they want to have dinner with me I have started telling them that they can buy an exclusive show and we'll sit there and have dinner.

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    I just lie and tell them "Oh, I've only met 3 guys from here before...but that's only because they were my biggest spenders and I felt like I owed them that." Then they feel like they just need to spend more...it's a continuous cycle. (I never disclose JUST how much my big spenders have spent) Haha!

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    Default Re: guys who ask to date / marry them / contact them outside of site

    And lately these are the guys keeping me afloat. Just don't take the contact information and run with it. They are great for repeat spending customers, sometimes for months or even years. "Sure babe...what will we do when we bump into each other?" All that, and string it for as long as you can.

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