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    Default How to handle a romantic customer?

    I gained a couple new customers this past month both spenders, one more than the other. Recently they have both been offering me money to skip work and go on dates like to the movies or bowling. Seemed legit to make money having fun son I have been agreeing to 95% of dates as long as I pick the place and he takes a taxi. However now they are both acting like we're dating/pursuing some type of relationship. My main customer also my larger spender seems to understand the boundaries and knows he's only getting my companionship as long as he pays me but as soon as he gets drunk though he starts talking about how much he likes me and how into me he is. In fact he is extending his trip in the city to hangout with me. the second guy is clearly not used to this arrangement and has been blatantly making hints about us spending alone time and how he doesn't want to see any girls. this is the first time I have dealt with this usually they fade out after they realise there not getting any sex and/or a relationship. I don't want to lose the solid income for another few weeks because there dropping thousands and I'm trying to go back to school in September. Any suggestions on how to stretch this I don't know if I should start declining offers from them for a little while, be upfront, or try and just get some necessities taken care of then end both situations. Any advice is welcome sorry for how long this post is.

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    Default Re: How to handle a romantic customer?

    Don't. A good rule to remember is that all regulars are temporary and new regulars are easy to get.

    If you want to date someone from the club non-romantically, at least get paid for it and set up a sugar daddy arrangement where you get an allowance.

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    Default Re: How to handle a romantic customer?

    A girl I worked with would lay out ground rules the second OTC would come up.

    1) Meet up in in public places only. Houses/Hotels are off limits.
    2) Payment is made in advance, as are the general plans for the dates.
    3) If the guy started to stop spending money when he was ITC, OTC would end until he got his shit straight. If he stopped spending, she moved on to the next.
    4) She was a companion only. These were non sexual dates. If an advance is made that made her uncomfortable they got 1 warning. Act up again and the date is over, no refunds.

    These were her major rules. She had kids at home and wanted to keep her home and work life separate. Most guys back off once these rules are laid down, but she had a few really good customers that understood, followed the rules, and paid her well.

    If you do skip work for OTC, make sure you are getting AT LEAST what you would make in a night. Have a trusted friend/family member that knows your plans. Sometimes guys "think" you're joking when you lay out plans and you need someone you trust to help if the need arises.

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