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    Question Thinking about becoming a Stripper

    Hello, Let's just say my name is "Melissa".

    Iv'e been dotting around this site for a while, so i decided to make an account. I have so many questions to ask but i forgot most of them.

    I'm 18 years old and i'm thinking about becoming a stripper, I live in England, specifically around the London area. I'm come from a black heritage, if that makes a difference.
    I have a few questions to ask so please bear with me >_<
    I live with my mom which comes from a very religious and homophobic background, she knows that i recently turned atheist not long ago and she isn't happy about it but we are still on good terms and have a close relationship.
    Her and the rest of her family are very religious as well. I want to move away but i don't know how or what i should do, i also wanted to know if there was any way i would be able to keep it a secret from friends and family, especially mother.
    I also have another problem, i'm a virgin, and i have a rough time wearing tampons since they ALWAYS get stuck which can be very annoying, so i avoid trying to wear them completely, would i get fired if i didn't turn up to work because of my cycle?
    My body is slender, I don't really have big hips, my butt is a bit small and i don't have a large chest. Will my body make a difference about what types of clubs i go to?
    Is it a bad idea to live too close to the club i might be working at?
    One more question, is it bad to buy clothes and shoes offline or should i go to the shop instead?

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    Default Re: Thinking about becoming a Stripper

    I've used the excuse that I'm a bartender for years. The bar I fake work at is a place my family would never go, and even if they did, my cover for not being there would be that I actually work in the nearby gay bar but was too embarrassed to tell them.

    Most clubs are very flexible with your days off, a lot of girls don't work shark week. You might want to try using sponges, as they are also fairly popular and don't have the string to accidentally dangle out like a tampon.

    Outfits are generally cheaper online and it gives you a lot more options if you don't have a good dancewear shop nearby. Sometimes you can luck out at sex stores but they often charge much more for shoes than online, and their lingerie and costumes can look cheap, which you never want to appear at the club. You can buy inexpensive outfits but they shouldn't ever LOOK cheap.

    Dancers have all different types of bodies, the most important part is to be confident, know how to be sexy, and be toned. You won't know what clubs will hire you until you go try out. Don't sell yourself short and go to a dive because you think you aren't "hot" enough for a nicer club.

    Living close to the club is a personal preference. I've always lived 10-15 mins driving away from where i've worked and it's never been an issue. Some girls prefer to travel to other cities. I'd recommend going to a sex shop, figuring out your size in Pleaser heels, and then buy everything online.

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    Default Re: Thinking about becoming a Stripper

    ^^
    I can't really add all that much more, she said pretty everything I was going too.

    Try not to over think it. Find a single cute outfit, some basic Pleaser stripper shoes(Yes that brand, trust us.) And, head out to a bunch of clubs and give it a shot. Better to make a bit less while learning than to make nothing while sitting at home googling.

    For outfits a lot of ladies on here have said their best money outfits have come from Walmart and Target. One of my best is a $12 red/black bra/thong set. Just make sure what you get fits in a flattering way. Go try on a bunch of different styled bikinis and lingerie to see what looks best on you, and at least for me when in doubt go skimpier. When buying work clothes think. "Buy cheap, look expensive." After all outfit costs come out of your profits. Once you know what works on you. You can shop online. I love Ebay!
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    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
    Now that's thinking green!

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    It's possible to keep dancing a secret if you don't live with the person/people you're hiding it from, but as long as you're living with your mum, it's just a matter of time before she finds out. That said, you can *probably* get away with dancing for a short time, enough to get enough money together to get your own place. You just have to be very careful and come up with a good cover story for how you can suddenly afford to move out. If you're close with your family and will continue to see them regularly after moving out, I recommend putting most of your money to savings and visibly spending just enough that your cover story is believable -- so, if you say you work at a call centre, you shouldn't start toting around designer purses or move in to a fancy, large flat.

    Word of warning that London is an extremely difficult city to make money in since it's full of clubs and extreme hustlers. You may be better off going out of town to dance every weekend or so -- that could make hiding dancing easier/harder depending on your cover story and how nosy your mum is.

    Working on your period or not depends on the club. Find one with a flexible schedule where you can take the time off if tampons aren't an option.

    Regarding body type: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-to-strip-quot

    I've often lived walking distance from the clubs I work at, but I have never worked in an area that makes me feel unsafe. You know your area and comfort level best.

    It's good to try things on from a brand first so you know how they fit, and then order online to get a better price.

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    Default Re: Thinking about becoming a Stripper

    Buy tits when you can. They're an investment that pays for themselves.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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