Hi everyone,
So a little background: I have a four-year-old, just graduated from nursing school, am going through a divorce and haven't taken my nursing boards yet. I'm in a lot of debt due to my divorce and schooling. I want to dance for a while to pay off my debt and replenish my savings, while studying for my nursing boards and maybe for a while while I'm nursing.
My issue is this. Obviously I don't want people where I'm nursing to recognize me from a club. I basically need to live a double life here. I have a serious boyfriend who I'm living with (my soon-to-be ex-husband and I were separated for over a year and had started the divorce process months before I started dating him). I told him I needed to dance briefly and he was NOT supportive. I hate being deceitful, but I basically need for no one to know. I need money for my child and to pay off my debt. So, to me, this is about my kid and I won't be doing it for a long time, so it's excusable in my mind to keep it to myself.
Is there a way to dance in your own city and keep it a secret from everyone? Is there a way to disguise yourself enough? My boyfriend's friends go to clubs somewhat often, or used to. I also don't want future employers or patients to recognize me later. I'm in a city near my neighboring state. Should I just drive a couple hours and dance there?
Any advice is extremely appreciated!


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