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    I've been working at my club for about two years now, and lately I've been having this major fear of going into work because I'm afraid of not making any money. It's an upscale place where I used to make bank, but lately it's been slow, and last shift I would've probably left in the negative if my regular hadn't come to see me. My fear has gotten so bad that I've avoided making a schedule, and have been going in only once or twice a month. This month, I made a schedule, but completely panicked last time I was supposed to work, and did a no-call no-show which I have NEVER done before. I'm scheduled to work again tonight but I reallyyy don't want to, and I can't make myself get into a positive mood about it no matter how much I try.

    I have found another place to work, which I really like. However, I've only been there about 2 weeks, and idk what the $$ potential will really be like after the "new girl" money wears off. I'm worried about quitting my current club right now because I'm afraid that some combination of me backing out of working for the rest of the month when I'm already on the schedule, previously not coming in for a month or two at a time, not being one of the top earners, and them previously having to make special arrangements for me (I got injured and had to be excused from stage for a while) would keep me from getting hired again if I wanted to come back. Is this an irrational thing to think? If there's a chance they might hire me back and I do end up quitting, how do I get out of working tonight, and the other days I'm already scheduled for this month? Do I just stop showing up, or do I call in with some excuse, and if so......what do I say?? (I know I'm probably wayyy overthinking this, but it's causing me some major anxiety right now. Any advice is much appreciated!)

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    Just let them know you won't be coming in for some time. Be professional. If they ask you why, tell them it is personal and you'd rather not get into it. The less you say, the better. If you want to come back you should be able to. If you don't want to come in tonight, call them and regretfully inform them that you won't be working... again, if they ask why... say it's personal and you'd rather not say why.

    You run the risk of them finding out (if you work in a small town) that you're working elsewhere. If you want to come back at some point... a few months later... they won't remember much. Just come with house-fee in hand and they probably won't blink an eye.
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    If you're talking about where I think you are you know what I'm going to say. Unless you are 200llbs fucking for twinkies or a crackhead you will not make long term money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    If you're talking about where I think you are you know what I'm going to say. Unless you are 200llbs fucking for twinkies or a crackhead you will not make long term money.
    Yep, it's where you're thinking. It does wonders for my self esteem though.

    So, I just went in and said that "something came up" and would they be able to manage without me for a while? The manager was just like, "Sure, no problem." That went wayyy more smoothly than expected. (Although it was a bit awkward at first, as the bouncer didn't recognize me as someone who works there, and didn't want to let me in to talk to him. )

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    Quote Originally Posted by DreamsInDigital View Post
    Yep, it's where you're thinking. It does wonders for my self esteem though.

    So, I just went in and said that "something came up" and would they be able to manage without me for a while? The manager was just like, "Sure, no problem." That went wayyy more smoothly than expected. (Although it was a bit awkward at first, as the bouncer didn't recognize me as someone who works there, and didn't want to let me in to talk to him. )
    Let me know when you get tired of the fatties and the fuglies. You know where to find me. And our amateur night is coming up in a week or so.
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