1. Sex addiction does not exist. It's an excuse celebs and politicians for making bad decisions.
2. Relationships are HARD when you are a sex worker. My S.O. is the most liberal and understanding man on the planet, and he has issues with my job from time to time. You need to make a rule that no friends/boyfriends are allowed in your club. Ever. If he is giving you a ride, he can wait for you outside. Also, the less he knows about what actually goes on in the club, the better. He doesn't need all the dirty details. Share your frustrations and triumphs here in the last shift thread.
3. You're friend who is giving you helpful advice doesn't know what he's talking about. Sure, bad stuff happens when you are a stripper. But it also happens when you work in retail or as a waitress or as a secretary. If you stay sober and professional, this will go a very long way to not getting caught up in the crappy side of the business. Also, it's ok to be friendly, but making friends is a bad idea. Everyone is your business competition. They aren't your friends.
ETA: Do not get romantically involved with anyone you meet at work. This ends in disaster 99.9% of the time.



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