For a lot of reasons I'm living in a foreign country right now and I'm American. I was looking for a sugar daddy type guy that was willing to relocate me and I came across this guy. He seems to want something serious but at the same time wants to provide me with money. He was going to pay off my student loan debt however he said he isn't comfortable wiring money because 1.) I've never even told him my real name 2.) he's scared once he sends me money I'll stop talking to him and 3.) the fees to send me money is a "waste" as he says. He said he'll pay it off once I get there and he's buying me the ticket too. However I don't feel comfortable giving him my full name yet so I was hoping he was going to just send me money through western union or something (I heard if you have a security question you don't need ID, is that true?) but I realized if he felt uncomfortable sending money for my student loans (around 4k) why would he send me money for a plane ticket (around 2k). How do I let him know that it's either he sends cash and trusts me or we're done. Like I said he is a sugar daddy type but from what he's shown he seems like he wants someone that will stay for him and not just the money. The reason be appeals so much to me is because he lives in California and it's where I want to live but I'm not financially settled for that.
Ive been wanting to post this for a while but I've been reluctant because I'm scared if I seem stupid and naive. Am I? Ladies please help me out!



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