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    Default "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    For a lot of reasons I'm living in a foreign country right now and I'm American. I was looking for a sugar daddy type guy that was willing to relocate me and I came across this guy. He seems to want something serious but at the same time wants to provide me with money. He was going to pay off my student loan debt however he said he isn't comfortable wiring money because 1.) I've never even told him my real name 2.) he's scared once he sends me money I'll stop talking to him and 3.) the fees to send me money is a "waste" as he says. He said he'll pay it off once I get there and he's buying me the ticket too. However I don't feel comfortable giving him my full name yet so I was hoping he was going to just send me money through western union or something (I heard if you have a security question you don't need ID, is that true?) but I realized if he felt uncomfortable sending money for my student loans (around 4k) why would he send me money for a plane ticket (around 2k). How do I let him know that it's either he sends cash and trusts me or we're done. Like I said he is a sugar daddy type but from what he's shown he seems like he wants someone that will stay for him and not just the money. The reason be appeals so much to me is because he lives in California and it's where I want to live but I'm not financially settled for that.

    Ive been wanting to post this for a while but I've been reluctant because I'm scared if I seem stupid and naive. Am I? Ladies please help me out!


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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    Yes, you do need an ID (& give real name) for Money Gram/W.Union. There's also a reference # (person sending you $ gets it & gives it to you) As for the other stuff, it sounds iffy. You don't know him & he doesn't know you. Idk, just be careful..


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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    Based on his excuse that you're not going to keep talking to him once he sends you money, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for that plane ticket.

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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    "The fee to send money is a waste" ? Riiiiiiight. If he had so much money to be able to pay off your loan debt, the fee to send you money would be a drop in the bucket.
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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    if you don't feel comfortable giving out your full names, not sure how a plane ticket or wiring money is going to work..western union is a huge PITA and yes you need full name, address, password, and a number they give you.

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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    He is wasting your time. Too many excuses and rambling. If it wasn't bank fees it would be something else.

    The client/daddys job is to convince you he is special. He isn't really a client and there are huge rewards coming - soon.

    Good rule is 3 msgs or 1o mins max before he coughs up cash. Or it's a dead end.

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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    Sounds like a waste of time on his part.

    As for Western Union and moneygram, I have personally got up to 1000 dollars through them without ID. Used a test question and have done this more than a dozen times with my stage name. I know there is a limit on the amount of money you can receive without ID, I just do not know how much it is.
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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    In the chance this isn't a waste of time, definitely try out bitcoin, it can be sent internationally and sold quickly to turn it back into cash, I would recommend BTC-E since you are out of the states, and coinbase for him to purchase since he is in the states. This would keep your info anonymous as well as your location and everything, all he would ever know is your wallet address. You'd be a ghost.

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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    Ideally, you shouldn't have to convince a good SD to pay you. It's a bit hard, as a SB, not to look at things backwards I think. I'm guilty of it too. I just want the money and if I don't mind the man, then that's a bonus. But why would they pay some fairly random girl, especially a substantial amount, with no emotional (not to mention physical) connection? They didn't get supposedly rich by not having a brain, you know? Once they care for you on a genuine level, they're happy to pay.

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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    You can send money through wal mart for like 9 bucks.
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    Default Re: "Sugar Daddy"? How do I convince him to send me cash?

    It's true, he has to like you a lot.

    More importantly here, what SkylerScarlett mentioned- Wal Mart has cheap ways to send and receive money, but some states have banned GreenDot. Check on line for your best preferred methods to handle cash you are gifted by someone....The best thing is getting cash in hand in person, but if you can't, do it via Wal Mart.

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