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    I know this topic has to be talked a lot here and I know the etiquette and the reason why female customers can be annoying. I have another question. Has it ever happened to you to dance for a female customer and actually be fun? Do you ever talk with them and have you ever let them be more ''handsy''?

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    Default Re: Can female customers be fun?

    Well, I'm a female custy, @ least when I get the chance..& I'm lots of fun. Talk sure, as long as it's paid. Handsy noooo


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    Tbh I never had a bad female customer experience until Ibiza where they just thought they were the shit and better than us and I know realised what Stripperweb/Temptest were talking about.
    In Magaluf there were these 2 girls who were super cute and they'd never been to a strip club before but wanted a double because because yolo I guess lol. They were super nice. These are the kind of female customers I like.
    But no I don't like handsy even with female customers.

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    No, they disgust me and take more than what is allowed. If a girl asks me to dance with her, I always refuse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vackra View Post
    No, they disgust me and take more than what is allowed. If a girl asks me to dance with her, I always refuse.
    Aww what about w/me though?


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    Female customers are usually more trouble than they are worth. I don't mind dancing for them, but they usually end up getting too handsy. I had one recently try to take her top and bra off when I was dancing. Ugh.
    I do my best to steer clear of females, and I refuse to dance for couples.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Aww what about w/me though?
    Lol OTC strippers or former strippers don't count for me. They're usually very cool and tip well. Your run of the mill civilian vagina is another matter entirely. Although at my new club I can't really complain about them. I should emphasize that my interactions with them are minimal due to the setup of the bar. I love it. When I'm forced to interact with them they're loud, stupid, handsy, and quite frankly pathetic when they're trying to show off their twerkin' skills. (Or lack thereof)

    And no, I don't speak for all dancers. Some, like Pixierocks have had excellent rapport with the outsider vagina. For a dancer with the patience of a saint it might be an untapped gold mine. I unfortunately do not have the time or the inclination to alter my approach. I know my demographics and I stick to them. Once in a blue moon I get a female customer who's actually cool. Those are the unicorns. I have gotten a bit handsy with the more attractive female customers. Usually they're skinny with fake boobs. So I'm not completely immune.
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    i've only met one that was any fun. i try and avoid them..they are either horrible tippers, look jealous and angry with their arms crossed, super uncomfortable, or they are too grabby and try and convince you to have a threesome with them.
    but if a female customer paid for a dance , i wouldn't turn it down..their money is as green as any man's, but the same rules apply to them. i'm not going to let them grope me just because they are female. it sucks because i greatly prefer females to males ANY day of the week in my regular life, but in the SC its a different world

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    ^^ Their money may be green but it isn't worth it to me. It also makes me feel like some kind of novelty or joke. I can understand why most people would accept, but $30 isn't worth it to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Aww what about w/me though?
    Sadly, yes. I'd hang out with you for sure, but dancing for women makes me feel extremely awkward.

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    No. Most of the time they control their man's money too.... NOOOOOOO. Hence, why I avoid females. Unless it's a former stripper who knows the deal. ;-)

    Also, females get camera crazy snapping pictures for facebook. Makes me wanna slappahoe. Do not take pictures of the strippers. Respect our privacy. It's also NOT allowed.

    They try to be cool in front of their S.O., then they turn ape shit crazy jealous. I've had 2(who called me over) give me shit, bc their man got excited. The fuck? Don't go to a SC then?? Shit.

    Sit down. It's not a dance night club where we dance on the floor together. I really hate this.... (((wooo hoooo))). *cringe*
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    I've had a handful of really great female customers. They tipped well, asked about and respected my boundaries, and one even asked me to dance for her husband while she watched (as a turn on, not as a territorial thing) after I danced for her. They tipped very well too. Conversely, I have had one girl bite my nipple, another twist the shit out of them and then whip her own tits out, and a third that I really did think was going to try to physically harm me because she thought I was trying to steal her husband--even though I went to their table to dance for her at his request. While I've never been attracted to a male customer, I have been attracted to at least one female customer. However, I didn't let her be more handsy, and she wasn't a pushy or handsy customer to begin with, which was probably part of why I liked her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vackra View Post
    ^^ Their money may be green but it isn't worth it to me. It also makes me feel like some kind of novelty or joke. I can understand why most people would accept, but $30 isn't worth it to me.
    oh yeah, i know.. i wasn't saying that you were wrong or that my way was better or anything lol, sorry if it came off like that. i guess for me it would depend on the club, i don't LIKE dancing for them but at my club you aren't in a position where you can really turn down dances, its very dry

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    i've just danced for a couple last night. i love dancing for females who are cool. it's a high contact club that i dance in. i like sensual girls but usually girls don't really touch me. talking they like. the couples or girls i attract, i tell them off if they try to touch my box. i do like females though. a fresh breath of air from time to time.
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    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.

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    ^ Uncalled for. Some of us have our preferences on customers and will avoid certain types for various reasons; so girls happen to be her least favorite, doesn't mean she's "hating" or "not making bank".

    Aaaanyways, I avoid couples usually just because it's weird, I don't like one half staring at me while I dance for the other half. The only cool one I met was an opposite scenario from the usual; the husband had me dance for the wife (who was pretty hot and also wasted) and then when the wife wanted to keep chatting with me he got irritated and had to basically drag her out the door.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onamission View Post
    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.
    I'm pretty sure she's doing just fine without vermin. And trust me I'm not hating I'm banking. I just don't need to stress myself out.
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    Occasionally, yes, I love them! I have danced for queer ladies and been really into it. I've also danced for just the lady half of couples and been happy to do so. They smell yummy, have soft skin & cute clothes...

    Whenever I see cheap, entitled, attitude-y female customers, I ignore them, though. Just like cheap, entitled, bad-attitude males!

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    Quote Originally Posted by onamission View Post
    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.
    This ^^^^ is exactly the kind of attitude that Tempest & Vackra are listing as their reasoning for avoiding female customers. I avoid female customers too when they get theirs in a twist like this.

    Are you going to call me a racist bc I won't dance for Mexicans unless the club has been dead for three hours? Even tho I have zero problem w/ them outside of work, IME in the club they are pretty much the absolute rudest, grabbiest guys I have met.

    That said, for the most part I enjoy interacting w/ female customers, I will usually go give them a shot b4 going to an equal group of guys bc I find them less threatening. I still remember a couple I danced for yrs ago, the lady half was bi & gorgeous & even tho I am 'strictly dick-ly', man ... she was fun. Total sweetheart. Respectful, paid well, just there to have a good time & not be a sanctimonious cunt. She was my favourite lady customer ever, but I have had mostly good experiences w/ women. Those that don't fancy me, I try to be diplomatic & find another dancer that might appeal to them more, but if they are obnoxious I get the word out quick to the other girls not to bother w/ them.

    I don't allow them to be handsier -- I am just as aware while dancing for a woman as for a man, & I am not afraid to treat her the same as I would a man if she does smtg inappropriate.

    One 'not fun' trick I have had a few females pull on me during dances -- short skirts & either crotchless panties or no panties at all. Not cute or sexy or fun, just FYI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onamission View Post
    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.
    This is the exact attitude that makes female customers repulsive to many dancers.

    ETA: LOL Aniela, you beat me to it!

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    Not all are bad...there's one that posted on here called Lopaw. I found out she posted some nice things about me on the review boards. I don't know her ties to the industry but odds are she's one of the cool ones. I've just had so many bad experiences with them I am very jaded. I don't completely rule them out but they have to approach me.

    I met a cool chick at Wal Mart who offered to come see me. I warned her not to take offense if I didn't come up right away. At work my "fight or flight" mechanism is in full effect. I told her about this issue so maybe she'll post.

    I'm not changing my stance , but I think the .001% that are cool should get some mention instead of the entitled cuntbags.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onamission View Post
    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.
    Nope, but the men are just fine. The way I like it. Keep getting drunk and yelling WOOOOO! at the tip rail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by onamission View Post
    I love knowing that the cool dancers that dance for me are making bank and the haters are not - they're just sitting there hating.
    And don't worry " Vackra"- I'm sure no female custies are busting down any doors to get to be with someone like you.
    It's personal choice. Don't take it personal. Someone asked and we answered. We can go or refuse who ever we want. That's the beauty of this job. We decide who to make money off of. Just bc we refuse a type, does NOT mean we're hating and not banking. Lol.

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    I've only danced for three ladies before--one was my friend who came into see me on my birthday and I promised I'd show her what a real lap dance was like (only she ruined it by wearing a long skirt and no panties so she couldn't spread her legs like I want my customers to do), the second was a waitress and friend of mine whose dance was paid for by a regular of both of ours (we were mostly just goofing around for that one), and the third was another dancer since a customer had paid us obscene amounts of money to dance for each other (and then spent most of the time we were dancing on his phone instead of watching--whatever floats your boat, I guess, we were doing hot dances). I wouldn't like dancing for straight girls on the regular, since they make me feel awkward by being obviously not turned on by what I'm doing. I mean, the money is still money, but it's obvious I'm not getting multiple dances from people who just feel embarrassed to have a hot naked girl on top of them. Lesbians, otoh, I'd be happy to dance for. I wish more would come in while I'm working! When I was a waitress, they always seemed like very cool customers, even though most came in as couples.

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    I have a demographic that I normally stick to and women aren't a part of that. Not to say that I don't enjoy the cool ones, but there are SO few of them that I won't bother unless they approach me.

    Most women that come in are either behaving inappropriately (trying to get on stage, taking their clothes off, getting too handsy, etc.) or they're jealous/threatened by the presence of dancers that they act like simpering children. Not my idea of a good time.

    And... lady customers... you're supposed to wear underwear too. Crotchless doesnt count. There needs to be a cotton shield there.

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