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    Hey All,

    I wanted to ask how many of you genuinely get off on your own shows? And when I say "get off" I don't just mean doing a show because a custy asked for it, and you force yourself to cum for him. I mean getting off as a satisfying sexual experience that you enjoy for yourself and that you can also share with clients. How important is it for you to only perform shows that you genuinely enjoy or get pleasure from?

    I'm asking because I think female pleasure is really important and overlooked in our culture. I know for so many of us, we are just trying to make $$$ so we try to find ways to fake when we're not into it, but I've found that neglecting my pleasure completely on cam has affected my sexuality off cam as well.

    For me personally, I love doing certain shows, like striptease and oil shows-they make me feel really sexy and incorporate lots of creativity and sensuality. With certain custies who take their time and let me do my thing without so many demands for how my body should be positioned, trying to manipulate my fingers/body, etc. I can get lots of pleasure out of it, esp. if they are regulars and I'm used to them.

    But sometimes, I do shows for other custies and feel weird/gross playing with myself (ESP. penetration-it takes 20-45 minutes on average for the vag to be fully aroused, yet we're shoving things inside within 2-5 min.) I often end up feeling numb in my pussy, pretending I'm getting so much pleasure meanwhile they're jerking off and cumming really hard. If I had sex in real life where a guy just gets off on me while I get nothing, I'd feel super violated. Sometimes the connection between the two takes a toll on me.

    The general rule is to say no to things you don't want to do, but sometimes that boundary can be fuzzy or it can be challenging to say no when $$$ is involved.

    I really want my shows to be a mutually positive experience and want to enjoy the work I do. I'm wondering if anyone can relate, has suggestions, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redlight1500 View Post
    ESP. penetration-it takes 20-45 minutes on average for the vag to be fully aroused
    Really? I must be some kind of freak XD
    I love the toys (vixskin dildos) I use and I truly can cum within 5 minutes of using them, although my very first custie has to be a little more patience if he wants to see me cum, but I dont fake and I have gotten so much controll over my orgasms that I can practically cum whenever I want (and also how much I cum-squirting)

    Weirdest thing is that the more I play the more I want, so I guess the job fits me in that way. I try to give them real shows, but I do mix it with performance (dirty talk, heavily moaning, looking directly in the cam/eyes are not the things I would normally do).

    Also I really enjoy and feel powerfull being the one who seduces them to come in and play and giving them an awesome time and give them one of the most intense feeling there is (sexual pleasure), anytime I think about what I give them, and also how they spoil me with there hard earned money back in return its a huge turn on for me.

    Can I just add that my paycheck is a frigging big turn on for me XD mmmmm bb
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    hey red try the "deed" before hand. Helps me out a bunch...just watch something that revs my engine and then I'm good to go.

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    I feel like the more I do strip teases/shows the more turned on I get. I usually can't genuinely orgasm in a lot of my shows because it takes more time than that for me... but I do get very turned on. Even to the point where I start to get upset/frustrated when curtsies leave the convo before I can finish because I was just so into myself aha and now I have to get changed and sit around again lol.
    It's a bit of a roller coaster! 70% of the time I have to fake it (especially when I want to end a private early… I strategize and time things the way I want) but once i'm warmed up then it's all real aha

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    Essentially camming is fun, and if you take that feeling into each show, it won't matter so much if you're doing something that doesn't tick all the sexual boxes for you.

    I get a kick from having sex with or without an orgasm if the circumstances of having sex are a turn on for me, and it's exciting having virtual sex with a stranger.

    Just like real sex, shows can range in experience from mindless pounding and waiting for them to cum, to feeling a deep sexual connection and having intense orgasms.
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    No. But I cant cum anymore without pot. My vag isnt sensitive anymore. but I get great pleasure when have nice chats !

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    The money gets me off.

    I think getting paid for it is my fetish.


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    I have never truly had an orgasm on cam. I do, however, love my spit shows and oil shows. Those types of shows I genuinely love to do. I get turned on by them, but get off NO.

    I hate to say it but I have to fake all orgasms online. I wish it didn't have to be like this but it is. IRL, I can only get off with my vibrator on my clitoris and it usually takes a long time. I have to concentrate, no distractions (I have a worry problem, so if I think of one thing I start to worry about it). I have never had a man get me off through penetration. I know it could happen, but I need to get pounded -like literally drilled- as hard as they can for literally like 20 minutes non-stop. I need something that doesn't get tired! Like a fuck machine or a porn star with lots of stamina and endurance, lmao.

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    I don't usually "enjoy" my shows...it's just a performance. However, there are a few regulars that help me get into it...the ones that aren't just concerned about making me their puppet...the ones that take time to talk to me, seduce me, and truly turn me on. They are far and few between, just like in real life lol.

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    I actually had a conversation about this in my room (SM) on Monday night. The one guy was absolutely convinced that I received no more pleasure from this than a hairdresser does from chit chat...Okay dude, whatever LOL

    I immensely enjoy this. I orgasm really easily so it's easy for me to get several in during a show. I'm also the type that once I have a few orgasms, I want more and more of them until I can't stand. An ex of mine called me insatiable for a reason.

    Also helps that I've been getting Doms in my room. Nom om om om ^_^

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    Thanks for sharing, ladies! I love all of your varied responses so far <3

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    When I do cum shows, I really do cum. I've been doing this long enough that I know *exactly* how to control my own orgasm and can cum pretty quickly. But cum shows are only a small percentage of the types of shows that I do. I mostly do fetish shows, so most of the time I'm fully clothed/wearing a strap on/roleplaying/humiliating/talking dirty etc. Do I physically get off from those shows? Nope. Do I enjoy the hell out of them? Absolutely!

    At the end of the day, what we're doing is supplying a fantasy. It's not our job to educate the masses on proper foreplay technique (although if you want to do that, more power to you!) I also don't think it's necessary to share a truly "intimate" experience like you described. I have actually had customers tell me to fake an orgasm before because they wanted to have the show paced a certain way. And that's absolutely fine! I was happy to do it. What matters to me is that I enjoy the show in some way (even if it's just that it's entertaining).

    If you feel gross from faking it or rushing yourself, then start marketing yourself as someone who really wants an intimate experience with her customers. I'm sure there are tons of guys who will love it! Make sure you plaster it all over your profiles, bios, social media, etc. It's all about marketing bb.


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    I get off easily and quickly, so I rarely need to fake it. Faking only happens when the customer is a total douche or I am in a bad mood generally.
    The really pleasureful shows are c2c sessions for me. I LOVE to watch. The guys do not have be super hot as long as they have an acceptable face and body. There is usually something attractive about anyone. If they are good looking and have a nice equipment it is even better obviously. I have one really hot whale who drives me nuts with his sexiness

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    I usually don't get to "get off" because the guys who take me private don't stick around long enough (I only use toys when they ask for it). I'm sure they'd love for me to whip out my dildo right away and start going to town, but that's not gonna happen because I refuse to rush a sex show. When I used to have that really good regular on MFC, he'd spend a good amount of time in true private with me because he wasn't a cheapass like so many of these other guys. Lol.
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    I must be lucky because i find easy to cum in almost every situation. Some of my regulars are really hot and that helps obviously lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    The money gets me off.

    I think getting paid for it is my fetish.
    THIS!!

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    My clit and I are best friends with my hitachi. Anytime I get a guy that says do what you like. I get excited because I can actually build up a fantastic orgasm and not rush it.

    I'm also super sensitive, I have no problem orgasming.

    As for getting off from camming a whole, no.





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    YES!.. when they spend ALOT of money on me.. I get this wet , tingling sensation in my southern region.. I AM SERIOUS!
    And furthermore, I have had only 4 orgasms on CAM and that was back in 2003. I made a conscious choice never to try again , because it was to much pressure and stress to want to do that for a strange man on cam and it also leads to tiredness and exhaustion and if i was to treat this like a BUSINESS and work long hours to be successful, i had to be serious...
    Not to mention I find it to be weird to give that special part of yourself to any old fool online who clearly doesn't deserve it.. It's a GIFT from your higher power...LOL.. that's how i feel.. they don't deserve that part of me.. NO MAN does who doesn't love me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    My clit and I are best friends with my hitachi. Anytime I get a guy that says do what you like. I get excited because I can actually build up a fantastic orgasm and not rush it.

    I'm also super sensitive, I have no problem orgasming.

    As for getting off from camming a whole, no.
    same i almost daily get off on cam sometimes twice once i cum it takes me awhile to be able to cum again tho and i can only get off with my hitachi. sometimes i get so horny from some shows i need to take a little break and get off or i'm a cranky unpleasant brat on cam and thats not good for my earnings. sometimes when i do hitachi shows and he ends it before i get off i take a break keep going and go back on when im done. i do get pleasure from sex and using dildos tho but i just cant cum without clit stimulation
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    Interesting thread.

    I "get off," when the show is already paid for. Generally, password shows on Chaturbate OR a Cum Show goal on a token site. (Which is super rare for me, anyways.)

    In terms of private shows? Unless I know the person is going to stick around for awhile and let me do my thing, I generally just fake it. If the person is barking demands, I'll just milk his money and pretend like I'm having a great time doing what he says.
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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    The money gets me off.

    I think getting paid for it is my fetish.
    Same here.

    I get my sexual pleasure from my personal life. Nothing sexual about camming to me. It's all about the money.


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    They don't pay enough to orgasm in each show. If they did and i could make money goal of the day with 1 or two shows, then amaybe yes, but orgaming in every 2- 5 minute private is crazy! And there are bunch of other type of private shows when the orgams is not the goal. Plus most of customers like porn type fake screaming anyway.

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    If I am given enough time I cum.However,I only cum with clit stimulation so whenever I get a guy who just wants dildo I will not cum but also I will not fake it.What made me keep my regulars for 4+ years was being real in my shows and never fake an orgasm.Now that I have a hitachi I can cum up to 6 times an hour so ...yeah,I`m really enjoying myself and this is what makes this work pleasant,beside money.

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    Pretty much how it goes with me is that I tend to only be genuinely aroused if I'm doing a long show and the guy on the other end is sexy. Sometimes it's a c2c situation and I have to say, I've gotten some really sexy guys. I always tell my boyfriend that the majority of the guys I get are balding, old, ugly ect. but a lot of the time they're nothing to sneeze at. Recently I have been cumming on cam for realsies because of stimulation from being jerked off to by someone I like. Other times I think about my boyfriend, women, or just nothing and I'm a bit indifferent. I still cum, but it doesn't have the same spirit.

    Needless to say if I know I'm making money and I'm not wasting time, I'm more relaxed and let myself have some fun/

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