Has anyone tried Eros? What do you think? Also, can you be an escort without having actual sex? I know the rate would probably be lower, but has it been done/can it be done?


I <3 <3 <3 Eros.
~7% of my appointments over the entirety of my escorting career didn't involve sex, but did involve either cuddling or S&M, and were done at my full rate. Theoretically possible but almost surely a fool's errand.
Eros is very much quality over quantity I've met a few nice regulars off there. And I agree with Abarett on the sex thing. I think I've had 3 clients and that was only because their Viagra no longer worked.
You can try and do Full body massage at a spa though
I am sorry but you are living in fantasy land if you think that you can be an escort without having sex, yeah id say about 2-7% of appts don't involve sex but if they don't involve sex, it involves an emotionally needy guy and/or guys with fetishes which are soooooooooo much more annoying than just having regular sex in my opinion.....



Honestly I believe you can, there's women that have done it & still are.I wouldn't use the term escort though it's been used as a cover for so long majority of people automatically think sex.Try it & see for yourself, you'll definitely have to stand out though.Even though a lot of guys are highly sexual beings, I'm quite sure there are still men out here that would enjoy the company of a woman without expecting sex.
Are you for real Obsession? Lolololol............... Yeah, okay- If you say so. Sigh............. Maybe if you advertised yourself as a "wife for a day", since quite a few of these sorry bastards treat their wives so badly, that they rarely get it from them and they have come to us instead. Hahahahahaaa! ;-)



^^^I care that you disagree with my opinion because??? Better yet as someone stated above you can try bodyrubs, you can still make good money if not the same amount as some escorts do(there's legalities though & spas are usually the first to get raided).If you decide to stay in the adult field,Dancing,Cam work or fetish work is the way to go though if you're iffy on being a companion or doing bodyrubs.Btw I didn't write my comment to be offensive.But If anyone else feels the need to respond on my opinion there won't be a response after this (I don't feed into Bs)
Last edited by Obsession91; 09-11-2014 at 10:39 PM.
Just stating the obvious Honey! Most men are whore mongers. Its a known fact. Yeah, the body rubs may work, but considering that men are the real whores- very few will be content with just a rub. Sad but true............................Sigh. I even tried that avenue in the beginning and had a whole two men act like Gentlemen. Most Aren't. Just sayin. But if a Girl is Drop Dead Sexy, was once a High Power Dancer and never took shit from any man- She might be able to get away with it for awhile. Most won't be content and will beg, scream, cry and push for more though. If she does it, she better be tough mentally and up for the challenge. And most importantly- Never call yourself an escort. That term is synonyms with sex. Go be a "body-rub girl" or go to massage therapy school. That's all I wanted to do years ago, before some asshole talked me outta it. And now here I am escorting. If you don't have to go this route, plan not to NOW before you get in a financial bind. Escorting isn't for everyone. Just sayin.......
I wish!! But I do bodyrubs and 90% of them start pushing for than a handjob and if they don't get their way they turn into 50 year old babies and start throwing out all kinds of insults and threats. Pathetic.
Yup.....................they are a bunch of titty babies for sure! Bahawhawhaw!! They will ALWAYS try and push for more. So, if you can get start out by ONLY offering rubs, and then at the very most giving hand jobs etc, THAT would ideally be the way to go. No matter what they are going to be begging to jack off inside of you. Be Strong and set your boundaries and don't ever waver. Just a rub, maybe a tug- and That IS That! I hope it works well for you! Remember, most men are animals. Its usually about sex. I have only ever met two who refused to be "unfaithful" to their wives, and they both wanted bj's. Stupid men!




If you're an escort and you don't have sex you will soon be listed as a ROB (rip off bitch) on every escort review site that exists. You will also deal with a lot of angry clients.
Personally, I think it's a dangerous game. I know there are women who do it but I've never heard of any being able to make a living from it and they all have horror stories of the customers who thought they were paying for sex and then were denied. Those guys feel ripped off and they kind of are being ripped off. Add into that the fact that they're already breaking the law by paying for sex and you have a recipe for disaster.




You could try private parties?
Or you could do fetish/kink stuff? I have a friend who does hardcore (I'm talking adult babies and golden showers) fetish/kink stuff. I don't know if she would technically be considered an escort, although she works with an escort agency so I guess she could be?
However, because she is catering to a niche market, she only has a handful of clients.
1. Eros is great, if you want to advertise, I highly recommend starting there.
2. Technically speaking you can escort without having sex... however, that is technically speaking. For starters, if you are advertising on eros, there is no way what so ever any potential client that contacts you is looking to just have a pretty face to look at /date/no sex. I've seen ads on CL, BP, SJ, you name it, implying they are looking for just some "arm candy" or date to whatever function... but c'mon, if the price is right you KNOW they will be expecting more from you than just that.
3. If you are trying to find your fit in this particular industry and are not interested in having sex, well, why not strip? cam? and, to agree with MyButter, most fetish work does not involve actual sex... same with dominatrix. Both those routes do require some experience and a general interest in either, so I wouldn't recommend venturing into those avenues just for the token of not having sex.
Just my two cents!


I have to say, from experience, that I disagree with this. It really depends on who you are, and lots of smaller factors come into play, the biggest being: if you're not having sex with the clients, what is it about you that makes them want to pay for your time despite you being so non traditional. If you're dedicated to being an escort but consider yourself too high of moral, figure this one out and you'll attract clients regardless.


I have to say, from experience, that I disagree with this. It really depends on who you are, and lots of smaller factors come into play, the biggest being: if you're not having sex with the clients, what is it about you that makes them want to pay for your time despite you being so non traditional. If you're dedicated to being an escort but consider yourself too high of moral, figure this one out and you'll attract clients regardless.
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