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    I’ve been chatting with a 35 yo guy since about one week. I took me in pvt 4 times, 20 minutes each, but never asked for a show, just want to share something in private.


    I love to chat with him, he really know how to tease me! Once I asked him to make a cam2cam and he agreed immediately, he seems to be also really a nice guy


    Yesterday he asked me to do a crazy thing, he want to buy for me a travel to the Maldives, my ticket, my room… Next week! Next week!


    He told me that in any case, he would not get back to me once more on the cam website, indeed today he doesn’t come as usual to wish me a good day; but he left me his email address.


    I chatted with him less than 2 hours, but I really fell attracted from him, also I think he really likes me too, the travel isn’t really cheap Honestly, I not so stupid to think something special, but never say never…


    This seems to be my train, what I should do?


    Any experience to share? Thanks a lot!

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    Don't take the bait! Abort! Abort mission!



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    Thanks... but why... It can not happen to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guy on internet... He really seems a cool one... Gimme a good reason to abort? It happen to you?

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    If you want to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guy on internet then go on Christianmingle.com not on a cam site.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie91 View Post
    Thanks... but why... It can not happen to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guIy on internet... He really seems a cool one... Gimme a good reason to abort? It happen to you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whoregeous View Post
    If you to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guy on internet then go on Christianmingle.com not on a cam site.
    You would probably get worse predators on ChristainMingle. Wait until he doscovers you are a sinner-whore!

    PinkGeisha: "NOTHING IMPRESSES A CAMMODEL MORE THAN A GUY THAT LETS HIS MONEY DO THE TALKING"


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    That's incredibly dangerous. You don't know this guy. If he's that nice, rich, sexy, and polite, then why is he going on a camsite to find a girl instead of finding one in real life or through a dating site? You could also lose your ability to cam on that site as it's against the rules to give out personal details.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie91 View Post
    Thanks... but why... It can not happen to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guy on internet... He really seems a cool one... Gimme a good reason to abort? It happen to you?
    It hasn't happened to me, but my feeling is that if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is too good to be true. I mean think about it: You've only known this man a week and he wants to take you on some island adventure? I'd say you should keep business strictly as business and not mix personal feelings and desires with $$$, BUT if you want to risk it, invest a long, long, long time into each other. Not a week. More like a year. Know the man's mother's maiden name, his favorite song, what his feet look like at least before you decide to travel with him. He could be a violent sex offender or serial killer for all you know!


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    How long have you been camming? So you are willing to up and leave with someone who spent $ for a total of hour with?

    Remember your life isn't a fairy tale. So what if it turns into a terrible mistake? What if you get involved with sex traffickers? Or worse dead? You have to remember online is fantasy and there are people out there that prey on sex workers. Not all, but don't be afraid to keep your walls high. Not everyone is out to get you, but your safety should be the highest priority.

    We can't make this decision for you, but please be safe if so. Tell someone where you are going, give address, have constant communication with that person. Get every address of every location you've been.





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    LaPetite, Thanks... again... loud and clear... but for a girl working as stripper honestly seems really strange to be so Unconfident just because I met him on a website... I would love to share a screenshoot I took of him, and you would agree for sure that he is not the kind of guy who can have any difficulty finding a girl. Maybe more the one that "want all now". At the end I do not agree on the "dangerous" or at least on the "more dangerous" than the boy I can meet today at the bar, who invite me for a dinner... also him can kill me... lol

    Is more an ethical matter to me I do not ready to "feel" like an escort. But is strange indeed, he never want to see me nude. never. he showed a sort of respect to me... like if I met him at the bar. I'm confused...

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    Remember Ted Bundy was handsome and had steady income.





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    Sounds like you had your mind made up before you asked for our opinion.





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    Audritwo, thanks also! Well the Maldives is not like saying Moscow... We are talking about a small Island.... I'm traveling alone going there... I'm traveling alone coming back I'm staying in my room while there, I can verify my paid reservation before... I thought and thought again... but if he is a scammer he is really a good one...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie91 View Post
    LaPetite, Thanks... again... loud and clear... but for a girl working as stripper honestly seems really strange to be so Unconfident just because I met him on a website... I would love to share a screenshoot I took of him, and you would agree for sure that he is not the kind of guy who can have any difficulty finding a girl. Maybe more the one that "want all now". At the end I do not agree on the "dangerous" or at least on the "more dangerous" than the boy I can meet today at the bar, who invite me for a dinner... also him can kill me... lol

    Is more an ethical matter to me I do not ready to "feel" like an escort. But is strange indeed, he never want to see me nude. never. he showed a sort of respect to me... like if I met him at the bar. I'm confused...
    Well, good luck if you decide to go. No one can stop you except you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Sounds like you had your mind made up before you asked for our opinion.
    That's what I was thinking. Why ask for opinions of girl's with more experience than you if you're just determined to shoot everyone's advice down? Go ahead and meet up with him if you have decided you want to...it's your life. It's not our job to "convince" you otherwise.


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    If you are looking to date go on a dating site. Do not use a cam site. You know nothing about this guy or his finances. You have no idea if he's rich or is giving the illusion of wealth. You have no idea if this guy is married, has kids, or is a serial killer. Once you give this total stranger your personal info it can NEVER be put back in the box. He can do tons of damage to you if he has your name. 4chan found a girls's facebook, email, family members, and address in just a few hours with nothing more than a first name and a photo. There would be nothing stopping this guy from doing the same to you.

    Meeting customers outside of work is how girls get abducted, raped, and murdered. It's never a good idea. I can speck from personal experience. My best friend and I used to strip in a club. We were living together and we met this awesome guy. He really liked her and he treated me very well. We started hanging out with this guy and he was dropping tons of money on us. We got to be best friends. We were always hanging out and doing stuff together. He met our families, played with our kids, took my dog for a walk, and if we ever needed anything he was a phone call away. This guy ended up flipping out, burning down our apartment and killing my dog and cat. The fire was a total loss. We were lucky we weren't there. Not only did we loose everything we owned but so did our neighbors because we trusted the wrong person. He served 10 days in jail and that was it. He didn't even get a slap on the wrist. He's walking around free as a bird today.

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    Audritwo, anyway is really nice... we are working on internet and we are thinking that any guy, since is coming to seek for vs on our websites is a killer lol lol I have seen a lot of threads talking about the so called "sugar daddy" anybody who met someone in real?

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    If you don't mind me asking, how long have you been camming? This is not all that rare and if you cam long enough you'll probably get dozens if not hundreds more guys just like him.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jodie91 View Post
    Thanks... but why... It can not happen to meet a nice, rich, sexy and polite guy on internet... He really seems a cool one... Gimme a good reason to abort? It happen to you?
    Unless you've seen his bank statements there's no reason to believe that he's rich. Based on average private rates I'm going to assume he's spent something like $400-700 total on you in a week. Then he stopped. That's not really a huge amount of money. If he was spending $100+ to take you private just to talk every single day for months, then yeah, that would show that he has a decent amount of disposable income. As it is it seems he just invested a few hundred bucks into something that he thinks will get him laid, also known as "prepaying for pussy". If he was serious about getting to know you and as wealthy as you think he is he wouldn't have disappeared like that.

    Besides, it's not like you're just meeting him for coffee or something (which would be risky enough), he's proposing international travel as a first date, which requires tons of your personal information (assuming he's not just sending you the money to pay for your own ticket--which I highly, highly doubt he would) and would leave you stranded on an island with him. Can you afford your own ticket home? Can you tell anyone about where you're going and who you're meeting?

    It's very, very unlikely that he's serious anyway. 90% of the time when guys talk about meeting they're fantasizing out loud.

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    Sin69, thanks really for sharing your personal experience.

    SoloDesire, No I do not have my decision... I'm more than confuse; my instinct is like yours... only I'm not 100% sure... Sometime life offers to you a train you can take it or let it go... It doesn't happen any day...

    In other words... from your words I read: if he is coming in a camwebiste it can not be a nice guy, is that the bottom line?
    At the end maybe you are right why, he would seek for a stripper???

    This thing is breaking me down.

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    Procrasturbator, only the hotel costs more than 5000 USD, the tickets in my hand (before leaving home) are probably half if not the same amount. Now 10.000 to meet someone is not cheap in my pov. He is interested in me. I got his personal email address, I'm looking at his fb profile, he is divorced. I'm trying to find the scam too... but I do not see it....

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    This sounds very troll like to me.

    Anyone with a sane mind would realise that people sitting behind their computer can LIE! Have you ever seen catfish? If not, go watch it.
    Cam site or no cam site, people pretend to be people they are not.

    Do you value your life that little to risk it so much?
    We've all heard the bullshit these men give, we've all been lied to, scammed in one way or another to know.

    I can't think of one girl on this forum that is going to say ' Yeah go and risk your own life'

    Seriously. If you believe everything these men tell you on cam then your in for a bloody rough ride.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarletl View Post
    This sounds very troll like to me.

    Anyone with a sane mind would realise that people sitting behind their computer can LIE! Have you ever seen catfish? If not, go watch it.
    Cam site or no cam site, people pretend to be people they are not.

    Do you value your life that little to risk it so much?
    We've all heard the bullshit these men give, we've all been lied to, scammed in one way or another to know.

    I can't think of one girl on this forum that is going to say ' Yeah go and risk your own life'

    Seriously. If you believe everything these men tell you on cam then your in for a bloody rough ride.
    She seems to be a European lady. I get the impression that she comes from middle of nowhere Ukraine (or at least that's the character that's being portrayed) and is looking for an out.
    Like Audritwo said, she seems dead set on going. She's trying to find more reasons to go than to not. I don't want to say "Just let her go do whatever" because that comes across cruel, but what's the point in trying to convince her otherwise when she's refutes/questions warnings?


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    Yeah ultimately it is upto her. But there could be so many dangers involved in this. It's not just that he could be a rapist or murderer.

    He may well be rich, he could also be part of a drug ring and use her for those purposes, could use her and pimp her out for money, maybe that's why his rich.

    Quote Originally Posted by LaPetiteVierge View Post
    She seems to be a European lady. I get the impression that she comes from middle of nowhere Ukraine (or at least that's the character that's being portrayed) and is looking for an out.
    Like Audritwo said, she seems dead set on going. She's trying to find more reasons to go than to not. I don't want to say "Just let her go do whatever" because that comes across cruel, but what's the point in trying to convince her otherwise when she's refutes/questions warnings?

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    Also let's remember how very common it is for men on camsites to promise the entire world just to get attention.

    I've been promised cars, laptops, shopping spree's the whole lot. I've had guys 'buy' expensive shit on my wishlist just to get my attention for an hour then cancel the order.

    Currently it's just words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sin69 View Post
    If you are looking to date go on a dating site. Do not use a cam site. You know nothing about this guy or his finances. You have no idea if he's rich or is giving the illusion of wealth. You have no idea if this guy is married, has kids, or is a serial killer. Once you give this total stranger your personal info it can NEVER be put back in the box. He can do tons of damage to you if he has your name. 4chan found a girls's facebook, email, family members, and address in just a few hours with nothing more than a first name and a photo. There would be nothing stopping this guy from doing the same to you.

    Meeting customers outside of work is how girls get abducted, raped, and murdered. It's never a good idea. I can speck from personal experience. My best friend and I used to strip in a club. We were living together and we met this awesome guy. He really liked her and he treated me very well. We started hanging out with this guy and he was dropping tons of money on us. We got to be best friends. We were always hanging out and doing stuff together. He met our families, played with our kids, took my dog for a walk, and if we ever needed anything he was a phone call away. This guy ended up flipping out, burning down our apartment and killing my dog and cat. The fire was a total loss. We were lucky we weren't there. Not only did we loose everything we owned but so did our neighbors because we trusted the wrong person. He served 10 days in jail and that was it. He didn't even get a slap on the wrist. He's walking around free as a bird today.

    Be aware of what you are thinking of doing.
    How Horrible!^ so sorry that happened..
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    Here's my opinion.

    Do I think every guy we cam with is a serial killer? No. lol. The big majority just want to get on, wank and log off. Some are really lonely and do try to find companionship / or just believe the way we are marketed (hot girl wants to date you, etc) so that's another reason for them wanting to meet up.

    So, no I don't think a guy wanting to meet = him wanting to lock you in a basement and torture you.

    But is it safe? No. Is it smart? No.

    #1 you've only talked with this guy for a whole 2 hours. Great. For all you know this could be his fantasy wank and by the time you step off the plane he panicked and bailed and went back home to his wife or gf, lol.
    #2 again, 2 hours not a lot of money. If anything I'd wait to even consider meeting someone. When he becomes a long term (6+months) regular who has spent a LOT of money on you then maybe consider it. Tell him you want to get to know him better. If he's as loaded as he says he is he will put forth the $$$ no excuses.

    These guys will promise you the moon. Any joe schmoe can spend $300 in private sessions. Sorry, that's NOT a lot of money. Not worth it. Yes you got his personal email. You know how many phone numbers I've gotten over the last 4 years of camming? Thousands. "I'll leave my wife for you." "I'll fly you out to Peru." "I'll spoil you, I'll be your Sugar Daddy." "If you show me your ass, I'll give you $10,000." How many of them stuck around to prove it? Um, none. lol.

    Men are thinking with their dick. Little brain squirts cum, big brain just spits out garbled lies they've told to try to impress other women lol.

    TBH you sound really naive' and gullible. Which is a pretty dangerous combo for this line of work and it can get you hurt and mess you up. I'd suggest you cam more. Months more before decide to meet anyone, then you'll understand allllllll of the false promises that get made to us. For free or in private it doesn't matter. Men will lie and manipulate to get what they want, even if it involves spending a little money. That's something you need to learn quick before diving into something like this.

    As for his assumed nice/amazing personality? We act on cam all day long too. I can gush and tell you you have the biggest dick in the whole world and it's the holy grail of dicks and you'll believe me. How do you know he's not acting too?

    This is one of my favorite quotes by Gavin De Becker (Author of 'The Gift Of Fear' recommend it for everyone, esp. women) and he says, "Niceness does not equal goodness. Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait. People seeking to control others almost always present the image of a nice person in the beginning."

    Be careful, whatever you decide.








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