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    Hi ladies! Thanks for all the amazing info first of all. I've been lurking for weeks and finally decided to take the plunge and try camming. I've been on SM for less than a week now and so far it's mostly good. I'm wondering if it's normal to have conflicting feelings about camming. When it comes down to it, I have zero issues with being naked on the internet and having men jerk it to me. Not one fuck given. I just hope my family never sees it.
    However, I have the sweetest, most supportive boyfriend (he brought me flowers after my first evening on cam!!) but he doesn't want to know the details. I dislike the one-on-one vibe I get from SM, however I do c2c because at least I know what the hell is going on on the other end and that I'm not just having some jerk direct a porno he can upload to a tube site immediately after. (Ever have a private where the guy is seemingly typing way too much to be masturbating at the same time? "Yes, just like that. Show me your eyes, look into the camera, now turn around and look at me, good, spread your ass, good..." )
    I'm hoping that when gold shows are enabled it will be less personal and feel less questionable to me.
    Is there a different cam site I should consider? Mfc good in the sense that they have group shows.
    Is this a common feeling for new cam girls in relationships? I'd honestly never forgive myself if I hurt him by this, though he assures me he is okay with me doing this for work.

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    Default Re: New to SW & camming!!

    Quote Originally Posted by valdee View Post
    Hi ladies! Thanks for all the amazing info first of all. I've been lurking for weeks and finally decided to take the plunge and try camming. I've been on SM for less than a week now and so far it's mostly good. I'm wondering if it's normal to have conflicting feelings about camming. When it comes down to it, I have zero issues with being naked on the internet and having men jerk it to me. Not one fuck given. I just hope my family never sees it.
    However, I have the sweetest, most supportive boyfriend (he brought me flowers after my first evening on cam!!) but he doesn't want to know the details. I dislike the one-on-one vibe I get from SM, however I do c2c because at least I know what the hell is going on on the other end and that I'm not just having some jerk direct a porno he can upload to a tube site immediately after. (Ever have a private where the guy is seemingly typing way too much to be masturbating at the same time? "Yes, just like that. Show me your eyes, look into the camera, now turn around and look at me, good, spread your ass, good..." )
    I'm hoping that when gold shows are enabled it will be less personal and feel less questionable to me.
    Is there a different cam site I should consider? Mfc good in the sense that they have group shows.
    Is this a common feeling for new cam girls in relationships? I'd honestly never forgive myself if I hurt him by this, though he assures me he is okay with me doing this for work.
    Welcome to SW!

    Well if he says he's ok with it then take his word for it. IF he says he's ok with it then how would you hurt him? I'm not sure if what you're feeling is common, but once my boyfriend (of 8 years) told me he was totally ok with it, that was that and I started camming. If it bothered him he would tell me, so no I don't have mixed feelings regarding my bf.

    DO yall have open communication? If ya'll have communication problems I could see why you might have this bad feeling in the back of your head. But if he says he's ok with it, he's ok with it?

    You say you like group shows more but know with MFC and GoldShows you run a higher risk of being recorded and posted online more frequently then say if you ONLY do 1 on 1. MFC, ANYONE can be watching and recording you, there will be literally hundreds of people watching every one of your shows. Kind of the same deal with GoldShows. I have only found 2 or 3 of my shows recorded and put online in over 2 years of camming (which were easy to remove thankfully), but its probably because I only do exclusives 1 on 1.

    The thing about SM (and other pay per minute sites) is that it's more customized shows, so yes you might get a lot of direction. Some guys just want something very specific. I have a lot of regulars that are very specific and talk a lot. Some come in and don't type a word (which is actually weirder for me).

    Yeah, if you dont like the personalization of privates, then it sounds like you might be a MFC or GoldShow on SM girl.


    And I hope your BF opens up about hearing the details about camming because I can guarantee you will have stories you will want to tell him. You will see the good, the bad and the ugly. Good luck.

    Edit: Just because he is C2C doesn't mean he can't still be recording!
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