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    Default omg i just cried on cam....

    Long story short someone in my guest chat was asking me about being transgender and one thing led to another and unfortunately my emotions overtook me and I started crying.

    I took a break to pull myself together but I am mortified and shocked that I just did that.

    Has anyone else ever experienced this before or am I officially the world's most unstable individual?

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    Quote Originally Posted by illuminaughty View Post
    Long story short someone in my guest chat was asking me about being transgender and one thing led to another and unfortunately my emotions overtook me and I started crying.

    I took a break to pull myself together but I am mortified and shocked that I just did that.

    Has anyone else ever experienced this before or am I officially the world's most unstable individual?
    No you are not unstable, you are human. You did the right thing to log off and take a break to get yourself together. Sometimes it happens *hugs*
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    Default Re: omg i just cried on cam....

    i think every camgirl has had some form of breakdown...like banning everyone, cursing the entire room out, screaming, crying, breaking their computer (probably rarer on that one lol), etc.

    guys on cam can be fucking annoying....

    i have made the mistake more than a few times staying logged in when i was pissed as hell and should of just got off...but yeah you live and you learn...just go back on and block anyone who brings it up cuz they are an asshole - (unless they are sending tips and apologizing )
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    :/ did you film it to sell in your crying fetish store? J/k, trying to make you smile.

    I do not think I have let myself cry on cam, but I know I have definitely broken down and cut the feed quick like right in the middle of a convo. You are human, you are allowed to have emotions dear. And this camming biz will surely make you face any demons you have been hiding from. It did me, had my first ever level 8 anxiety attack over getting on cam.

    Brace yourself baby, there may be more emotions to come. Camming made me grow as a person and things that used to really bother I am now like, eh whatever, that is no big deal. We get stronger.
    I think the important thing was to get off cam and pull yourself out of the rabbit hole and meditate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by illuminaughty View Post
    Long story short someone in my guest chat was asking me about being transgender and one thing led to another and unfortunately my emotions overtook me and I started crying.

    I took a break to pull myself together but I am mortified and shocked that I just did that.

    Has anyone else ever experienced this before or am I officially the world's most unstable individual?
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    Default Re: omg i just cried on cam....

    yes this is an extremely stressful business and most all of us have either cried or come very close to it.


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    May I ask what did they ask about being transgender that made you cry?
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    Default Re: omg i just cried on cam....

    Quote Originally Posted by illuminaughty View Post
    Long story short someone in my guest chat was asking me about being transgender and one thing led to another and unfortunately my emotions overtook me and I started crying.

    I took a break to pull myself together but I am mortified and shocked that I just did that.

    Has anyone else ever experienced this before or am I officially the world's most unstable individual?
    Babe :< I cried on cam once.
    I had jus gotten dumped for the first time and someone said "Do you have a boyfriend"
    and I was like "Not anymore"
    and he asked why
    and I burst into tears. :I

    Be good to yourself! You're human, you have emotions. Good for you for doing the right thing and signing off and pulling yourself together. Take a longer break if you need to. <333
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    Quote Originally Posted by Whoregeous View Post
    May I ask what did they ask about being transgender that made you cry?
    This reminds me of the freeloaders that come in and don't say hi or hello and just go straight to asking for free titties.
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    You are wrong. I am also Transgender. I'm asking because I want to reach out but if that's how see you it, then who am I to stop you?
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    This reminds me of the freeloaders that come in and don't say hi or hello and just go straight to asking for free titties.
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    Just because some customers may treat you like a blow-up sex doll doesn't mean you ARE one. You're a normal person with feelings... and sometimes, feelings suck when they make us cry at awkward/inappropriate times. I wouldn't waste any more time dwelling on being embarrassed, etc.

    I have only cried once on cam. I was having a really "off" day (can't remember if there was something going on in my personal life, or WHAT) and feeling depressed before I even started to cam. I had just gotten out of a private that I felt hadn't gone well, and then some douche in my room told me I look like a "dyke Jack Black." Ummm, if it had been ANY other day, I would have laughed hysterically and encouraged him to continue to amuse me. But, that day, I think I stared blankly at the webcam, my eyes swelled up with tears, and I hit the disconnect button moments after I broke down into a sob.

    Wish I had wasted the tears on a legit insult. LOL.

    So, cheer up! It's no biggie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Whoregeous View Post
    You are wrong. I am also Transgender.
    Definitely never said you weren't since I dont know you. Just thought if the OP might be sensitive to the situation, maybe you're better off PMing her or something instead of asking out in a very public forum.
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    Seriously it happens sometimes. I have bawled my eyes out and didn't log off. <3





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    Sorry to hear that .
    Back at Christmas... I had a regular ask me what i wanted for Christmas. I had lost my fur baby the previous spring. I told that customer that what I really wanted for Christmas I could not have and started crying.... he took me exclusive to apologize and help me to feel better. I felt so bad in many ways. For crying on cam but mostly because I missed my fur baby. It was just the wrong question at the wrong time unbeknownst to him...

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    I don't appreciate you comparing me to the freeloaders without looking at the context and the intention as to why I was asking. This isn't about me or you so I will drop it and so should you.
    Quote Originally Posted by SpaceyLaceyButterfacey View Post
    Definitely never said you weren't since I dont know you. Just thought if the OP might be sensitive to the situation, maybe you're better off PMing her or something instead of asking out in a very public forum.
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    My brother died in a car accident a few years ago and everytime I see a screenname with the same name as him I feel the tears come... I HAVE to block them, though I wish I didn't have to but I cant even look at the name
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    Default Re: omg i just cried on cam....

    If it makes you feel any better, then I just cried for 20 minutes before logging onto this site.
    As other models have explained; this is a stressful industry at times. Sometimes camming feels like a high and when you go offline you feel, well, sad.
    I think that's normal. Not to mention days where all you get stuck with are freeloaders in your room and you're actually pumped up and ready to give it your all.

    Hang in there, we got your back.
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    Default Re: omg i just cried on cam....

    *Hugs*

    I think we all, or most of us, have cried on cam. We're human and this job brings the dickbags out of the woodwork who hide behind computer screens. I know it's really hard not to let it get to you, especially when the insult is very personal, but you gotta go easy on yourself.
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    I get some crass comment abouts my boobs. One guy bollocked on about "worst boob job ever, bad scars, don't even match" Before I could say it's not a boob job it's cancer, he'd left my room. This was so frustrating and I could feel myself getting really mad so I logged out for a minute to calm down. I logged back in, and after about five minutes realised there were tears rolling down my face.

    I stayed on cam to show the guys that yes, most of the time I don't care what people say, I'm just grateful to be alive. But I am human and one shit comment too many makes me realise what I've lost and that fucking hurts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaT View Post
    I get some crass comment abouts my boobs. One guy bollocked on about "worst boob job ever, bad scars, don't even match" Before I could say it's not a boob job it's cancer, he'd left my room. This was so frustrating and I could feel myself getting really mad so I logged out for a minute to calm down. I logged back in, and after about five minutes realised there were tears rolling down my face.

    I stayed on cam to show the guys that yes, most of the time I don't care what people say, I'm just grateful to be alive. But I am human and one shit comment too many makes me realise what I've lost and that fucking hurts.
    I just wanted to say fuck that guy. Seriously. Fuck him.

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    I'm sorry. I almost cried on cam two nights ago, managed to log off right before I did. It'd been such a slow week on MFC, and I was sick (probably not the best idea to log on), I had 100+ people in my room and no tips. I mentioned how crazy it was that I had that many people in my room and couldn't finish a simple countdown. Then all my regs chime in with "Yeah, bills took my token money" and "I'm poor this time of month" with just pissed me off because they get on and are entertained by me EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, don't they think about the fact that I have bills too? If they're going to spend every night with me they need to factor me into their monthly budget, IMO. So that just ticked me off & then another reg said "you look sad" which brought the tears on. I just said "Yeah, I don't feel good and I'm pretty discouraged. I'm gonna go, night guys." and logged off right before the tears started falling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaT View Post
    I get some crass comment abouts my boobs. One guy bollocked on about "worst boob job ever, bad scars, don't even match" Before I could say it's not a boob job it's cancer, he'd left my room. This was so frustrating and I could feel myself getting really mad so I logged out for a minute to calm down. I logged back in, and after about five minutes realised there were tears rolling down my face.

    I stayed on cam to show the guys that yes, most of the time I don't care what people say, I'm just grateful to be alive. But I am human and one shit comment too many makes me realise what I've lost and that fucking hurts.
    People like that makes my stomach turn. :/ Fuck that guy...
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    Thank you all so much, the support here is extremely overwhelming. It makes me feel so much better <3 I feel like I should be coming back much more often. You ladies are great

    I just want to address that I wasn't actually made fun of by the man who I cried to, he actually was just asking me personal questions about how I've been feeling coming out to everyone. It's been great, I finally started dressing as a female last week full time and presenting as one in public. So right now I'm going through a flurry of emotions good and bad. Plus I'm sure the high doses of estrogen and progesterone I'm taking amplify that.

    I just am so thankful to be making the money I'm making doing this, it's allowed me to finally but clothing I want and be me and it seriously means the world to me I love doing this abd I will certainly be more active here :* <3

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    I'm glad to hear the guys weren't mean to you. I still remember my first day living life as the woman I've always knew I was. I am so happy and excited for you. I hope people you encounter on the street or daily life are kind to you and always remember, confidence is key!
    Quote Originally Posted by illuminaughty View Post
    Thank you all so much, the support here is extremely overwhelming. It makes me feel so much better <3 I feel like I should be coming back much more often. You ladies are great

    I just want to address that I wasn't actually made fun of by the man who I cried to, he actually was just asking me personal questions about how I've been feeling coming out to everyone. It's been great, I finally started dressing as a female last week full time and presenting as one in public. So right now I'm going through a flurry of emotions good and bad. Plus I'm sure the high doses of estrogen and progesterone I'm taking amplify that.

    I just am so thankful to be making the money I'm making doing this, it's allowed me to finally but clothing I want and be me and it seriously means the world to me I love doing this abd I will certainly be more active here :* <3
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    I've never cried on cam (although my very bad temper and a slightly teenage style grumpyness has appeared on cam)
    I have however cried the second I come off cam.

    Your not abnormal, may well have been a sensitive day. We all get them.
    However on a different note, you really do have to become thick skinned when camming my dear. We all get all sorts of comments thrown at us, even the most amazing model like girls get insults. Some men just never grow up!
    And no doubt the guy who insult us would win a contest in looking like forrest gump majority of the time.

    Try your best to not let it affect you and that is hard when your on cam in a room of other guys who witness this. Best thing to do is IGNORE it as soon as you see they are starting to turn into a troll and quietly ban them. Giving them reactions is the worst possible thing you can do.
    I personally have reacted on cam to troll guys and all it does is escalates and then you're just edging them on further to insult.

    Pick your head back up, wipe away the tears and get back on those cams 10x stronger!

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    I'm not a cam girl (I'm a dancer) but I've cried at work SO many time I've lost count. Sometimes due to customers or just other personal things going on. What I've found is that men (the good ones) respond protectively when we cry. It shows our vulnerability and is VERY feminine (and I'm sure the estrogen helped bring it on!) Even though it might be embarrassing for us, they actually appreciate it. You were being honest and real. Nothing wrong with that, lovely <3

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