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    Hi Ladies!
    First off i want to say a collective thank you to everyone on this site! I started camming on CB 5 weeks ago, and have now been on SM for just over a month having abandoned CB. I read SO much on this forum before i started and its been a lifesaver many times already! Anyway, I really dislike silence when im sitting in free chat on SM, so i always say Hi to new guys as they join my room. Now, i always follow their response with 'How are you?' Or 'How was your day?' (and if they respond about it i will obviously chat further)

    It hadnt occured to me that this was annoying, though i read a post a few days ago that it was. Anyway, was hoping there may be some suggestions of ways to engage my visitors on SM? Im english and i get quite a lot of privates for dirty talk thanks to my accent, so it helps me to talk in free chat, but i am genuinely stuck for topics of conversation/conversation starters!

    Any ideas?
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    I have pretty random convo's,lol.
    I talk about string theory, tesseracting, why are all you guys fucking retards ( free chat guys not you guys)I like to read my horoscope so If traffic is a bit slow I'll read their's as well, sports, I am not too keen on in but relevant points of sports to discuss is very easy to pick up, I always get complimented on my accent so I talk about where its from ( actually where I lie and say its from)the Illuminati, food, things I don't do in free chat and I learn a new word every day so I tell guys the word and the meaning, I talk about chess and the properties of water.
    I never talk about other cam models, I think its tacky as fuck, or personally stuff, like school, family , friends, my problems, blah blah, Iam not there for that shit, Iam here to take their money however I will ask them about their lives and family and shit.

    I say talk about what ever is on your mind, honestly some of these guys really want to talk to you but they dont know what to say so what ever your topic is, movies, tv shows, historic events,your new spray tan they will google shit and be a part of it.
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    Ok where here is my advice about what to talk about it free chat:

    Don't talk about sad/depressing things obviously. Makes guys lose their boners.

    Talk about things that are sexy and that will get their mind wandering, but dont give too much detail because you dont want to get everyone off in free chat. Always mention youre waiting for a private or ready to do whatever in exclusive. You also want to come across as real and not a robot, so talk about normal things as well when they come up, but the thing is to try to tease them with words, make them want to see whats next!

    Unfortunately, I never stick to my own advice... I tend to go off ranting about things I feel strongly about, or I'll start telling stories or something, and next thing I know I have a room full of 30 guys and no one is taking me private because they are listening to my rant/stories.

    One guy came in and mentioned he just got out of prison. I feel strongly that our justice system is seriously FUCKED and I started ranting on about how prisons are actually making offenders worse and not helping. (That one actually worked out for me because the guy took me on a long private to talk about about the black prisoners would use him (a scrawny white boy) as a slave. Yeah turns out I think he was lying about all of it but hey, got me a long private.

    If I get trolls or freeloaders I don't block them right away, I usually bat them around like a cat with a mouse and then leave them to die when I get bored with them. This usually makes everyone else in the room laugh and I sometimes get a few tips or a private from it. ( I find some guys like it when you makes them laugh, that its actually a turn on for them).

    BUT if my room is slow and I'm just getting a bunch of "hi, hru", I try to get past the "I'm fine, and yourself" deal because I usually get stuck after that. When they say, "Hi, hru", I usually will reply with, "I'm fantastic, just waiting on my first private of the day. I usually cum sooooo hard when I first log on" or something like that. Or... "Ive been dying to get naked all day". I mean again, dont say too much, but just enough to get their mind wandering and maybe feel that blood start flowing to his pants.

    I know it sometimes doesn't feel natural, or you feel like a salesman when you tell someone to take you private ( I used to feel like that), but I tried it a few times and It works. If I have a bunch of guys just sitting in my room, I tell someone Im ready for a private and it usually happens! There is a girl on my site that is constantly in privates... When asked how she is doing, she always replies.. "I'm feeling naughty, whos ready to play"? She is CONSTANTLY in privates. I try to watch her to get tips on what to do, but she is never in free chat for more than a minute or two until she's gone again.


    When I type a response, I never intend for it to be so long ^^^ lol sorry
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    I talk about the weather, sports, day to day shit, etc. LOL. I like preserving my dirty talk for guys who pay.




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    Quote Originally Posted by apryll11 View Post
    I have pretty random convo's,lol.
    I talk about string theory, tesseracting, why are all you guys fucking retards ( free chat guys not you guys)I like to read my horoscope so If traffic is a bit slow I'll read their's as well, sports, I am not too keen on in but relevant points of sports to discuss is very easy to pick up, I always get complimented on my accent so I talk about where its from ( actually where I lie and say its from)the Illuminati, food, things I don't do in free chat and I learn a new word every day so I tell guys the word and the meaning, I talk about chess and the properties of water.
    I never talk about other cam models, I think its tacky as fuck, or personally stuff, like school, family , friends, my problems, blah blah, Iam not there for that shit, Iam here to take their money however I will ask them about their lives and family and shit.

    I say talk about what ever is on your mind, honestly some of these guys really want to talk to you but they dont know what to say so what ever your topic is, movies, tv shows, historic events,your new spray tan they will google shit and be a part of it.
    Yeah i really need to find an alternate location in my city and say thats where im from, have had way too many guys from soooo close. That said, if SM would sort out my failed geo-restrictions it wouldnt be such a problem.... The new word idea is good! Sounds like you have lots of intelligent conversation! Someone told me i should try reading some of my medical textbooks (med student) but that seems like it would bore everyone half to death! Thank you for your lovely ideas!

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    How exactly do you bat around with the freeloaders? Also is it normal practice to ignore the Free Free Chat at the bottom? I did and i actually received a message from some guy complaining to me about how i ignored him!

    haha i love the sex related welcomes! Im gonna have to incorporate those Thank you!

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    How exactly do you bat around with the freeloaders? Also is it normal practice to ignore the Free Free Chat at the bottom? I did and i actually received a message from some guy complaining to me about how i ignored him!

    haha i love the sex related welcomes! Im gonna have to incorporate those Thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I talk about the weather, sports, day to day shit, etc. LOL. I like preserving my dirty talk for guys who pay.
    lol! Unfortunately ive found theres a fine line between teasing them and getting them off. One that i really need to practice teetering on more!

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    When I started camming, I watched other rooms a lot to learn what works and what doesn't.

    Usually it's just about getting free attention and guys find the most interesting ways to do that. All fellas deserve equal attention (or zero attention) until they pay for my time (with exception of high paying regulars).

    To answer your question about freeloaders, ignore and they go away. By the third question or comment it's obvious they won't buy anything and it's ok to not engage further.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I talk about the weather, sports, day to day shit, etc. LOL. I like preserving my dirty talk for guys who pay.
    lol! Unfortunately ive found theres a fine line between teasing them and getting them off. One that i really need to practice teetering on more!

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    Now im on a PVT only site with no free chat I don't have to do all this... thank god

    I am pretty shit at small talk too....I used to stick to basics when I don't know the guy like Hi how are you, where are you from, talk about football etc. Once you build up regulars you will find chatting to them easier because you find out what interests them and then you will find when your chatting to one guy about a particular subject then others will join in.

    Men are terrible communicators though and not big talkers so bare this in mind.

    Also try not too chat too much or get into deep conversations too much because guys become so distracted they forget you're there to earn money. Keep it short, simple but interesting. Hold back your flirting and dirty talk for privates.
    The whole part of the eagerness to take you private is because they want to explore your dirty/kinky side.

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    On MFC I used to have random conversations. We'd talk about favorite 80s cartoons, favorite T.V. shows and movies, how "crazy" I am for skydiving, how they can't believe I'm single (though it's annoying when they ask "Why are you single???" Um...being single's not a disease, people!). When some guys start to ask a little too many personal questions (like about your kid/s or where you live), there is nothing wrong with saying "Sorry, that's just a little too personal." And when you say that, they need to respect that...instead of say things like "Don't worry...I'm not some axe murderer, bb." Lmao. Guys do tend to get just tad bit too personal on these sites. Some of them may not even realize they're doing it.
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    I used to greet all. But this week have been working 2 sites at a time so trying to type more. I say a general hello unless it is a regular. Tell them to ignore my bad bed head, thunder, whatever may be going on at the moment. If my nipples try to peek thru, I comment on them misbehaving to try to get some show. Type/tell them what I do and where to "hopefully" lessen any confusion. Thanks to lots of reading here. I do not do dirty talk, show my toys, or anything that might get them off for free. I block the free peeps (on SM) as they are frequently locals trying to harass. I block the Anons and no money peeps from chatting on KL and Cams. Just adds to much confusion to room for me. I never, never give out my location. I only give a geographic area of the US by big, generic landmarks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SpaceyLaceyButterfacey View Post
    I know it sometimes doesn't feel natural, or you feel like a salesman when you tell someone to take you private ( I used to feel like that), but I tried it a few times and It works. If I have a bunch of guys just sitting in my room, I tell someone Im ready for a private and it usually happens! There is a girl on my site that is constantly in privates... When asked how she is doing, she always replies.. "I'm feeling naughty, whos ready to play"? She is CONSTANTLY in privates. I try to watch her to get tips on what to do, but she is never in free chat for more than a minute or two until she's gone again.
    That is the best thing to do,in my case: More convo = More freeloaders = Less money.
    Now some girls are talented and can be entertaining AND stay busy in private. For me...not so much, I say the same 3-4 things over and over basically, and only answer specific questions if they seem like they really want a show and not just wanna jerk it to the question lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by SpaceyLaceyButterfacey View Post

    BUT if my room is slow and I'm just getting a bunch of "hi, hru", I try to get past the "I'm fine, and yourself" deal because I usually get stuck after that. When they say, "Hi, hru", I usually will reply with, "I'm fantastic, just waiting on my first private of the day. I usually cum sooooo hard when I first log on" or something like that. Or... "Ive been dying to get naked all day". I mean again, dont say too much, but just enough to get their mind wandering and maybe feel that blood start flowing to his pants.

    I know it sometimes doesn't feel natural, or you feel like a salesman when you tell someone to take you private ( I used to feel like that), but I tried it a few times and It works. If I have a bunch of guys just sitting in my room, I tell someone Im ready for a private and it usually happens! There is a girl on my site that is constantly in privates... When asked how she is doing, she always replies.. "I'm feeling naughty, whos ready to play"? She is CONSTANTLY in privates. I try to watch her to get tips on what to do, but she is never in free chat for more than a minute or two until she's gone again.


    When I type a response, I never intend for it to be so long ^^^ lol sorry
    Long responses help the most imo! This is pretty awesome! I get a lot of guys asking me how I am and then leaving (and sometimes I just get stuck) and idk why I didn't think of answering like that instead of just saying "I'm fine, how are you?"

    I like to try to keep conversations short in free chat, personally while trying not to get to nerdy because, while that's gained me some good, long pvts in the past, I've had dudes just leave when they hear me talking to someone else in the chat about the newest episode of some anime or something!
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