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    Default Re: meeting bf in club vs real life

    Let's hope no one with a blue ribbon sees this! I just got done reading some hilarious troll threads by guys who were convinced that because a dancer said she liked him/was wet when he touched her without permission/didn't immediately scream and run the other way when she saw him, that meant they were totally in love and the dancer totally wanted his dick in her for free.

    Other than what others have said about it being unwise, personally, to get involved with someone from the club... I think it's potentially harmful to other strippers, too, since then that customer or others whom he tells about the situation will think that all of us want to get involved otc. Guys start using the club like a pick-up joint rather than a place where strippers get paid to create a fantasy. I know I've had plenty of guys thinking that, for whatever reason, I'm just champing at the bit to go out to a romantic Fuddrucker's dinner with them rather than have them pay me for dances. I want to encourage a culture in which every guy who walks into a club does so with the expectation that he is there as a PAYING CUSTOMER, not as some kind of eligible bachelor looking for hook-ups.

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    Default Re: meeting bf in club vs real life

    I've been dancing for at least 5 years - I danced throughout college, and on/off afterwards. In all that time, I've probably met around 10 guys that I would have ever thought about dating. Only one guy did I ever going on a date with - it actually turned into a long term relationship. The things that all the guys that I was actually attracted to had in common were that they weren't really interested in being in a strip club - they got brought there with friends/bc of a bachelor party, they were genuinely respectful, they were somewhat awkward in the club, and they were nice regular guys.

    I'd definitely say that it's not the norm to meet a guy who you'd date in a strip club!

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