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    Duh Guys who hate strippers/ women in the strip club

    The other day, there was a group of guys who came into the club who where a bunch of tools with a capital T. They didn't tip, didn't offer to buy any of the girls who sat with them drinks (one girl even asked and this guy flat out told her where the bar was and to go buy herself a drink! I got up and left at that point SMH!), they certainly did not get any dances, they didn't really even look at any of us or acknowledge our existences, they didn't try to strike up any type of conversation or anything. One guy even asked me why I was so quiet as he scrolled through FB on his phone and ignored me! Hahahahahaha!

    Just... what is the point of going into a strip club if you are not there for the girls? The drinks are certainly not the reason, they are cheaper elsewhere! Like... why poison peoples' lives with your putrid presence?

    I've noticed this is a problem in more upscale clubs, like a higher percentage of the customers think they are too good for strippers? I avoid people like this at all costs, but damn, what is the issue with that? Where is the fun in ignoring your entertainment?

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    Default Re: Guys who hate strippers/ women in the strip club

    because they get off on insulting and putting down women, more specifically strippers. with guys like these, i'm glad i have a good relationship with the bouncers

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    Default Re: Guys who hate strippers/ women in the strip club

    Playing devil's advocate: if the girl mentioned by the OP asked the guys for a drink without being offered one, then good for her.


    Aside from that minuscule incident, those guys should had been banned.





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    I think this is typical behaviour of groups of insecure men, they want to act cool in front of their friends. Nevermind them, they deserve to be ignored back.

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    Is it possible they had never been to a strip club, and didn't know what to expect, or how to act? I've found that often groups of guys will come across as rude until you figure out they're just embarrassed and insecure.

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    What's funny is that I've known some guys in real life who go to strip clubs and even dated models, yet then to me, they mention that they have "no respect for women who use their looks instead of using effort to get ahead" such as strippers and models. smh. Don't bite the hands that feed you..


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    They got rejected by the cheerleader in high school and now they want to take it out on us! lol! We occasionally get those in my club, but they are sniffed out quickly and *completely* ignored within an hour of their arrival by every dancer in the club. It's so funny watching them come back alone and watch the dancers step around them, not even look at them. haha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cairalis View Post
    I think this is typical behaviour of groups of insecure men, they want to act cool in front of their friends. Nevermind them, they deserve to be ignored back.
    And I bet cha, if you ignore their simple asses, they would throw a bitch fit. I may not be a stripper yet, or know the in's and out's of the strip club life,but god damn it, I do have Associate's Degree in Psychology, and have been around those said men long enough they are hurt attention starve little boys.And I bet cha' with bigger,& better tit, that any other random girl that they find attractive will always pay them dust, and laugh at them when they try to get their number. Op, be honest; in your normal day to day life(well stripping can be normal) if you are just walking down the street, in your regular casual street clothes, and one of those guys approached you asking you for your number, would you give it to them?If your answer is NO!, then you might can understand they ways of a asshole laced with symptoms of Elliot Rodger,and Ted Bundy

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    You can probably get money out of guys like this, but the approach has to be different. You kind of have to blind side them with the sale by pretending that you don't want to make money. It helps to be funny and "that cool girl from high school." You know the girl, the one who acts like a guy when around the guys. Figure out who the alpha is, then start insulting him to impress the betas in the group. I promise that one of betas will spend money on you for making him feel powerful around the alpha.

    I never bother with groups like this unless they are the only viable customers in the club. It's a lot of work and you won't likely get repeat business from them in the future.

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    ^Exactly. I don't waste my time with guys I feel will be a hard sell or will put me in a bad mood. Usually if I feel like they aren't going to spend within the first couple minutes of meeting someone I move on and ignore them. I'm not gonna play games all night and waste my energy on them.

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    Yes, Tourdefranzia is entirely correct... douching around with these kinds of boys can be worth the effort. But it's tricky.

    NOTE: Some guys come in just to heckle dancers and give them a hard time. It makes them feel fancy and superior, it gets them wet, it makes them sleep soundly at night. There are sadists in the club. BEWARE. They will never, never, neeeeever spend money or act nicely. They're a hot mess and a lost cause... with thousands of dollars that they never spend but ALWAYS show off.

    But as Tourdefranzia mentioned, many of the other guys are in it for the ride, heck... some of them actually LIKE going to the club... some of them have never been and are just follwing king dickbag's lead.... when theyre together, they fall in line.

    If you hit it off with a guy from that clusterfuck and let the entire crew know how much dude-bro-guy is missing out, or by insinuating what an insecure idiot he's being, it can turn the tide. Soon you'll discover that some of the guys start to sneak off to get private dances/rooms out of sight. They'll make fun of anyone who gets dances (then and there) or any guy that walks off with a gal... but look in the back and there they'll be, having fun... a few yards away from mister-main-man.

    Of course, the second they come back they'll lament about how these predatory strippers dragged them in to the VIP, oh woe... woe is me!!! Blahblahblah. Or they'll sit down and take the razzing from their dude-bro's... and you'll see that guy next Tuesday at the club, on his own.


    I don't understand why some guys like to piss girls off... do they secretly want to be bashed but they don't know how to ask for bitchy treatment without sounding strange. Do they want to bring ladies down to their own level so they aren't intimidated by strong women?

    In any case, if you're tough cookie that can dish out the dirt without letting their insults affect your evening, stick it out and see what comes of it. Otherwise, avoid that player-pickup-freudian mental dickfuckery... and make your money from reasonable adults.
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    I simply always ignore guys in groups bc 9 times out of 10 they don't spend and wanna look cool around each other. I usually approach maybe 2 guys sitting together but even then unless I've got a partner in crime for the night to help me hustle them I usually just walk up & ask for a dance. There's def power in numbers. Guys in groups almost always make me feel uncomfortable.
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    Agreeing w/ Simone on this one. Easiest thing to do is let all the other girls know to avoid them, maybe 'accidentally' knock a few drinks into laps as you walk by their table, & get them tossed ASAP. To take it one step further into the darker realm, sm guys who behave that way tend to think so lowly of strippers that for my own safety, I might think twice abt whether I want to be alone in a dimly-lit back room w/ them.

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    One thing I have found with groups is that if you can make an impression on one or two of the guys, they'll often come back later on in the night. I've had this happen a couple of times, where I'll stand around chatting and joking with a few of them, figure out they aren't going to get a dance, and walk away irritated. A few hours later one guy from the group has come back and said they had been thinking about a dance all night.

    I don't finish till 4am, so the times it's happened have been a nice, easy sale to finish the night. Even if it seems like no one is buying, it might be worth saying something like, "Well if you feel like coming back to see me, my name is..."

    Edit: unless they're really douchey. Don't put up with abuse for the sake of a sale.

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    I give them directions to Woody's/ (Popular gay bar in the area)
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    We had a group of guys like this on Friday!! They sat at the stage all night long doing nothing but insulting everyone onstage (calling all of the dancers fat, stupid, ugly, whores, etc). And for the few dancers that did try to sit with them to win them over...no go. No drinks, no dances, no tips, nothing. All of them were under 24. It's sad what guys will do in order to look "cool", when little do they realize acting like that doesn't get them respect, or laid. It just shows us how insecure and unintelligent they really are.

    My interaction with them went as follows; I ignored them while I was onstage until I saw one of them pull out cash and wave it...until he asks if I have change for a $20. I wasn't about to stop a stage show in which I was making money to be his personal bank teller. Nope. That's what the servers and bartenders are for. Before I could even speak however he says I needed to "work harder" if I wanted to break change for him so that he could give me $1. I laughed out loud, gently picked it his drink to move it to the side, and "nudged" the back of his chair so it fell completely backwards with him in it (our chairs at the stage are really unstable so this is easy to do). He looked like an idiot, and the Manager kicked them all out shortly after.

    I moved his drink as I didn't want to see it knocked over. That's a waste of good alcohol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelydancer View Post
    We had a group of guys like this on Friday!! They sat at the stage all night long doing nothing but insulting everyone onstage (calling all of the dancers fat, stupid, ugly, whores, etc). And for the few dancers that did try to sit with them to win them over...no go. No drinks, no dances, no tips, nothing. All of them were under 24. It's sad what guys will do in order to look "cool", when little do they realize acting like that doesn't get them respect, or laid. It just shows us how insecure and unintelligent they really are.

    My interaction with them went as follows; I ignored them while I was onstage until I saw one of them pull out cash and wave it...until he asks if I have change for a $20. I wasn't about to stop a stage show in which I was making money to be his personal bank teller. Nope. That's what the servers and bartenders are for. Before I could even speak however he says I needed to "work harder" if I wanted to break change for him so that he could give me $1. I laughed out loud, gently picked it his drink to move it to the side, and "nudged" the back of his chair so it fell completely backwards with him in it (our chairs at the stage are really unstable so this is easy to do). He looked like an idiot, and the Manager kicked them all out shortly after.

    I moved his drink as I didn't want to see it knocked over. That's a waste of good alcohol.
    I have lost count of the guys I would want to do this ^^^^ to -- they make me think of that scene in the Dukes of Hazzard remake where Jessica Simpson kicks the guy backwards in his chair. But none of the clubs I've worked in ever had such conveniently, dangerously, HORRIBLY unstable chairs to make such a move manageable

    Extra points for moving that poor, innocent bottle of alcohol out of harm's way. You are my hero.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovelydancer View Post
    Before I could even speak however he says I needed to "work harder" if I wanted to break change for him so that he could give me $1. I laughed out loud, gently picked it his drink to move it to the side, and "nudged" the back of his chair so it fell completely backwards with him in it (our chairs at the stage are really unstable so this is easy to do). He looked like an idiot, and the Manager kicked them all out shortly after.

    I moved his drink as I didn't want to see it knocked over. That's a waste of good alcohol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    They got rejected by the cheerleader in high school and now they want to take it out on us! lol! We occasionally get those in my club, but they are sniffed out quickly and *completely* ignored within an hour of their arrival by every dancer in the club. It's so funny watching them come back alone and watch the dancers step around them, not even look at them. haha!
    Yup. One of my muses at work. They come in acting like they're only here to eat a bag of dicks and then later are begging bouncers to send girls over or chasing down girls who they initially turned down.
    I offered a two for one dance to some asshole last night which he turned down. I sat down with two other girls who a,so didn't sell the special and he comes over and plops himself down between us. I kindly told him to go back to his table and fuck off because if he didn't take the dance special that doesn't mean he gets to hang out with us during the two songs for free.
    I love the people who also ask m to come back when there is a special because they're too cheap to shell out 25 for one song. The special is 35 for two. I straight up tell them I won't sell them the 2 for 1 because I already know they're cheap and won't tip even when they're getting a deal. Ha.

    I also want to add how glad I am that I work in big clubs that are busy enough where you don't even have to deal with peoples shit. There's enough pockets to hit up and some people can be there alllll night but if they're rude when they get there it's like an unspoken team effort between everyone to completely ignore "that" table. Love it.

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    I'm remembering a time where I used to put gum in their hair as I walked by lmao it was pretty discreet at least until they got home
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    ^^^^^That is awesome XD

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    After I read a comment about wanting to fart in someone's face... that's how I've decided to deal with guys like this. I fart as close to their face as I possibly can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirakonstantin View Post
    After I read a comment about wanting to fart in someone's face... that's how I've decided to deal with guys like this. I fart as close to their face as I possibly can.
    I have seen that b4 -- both the idea & the action -- but nvr (or very rarely) been able to do it myself bc I can't seem to make myself fart on demand. Unfortunately most of the time I feel a fart coming on I am trying to hold it in bc I am w/ a nice customer who has done nothing to deserve it.

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    ^^I have IBS. The cannon is almost always loaded, lol.

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