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    I'm not sure how to go about this situation. My hubby got laid off and is home until he gets another job call which is ok by me as I enjoy his company. BUT I haven't reached that point of being comfortable with doing my cam thing with him around. I'm not quite sure why I feel that way and he has made it clear in the most polite & sweetest way that he doesn't feel he has to leave his home for me to do my thing which I completely understand.

    I have been thinking about how to deal with this situation. I might need to add that my hubby has one of those deep voices that no matter how quite he is speaking, his voice carries especially in our apartment that has no furniture LOL. The thing I have considered is getting on cam and having no sound but I don't want to waste my time if that would affect the amount of money I could potentially earn. I have seen a number of ladies do it - we're talking about on MFC mind you that is the only site I have been on so far - and they seem to do well even without sound. I especially don't want customers to hear the loud snoring going on - he can knock down some trees that's for sure.

    Any advice, tips, tricks would be very much appreciated. I don't just want to make money but I really need to make the money so we can fix our horrible financial situation and the terrible luck that we have been having for the last few months now so to me this is important to figure out.

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    Well, he doesn't need to be in the same room with you right? When my boyfriend is home I just turn on music in my cam room and have him do the same in the room he's in, music or tv turned up. It will drown out most noise. It makes me feel more comfortable when there's a lot going on so I don't feel like he can hear me.

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    We left our TV and gaming systems up North with his mom when we moved nearly two years ago so we don't have those luxuries.

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    But you can still use those, my husband wears them around the house while he does dishes or cleans. He puts music on. Jam and chores. They are wireless and has a impeccable range.





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    Hopefully you can be in a different room with a door. Then, heavy pillows or a rolled up rug next to the door will block some noise, music and a fan (I use the fan for white noise year-round, just don't point it at me when its cold). If he does the same with some noise on his end it should work.

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    Thank you all for the ideas. I will put them to work.

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    Mine uses headphones. He hates hearing me work. So he listens to music or watches tv with them.

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    Default Re: When the SO is home....

    I am the same way!! I have been with my bf 8 years and I just cant cam with him home. It's sort of because I'm shy in front of him. (it's weird, I can do anything with him, and do anything on cam while hes not home, but I just cant cam with him home). I am actually working on putting a TV in our bedroom so he can watch TV while he falls asleep and I can work and have the living room and not worry about him hearing me too much. He's a deep sleeper so I'm hoping it works. Maybe just try one or two times and it might get easier the more you try. That's what I'm hoping happens to me. Or try while he sleeps? Good luck
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    Could he join you on cam for male/female shows?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashalicious View Post
    Could he join you on cam for male/female shows?
    Most likely not an option. I think his job would probably have an issue with that.

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    Have you explored why exactly it is that you feel uncomfortable camming with him in the home? If you know the reason why it makes you uncomfortable, it might be easier to figure out a solution.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    Have you explored why exactly it is that you feel uncomfortable camming with him in the home? If you know the reason why it makes you uncomfortable, it might be easier to figure out a solution.
    Possibly because I'm shy and I haven't been able to get myself to think that camming isn't cheating or whatever. I kind of I guess feel guilty doing it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxiLexxi View Post
    Possibly because I'm shy and I haven't been able to get myself to think that camming isn't cheating or whatever. I kind of I guess feel guilty doing it?
    Well... camming is a job, right? You're not actually interested in any of these guys, I assume. Does your SO make you feel guilty at all? You shouldn't feel guilty at all, really. I would work on trying to get past that first, because no one likes feeling guilty when they aren't doing anything wrong.

    I totally get not wanting to be heard, I don't necessarily like being heard by my husband but it happens, kind of just part of the job I guess?

    I always play music and I make sure to never get really loud, it's not really my "style" to be loud, so I would start with music and having him keep the TV on or something like that.
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    That's right...it's just a job. Simple things that I will have to overcome which I'm sure I will in time.

    The guilty part is all on me...I'm a very faithful person when I'm in a relationship so that may be just something that my brain is telling me is wrong but in reality, it isn't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxiLexxi View Post
    That's right...it's just a job. Simple things that I will have to overcome which I'm sure I will in time.

    The guilty part is all on me...I'm a very faithful person when I'm in a relationship so that may be just something that my brain is telling me is wrong but in reality, it isn't.
    Well that's because in "real life" it's not exactly "normal" to engage in the type of things we do as cam girls, while we are committed to another man. I think it's normal to feel that way at first but you'll adapt in time. I'm glad it's not coming from your SO though, that would be a lot harder to over come. Lots of men can't handle us doing this kind of job.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashalicious View Post
    Could he join you on cam for male/female shows?
    What if just his cock joined you for a few blow job shows? He wouldn't have to show his face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ashalicious View Post
    What if just his cock joined you
    This made me spurt coffee over my desk!

    When my husband's home he either sits at his desk which is in a corner of my study on his laptop (he can't be seen) or he takes his laptop to the bedroom and watches DVDs or reads. He always logs in to Skype so we can still "talk" if necessary or he'll log in to my room and join in. Or we, get on Chaturbate together.
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    And for extra noise, I run one of the basement style dehumidifiers outside of my room if I am camming with the children at home and in the bed. Just layers of white noise outside of my room to help my voice to not carry. I guess its according to where you live, but I am in the south and its always humid here so it does not affect our breathing b/c of the air being drier or whatever from the machine. So radio, fans, white noise...it all just layers for voice control.

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    It's not very often that I cam when my partner is home, but if I do and he is in the same room, I feel like I'm giving him the show, which is really fun!
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    I play music and my husband is always off in another room when he is home. He has his own office so he does his work in there and I work in my room. It will just take you some time to get used to it.

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    Sometimes like this makes me glad that my hubby is hard of hearing.. he can barely hear anything unless I scream on top of my lungs. haha.

    But on a serious note, just to get used to have your SO at home. Have him do the chores for you, so he would be too busy to notice what you are doing in your camming room. I just try to think my hubby isn't at home while I am in my camming room and got used to it. Have him make you nice snacks or lunches for your breaks and it will make you feel more comfortable with him being at home. More fun, too!

    ooh and get your SO learn what you may need a help with for camming! I have him send me food to my camming room for vore shows by text him. haha.




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