
Originally Posted by
CuriousAmy72
Hey all. I'm a divorced 41 and not too far from 42 year old mother of two. My whole adult life I've had a hidden desire to do some sort of "classy" sex work and had fantasies about being a stripper who made guys hearts flutter or even an escort pulling hundreds of dollars a night when I was younger but never had the courage to actually try any of this. Despite now being a church-going suburban mother of two teenagers, I still am curious about indulging these desires, and camming looks like a possible way. I don't plan on using this as a primary source of income since I already have a full time job, but figure it might be fun and get me some extra bucks. So the questions:
-Most obvious: age. I've read you'll find far more mature women on cam sites than you will in strip clubs and they're often sought out so competing with college girls isn't so much of a problem. Even though I still often get complimented on my looks I'll admit I'm no uber-MILF, my age is obvious and though I'm happy with my 33D pair, shoulder-length brown hair and aged pretty well ass my figure hasn't remained perfect and I do have some meat on the bones. Not exactly BBW type, but a sag in the stomach is obvious. I've read this is not a big deal, women of all ages and shapes do camming. How true is this and what would be the best site for someone of my type?
-What's a good price to set for someone such as me? Since I don't plan on competing with porn stars and college girls I'll have to go a bit cheaper, but still want to be making enough money to be worth it.
-Start-up costs: I know I need a good webcam, any recommendations? What price range should I shoot for and how long would it take to earn that back? One commitment I'm making is even if it turns out this isn't for me I won't stop till I make back my startup costs. Also I have a very good vibrator already in use, any new toys I'll have to buy or is that alone enough?
-Similarly what should I wear between shows? I plan on starting in just my normal bra and panties, is this OK and can it affect your earnings? Is buying new outfits all that needed?
-There's nothing I can do by myself that's allowed that I want to take "off the table" per se, but I know that it might get more uncomfortable if asked to do it. I know that basically all the sites don't allow peeing (something I'd actually probably be fine with as long as it was in a container and I didn't have to drink it or pour on myself), but guys love squirting, something my kitty does quite a bit of, is this the main request or lots of anal insertions? This is something I might be willing to do but am less comfortable doing often. Also I know at my age I'll probably get a lot of mother/son roleplay requests, not sure how I'd react to that. Is that expected of most mature models or is it something I can at least put off limits for starting? And of course submissive/dominant roleplay, how common is this and what do more customers want? As a submissive is it OK to take degradation and for play insults? Conversely I've heard some customers want themselves insulted, degraded and commonly ask for mocking of their small penis, I'm quite frankly too nice of a person to think I can do this effectively. How easy is it to develop these skills?
-And perhaps most importantly: I'm mortified of the idea of my son or daughter finding out! Luckily I have a job where I work 4 10-hour shifts a week, giving me Fridays off while they're at school and free reign. How long is a typical "shift" and how long can you last normally? And are short mini-stints doable? I love to rub one out before going to bed (who doesn't?), is it feasible that I quickly log on, find a guy willing to watch me do this, and then log off? Are there any other considerations in them finding out, such as in receiving mail from the company for payment or otherwise? As you can tell this no doubt limits my availability time but this is going to have to remains mom's little secret.
As you can probably tell, I don't plan on doing this all that long term, I see it as more of a fun experiment that could earn me some extra bucks which I intend to use to treat myself primarily, probably the first thing I'll get with my first payment is get a massage! I probably won't be doing it in a year, or maybe even six months, but I'd rather try than keep wondering. Thanks for all your help and answers!
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