Good idea or bad? I'm wanting to take mine but am on the fence. He knows what I do & is ok with it. I'm wanting his company with me on the road bc I get lonely & feel a little safer with him there. What do you guys think???





Good idea or bad? I'm wanting to take mine but am on the fence. He knows what I do & is ok with it. I'm wanting his company with me on the road bc I get lonely & feel a little safer with him there. What do you guys think???
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I think it's probably fine unless he's the jealous type where it could possibly backfire on you. Even then I think for security reasons it's smart, actually.
Years ago, my ex husband use to accompany me when I would do it! He would pack a small TV we had, with his video games and some DVDs to keep himself entertained, or just explore the area we happened to be in.





ya we're heading up north about 10 hrs & I've never been to this location before but he has and he wants to go exploring with me when I'm not working. I really like the idea of coming home to someone after work and also away from home in an unfamiliar place.
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"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"





It's 50/50. Mine had a good time in Albuquerque the last time we went. I'd set aside a night or a few hours for just you two.
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I wouldn't just because if I'm going on a strip trip, I'm a working machine and won't have much time to spend with my SO, so he'll be left to fend for himself -- not that he can't, but it seems pointless to drag him along just to leave him to his own devices anyway. I am also very easily distracted by my SO in new/interesting places, so depending on where the strip trip took place, I would be less inclined to work as often and thus make the trip less lucrative. If I were going on a more long-term strip trip and would be taking time off, then maybe I'd bring him along, but in all likelihood I'd just have him come up to visit me for a stretch of time when I wouldn't be working.





^agreed. I feel like it would come down to, do I want to work or do I want to spend time with my SO in a new exciting place? Hmmm... that's a hard one...





Agree w/ Shanna. If you want or need company, find a fellow dancer to go w/ you. That way you can hopefully maximise your profit bc you will be travelling w/ sm1 who shares your $$-making mindset instead of worrying abt entertaining them or dealing w/ jealousy or other emotional issues.


Personally, I would take my SO with me because I'd want him to protect and look out for me when I'm so far from home and in an unfamiliar location. And I know he'd feel better being with me than being back home worrying. Also, I know that I could still maintain my work attitude and not get caught up spending too much time with my SO. So it depends on if you think you can stay focus on your goal or not. If you think you'd be just as productive or even more so with a fellow dancer, then you should opt for that. I think the only reason you should take him is to feel safer.





yea I'm really hoping he ends up going with me bc I know that I could totally maintain a good work attitude plus hang with him in my down time. I'm all for feeling much safer with him around thoughplus last year when I went on the road i was all alone & a mess. I didn't have any fellow dancer buddies to go with me then or now and i was sooo lonely.
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"





I'd be happy to have mine along; it would make me feel safer to know he's in town and maybe to have him pick me up at work. I may pull a shift on our trip to Albuquerque next month and he's probably just gonna go hang out with his old high school buddies while I'm at the club.
As long as they have some way to entertain themselves when you're at work, and you take a day off every 2 or 3 days to enjoy some sightseeing with them (so it's still fun/kind of a vacation!) it should be fine.
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"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"
I wouldn't.





If you're *that* worried abt your safety, then maybe rethink the trip, or at least the route/destination? Idk, I just don't think it would make that much of a difference. It's not like he can babysit you while you're ITC after all, & if you're planning to be in a decent area w/ a good hotel then your safety OTC shouldn't be too big of a deal.
Besides, if I don't feel safe enough to go sm where alone, there is a damn good reason for it -- & if that's the case I certainly wouldn't want sm1 I love there.





It really depends on the guy. If he's a dryer sheet then no don't take him. If he's mature and independent, go for it.
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