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    Hello All,

    I want to return to this site and I'm very sorry for what I wrote in my past posts. I didn't think about how my words would sound and the posts came off as rude and offensive. It wasn't my intention! I felt like the wallflower at school that was always the last picked for any sports team and got bullied off the playground for being a total freak--story of my life. I thought about why my posts created such strong reactions and realized how much I must have hurt the girls here. I am so very sorry. I really really miss you all.

    Please forgive me.

    As Airrie figured out, I am a high functioning Asperger's girl and although I am very good at hiding it IRL, the bluntness seems to really flourish behind the anonymity of the internet and for that I am sorry. I may end up getting in trouble again however; I think if you all know that it is never my intention to make people feel bad about what I write perhaps there won't be as much of a misunderstanding over my intentions in the future. I promise to read what I write very carefully, (I've read this post over 10 times now), to prevent any further issues.

    I really value what I have learned here and I use the tips and tricks that I have learned from the posts here every single day in my camming career. This really is a career and I take it very seriously and I aim to help others achieve their goals and dreams as well as mine. We need to support and help each other succeed and continue to make camming about empowerment and not just in a "go girl" kind of way but a real, safe place to flourish kind of way.

    Thank you for reading this. Much love to you all. xoxo Hyori


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    We all fuck up here and there. Welcome back!!

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    This was really good of you to return. Welcoming you back with open arms!


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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Hello All,

    I want to return to this site and I'm very sorry for what I wrote in my past posts. I didn't think about how my words would sound and the posts came off as rude and offensive. It wasn't my intention! I felt like the wallflower at school that was always the last picked for any sports team and got bullied off the playground for being a total freak--story of my life. I thought about why my posts created such strong reactions and realized how much I must have hurt the girls here. I am so very sorry. I really really miss you all.

    Please forgive me.

    As Airrie figured out, I am a high functioning Asperger's girl and although I am very good at hiding it IRL, the bluntness seems to really flourish behind the anonymity of the internet and for that I am sorry. I may end up getting in trouble again however; I think if you all know that it is never my intention to make people feel bad about what I write perhaps there won't be as much of a misunderstanding over my intentions in the future. I promise to read what I write very carefully, (I've read this post over 10 times now), to prevent any further issues.

    I really value what I have learned here and I use the tips and tricks that I have learned from the posts here every single day in my camming career. This really is a career and I take it very seriously and I aim to help others achieve their goals and dreams as well as mine. We need to support and help each other succeed and continue to make camming about empowerment and not just in a "go girl" kind of way but a real, safe place to flourish kind of way.

    Thank you for reading this. Much love to you all. xoxo Hyori


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    I have no idea what happened but it takes a lot of courage to admit when you messed up so thank you for that!

    Also, I too deal with being someone with very high functioning ASD. It's hard because you seem so "normal" and people have no idea how much of a struggle life can be. Stay strong, miss, you have friends here.

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    I am another who is ignorant of what happened, but welcome back! Thankyou too for telling us about your ASD! I have a son who is currentley being assessed for ASD we have been waiting since January of this year, he is 21 and it was never picked up all through school, we thought he was being bullied and that was why he was the way he was, however we now believe he was being bullied because of the way he was. We as a family are still very much learning how to interact with him all over again, he too takes everything literal, he also suffers with OCD which seems to only affect him at home and gets worse when he feels stressed. Anyway I have gone of on a bit of a tangent lol, What I was trying to say is we quite often have silly arguments at home and they are usually caused by a missunderstanding between one of us and my son, so I get where you are coming from. Strangely enough he seems to be ok with his online relationships, wether it's gaming, facebook etc It seems to be where he feels more comfortable and confident.


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    Hyori,

    Camming Connection is a horrible, good place *pun intended *

    Many of us are working through personal challenges on our way to reaching our goals. Some of us are more sensitive to the challenges than others and you will always get a reaction. It may not always be a positive reaction but you will always find supportive individuals. No matter what, I hope your experience here will be filled with new and insightful ideas that will lead you in positive directions.

    Welcome back.

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    Welcome back. My brother is Autistic and three of our cousins have Asperger's, I'm here if you ever want to chat about it.

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    No idea what happened but I'm sure forgiveness will be found in this community.

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    Welcome back hun! I think its super brave of you to admit this, most wouldn't, so props on that. Also I have seen you on cam and i think you're awesome just fyi.

    Threads like these make me so happy to see how welcoming and awesome our little cam community is. So happy to be part of something like this.

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    I don't know what happened either. But welcome back!!

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    I don't know what happened, but this post made me feel so great everyone makes mistakes, and it is easy to read things in a different tone than always intended. Welcome back! Can't wait to get to know you (and every one else since I'm a newbie!!)

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    Aspies... unite! Join the club.

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    welcome back honey... as far as "the post" you refer to I did see it a while back and personally dont think it was a big deal... I have much respect for the way you are coming back and actually brought up the past "issue"... shows that u are a good and strong person... I'm glad u came back honey!!!

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    I think it is very noble of you to apologize. Welcome back with open arms!

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