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    Default Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    What do you do with them? I am trying to dance, but they keep trying to talk to me or want to whisper something into my ears - and they just won't stop talking. One time this guy kept repeating himself and he was inaudible due to the music and his thick accent. I told him I'll get back to him once I am off stage but shit won't stop, and they're clearly upset when I stand up and begin dancing again. I hope this isn't all the time - anyone ever had this happen before?


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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    If he is the only guy at your tip rail, I say you have nothing to lose by taking an extra minute or two to get a jump on hustling him.

    However, if he is trying to monopolise your time by chatting you up stageside, when you have other customers up there to entertain, keep doing the 'I have these gentlemen over here waiting but I will come to you first once I am done w/ my set' thing. A considerate customer will respect that. If he is getting his nuts in a vise over it, then there is a good chance he would otherwise be difficult, so if he is that latter type then forget abt him.

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    I agree with Aniela. In my club, you usually don't make a lot of money ($15-20 tops) off each stage set. It's a pretty good day when I've got guys competing for my attention at the tip rail. Usually, I'm grateful when a guy wants to talk for a second when he tips me, because that means I spend less time getting sweaty for nothing on stage and have more time to sell that guy on a dance once I'm off stage. I'll stay there with a guy for the whole song if he keeps pulling out dollars. But if not, I just say, "Thank you," and start dancing again. If he pulls out more money, I'll come back to him, but if he is being weird and doesn't have money in his hand, I feel no obligation to talk him.

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    I always use guys at my tip rail to make a sale! I would rather spend that time chatting and closing an LD when I'm done than actually...dancing....Are you new?

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    Lol! I love when guys do this so I can kill some time up there. I hate stage!!! Plus a little 30 second or even minute chat won't really interfere with making your rounds to the other guys, if you do a 3 song set and each song is 2.5 mins give or take, that's still at least 5-6 mins for everyone else (unless there's like 50 dudes at your stage) lol

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    "Give me money or fuck off!" I've said it before and I have zero problems saying it again.
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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    I am new. This guy kept asking me 'how much is garhghahrhghg" (can't hear him) and I had to ask him to repeat since he was the only person at the front row, and since I can't hear him, I told him it's $20 per private dance and offered to take him to VIP after. He then asked again 'how much is garhghghghg". ugh. I don't know if he was asking for extras or something.

    I know it was him because the others who came up to tip me, I can hear pretty well. I asked the manager about how some guy came up and asked an inaudible question, and he said "it happens sometimes".


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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    Sounds like he was probably asking for extras, or trolling, or really drunk. If he's not tipping you, ignore him. If he's giving you money, who cares if he has to repeat himself?

    I hate stage, so if a customer is tipping well I will happily spend a song or two chatting with him. We get in trouble if we spend the whole song talking, but if a customer obviously likes me, I use stage as an opportunity to start selling a VIP room.

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    Oh, god, I just remembered this creep who kept coming up to my stage the other night. He was ancient, and disgusting, and kept whispering, "I want to lick your pussy." "Bend over so I can lick your asshole." *shudder*

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    If it's the drunk guy at my full stage trying to tell me how beautiful my eyes are/how much he wants to put his thumb in my butt/"hey hey hey hey hey commmere" then I give him the first 5 seconds like I would anybody else, tell him I'd love to hear more in the back when I get done up here (because usually drunk talkers at the tip rail aren't getting a dance, but might as well throw it out there real quick), then I go on to the rest of my customers and essentially ignore him, just make eye contact and flirty faces if he's still tipping. If he's quit tipping, I quit paying attention.

    If it's a slow set and the guy wants to talk and isn't drunk, I'll stay as long as he's tipping, and if it's been a few seconds I'll hold out my garter before telling him we'll talk more in the back, and moving on if there are other people. If he's drunk and unreasonable or gross I'll go elsewhere even if he's tipping because most likely someone else is tipping and will actually get a dance and not be an unruly choad.

    If there is nobody else, and he wants to talk, I'll lay on my belly and swing my feet and talk the whole set, if he's tipping. Then make the perfunctory strip-moves since my club requires full nude by end of set. lol If he's not tipping and talking, I don't talk, I pretend I can't hear and smile and dance around the pole. I've seen other girls walk to the other side of the stage and dance right in front of the mirror if that happens, but I'm not that ballsy unless they're being disgusting.

    A million variations but basically, depends on if there is money, if there is better money, and if I could get more money or not.

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    If he isn't tipping, just keep dancing. I've been known to stand in the middle of the stage and shout "What? I can't hear you." If he is saying something inappropriate, that will shut him up.

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    Default Re: Customers who try to talk to you while you're on stage

    I also hate the stage, my DJ's love to play absurdly long songs (2 song set-who really needs that?) so I take any excuse possible to do nothing yet look busy while I'm up there. Like the others said, if he's a normal human being who may become a customer, use that time to make a great impression so you can hopefully sell him a dance after your set. Or just keep collecting tips from him.

    **Also, don't mean to hijack your thread but I noticed since you said you are new, and you started off by telling that guy about the $20 dance, I just have a little tip. Always mention the most expensive room first. When I started dancing, I focused mainly on 5 minute dances, and that's all I really sold. (Guess I figured most dudes didn't want to shell out a $100 CR) Not always true...

    Now if someone asks, I say- "Well we have the champagne room, this one is my fave because blah blah blah" and I sell a lot more of those now. I pretty much act like the $20 dances don't exist, and in turn the customers often forget about them too and opt for the option that makes me more $
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