Hi ladies,
I'm so confused right now! Please enlighten me with some advice. Me and my boyfriend has been dating for almost 8 years. We broke up a few times in between. We started dating when I was already a dancer. For the longest time, he just let me do my thing. He never bring up any topics about the future or about my job. Recently, I quit my home club. I want to travel and dance for a bit to save some more money for my bills before I could totally quit. So I told him this yesterday. He reacted intensely and said why I can't find a normal job. His back was turned from me and couldn't even look me in the eyes. He said he was disappointed.....Then I start asking him when he want to have kids and when he want to get married. He said he doesn't know or he might never want to get married or have kids. He said he will see once I find a normal job. AFTER 8 years, he still doesn't know. I love this guys and I don't know what to do. Is it really my job? Or is it just me that he is not sure about? HE keep on emphasizing on my job. Will he ever going to marry me or he is just stringing me along? Btw, I'm 28 and he's going to be 30 soon. (He never post any of our pics on facebook or show any communication to me on facebook, he never plan dates with me in advance (i always thought our work schedules are off), he never really include in any of his outings with his friends) ... I feel like he is ashamed of my job ... He once told me during a fight that my job is embrassing..... WHAT should I do? Any of you girls have similar experience?



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' of a stripper gf is not your problem. Again I say, Seriously -- 8 yrs? & I thought my exes were horrible communicators.







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