I danced for ten years since I was 18 to almost 27 and it helped me in so many ways but changed me in a lot of ways too that I can see now that I've been off the pole for a year.
I think anyone who dances for long enough becomes pretty jaded. Meeting new people isn't special anymore. I used to make sure not to emotionally invest myself in ANYONE because I thought they were just going to (literally or figuratively) try to fuck me. I missed out on a lot of what could have been amazing relationships during my 20s for that reason. And as a result felt incredibly lonely during that time.
I just thought maybe others felt the same way...
and....now that I've been out here in straight society for a while I understand that there seem to be a lot of people who genuinely like and respect me.
And i guess dancing was kind of a mind fuck. I guess I still can't really put it into words.
also Read my friends book. It's on Amazon ...The Yoga Stripper. I'm in it.



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