Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 35

Thread: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

  1. #1
    Veteran Member beauvoir's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    166
    Thanked 1,171 Times in 327 Posts

    Default I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I don't really know what's going on.

    Looking back on my feedback, around 80% don't talk to me anymore. I know more come and go, and that's fine, but the ones who do talk to me, stay for 10 minutes to catch up, then go. I feel a bit weird about it. I don't know if it's because I was online less over the summer, or I got older or if I put on weight or stopped escorting or what but I'm really doubting my performer as a camgirl. I've been doing this three years and thought I was pretty dedicated. Now, I'm really doubting myself. This is just on AW, where I (used to) pull my main income.

    x

  2. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to beauvoir For This Useful Post:


  3. #2
    God/dess sexysusie's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2012
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    5,664
    Thanks
    8,080
    Thanked 10,331 Times in 3,728 Posts
    My Mood
    Aggressive

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    It's the same for all of us hunni. The attacks and associated downtime followed by regular glitches have driven a lot of our old guys away in droves. Plus the fact that 3 years is a pretty long time, many guys simply move on or stop wanking over camgirls. We have to move and adapt with the times x
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




  4. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to sexysusie For This Useful Post:


  5. #3
    Featured Member Missbeth's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Camland, USA
    Posts
    970
    Thanks
    620
    Thanked 2,662 Times in 728 Posts
    My Mood
    Bored

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    This happens to all of us
    From my experience regulars come and go in waves
    Remember there are always new regs to take the old ones place
    Keep putting in hours and youll gain more regs
    Quote Originally Posted by JackAlexander View Post
    "If no one is complaining about the price, the price is too low."
    @Bethann_Live

  6. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to Missbeth For This Useful Post:


  7. #4
    Veteran Member beauvoir's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    166
    Thanked 1,171 Times in 327 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I feel like it's hard not to take it personally. A lot of the guys I would talk to two/three times a week move elsewhere.

    I feel I just need to know it isn't just me, or it isn't something I'm doing, or something I'm not doing.

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to beauvoir For This Useful Post:


  9. #5
    Banned
    Joined
    Mar 2012
    Location
    MilfVille
    Posts
    8,415
    Thanks
    29,866
    Thanked 19,603 Times in 6,566 Posts
    My Mood
    Happy

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I deal with this everyday also.
    been camming 4 years straight, 8 hours per day, and the same thing is happening to me as well.
    I started a thread called 'To ban or not to ban' because I'm so drained from getting excited when I see a reg come into chat, and... he either just sits there, says something sexual, then leaves, or doesn't stay in chat long enough to say hi.
    It's a mystery, because I'm burnout on having to be online sooo long all the time.
    I work on several sites, and they are all like that.
    I would like to ask them why they are doing this but I'm afraid it would come across as desperate if I do.

  10. #6
    God/dess audritwo's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2013
    Location
    10.0.0.1
    Posts
    4,582
    Thanks
    5,702
    Thanked 19,566 Times in 3,647 Posts
    My Mood
    Cynical

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Any time I see I haven't had a show with a reg, I remind them the last time we had a show and ask why haven't we play in awhile, I had such a great time.

    Sometimes that works. If not, c'est la vie. Move on and give them the attention they desire when they step up.





    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Red View Post
    Audritwo's asshole sees all, knows all. Spurs on armies of orcs. Casts fear into the dwindling races of Middle-Earth. Fears hobbits.

  11. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to audritwo For This Useful Post:


  12. #7
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,937
    Thanks
    12,135
    Thanked 37,400 Times in 8,666 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I just want to make sure I read this correctly but you allowed your "regulars" 10 mins of free chat to catch up? That's giving away a lot of your time and time is money for free. On another note, this happens to all of us, it's not personal. I personally feel if you are a fetish or do a lot of fetishes shows, you really don't need regulars.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  13. The Following User Says Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  14. #8
    Veteran Member beauvoir's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    166
    Thanked 1,171 Times in 327 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    This is on AW, not SM. No free chat on AW. It's paid, but it's short!

  15. #9
    Veteran Member beauvoir's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    166
    Thanked 1,171 Times in 327 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I do that, and some just send me a reply saying "yeah we had fun" and I feel they pity me! Others don't even bother responding.

    I feel like... kind of useless!

  16. #10
    God/dess TheBrownFox's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2010
    Location
    Maryland
    Posts
    10,995
    Thanks
    30,964
    Thanked 22,217 Times in 7,189 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    It happens to all of us, and it stings the most when it's your most loyal, most generous regulars. *hug*
    My referral link for models to join the Boleyn Models daily pay program
    https://cammodelpay.com/ref?page=&campaign=&affToken=NDcx

  17. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to TheBrownFox For This Useful Post:


  18. #11
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Apr 2014
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    603
    Thanks
    131
    Thanked 1,125 Times in 350 Posts
    My Mood
    Tired

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Believe me hun this is NOT uncommon on AW. It got to the point in the end where I was logging on and tweeting my 1000+ twitter followers where all my regulars are on and literally nothing. Not one known face took me to PVT or group. Every guy that used to cam with me on AW now doesn't.

  19. #12
    God/dess CatBBW's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2013
    Location
    ENGLAND
    Posts
    2,126
    Thanks
    3,227
    Thanked 2,894 Times in 1,040 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Ooooh yes. My AW "regulars" are incredibly disloyal. I am quite niche and fairly obvious to spot (being 300 pounds, only one of a small handful of very large ladies camming on there), and won't see my "regulars" for weeks sometimes. Then one will appear in my cam room, asking where I've been as they've not seen me for ages...huh? My silent rant to them as I grin inanely usually goes: I've been right HERE luv, 12 hours a day, six days a week, earning my rent, while a quick peek at your feedback shows you've been spending your money elsewhere.


  20. #13
    God/dess SoloDesire's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2013
    Location
    Tamriel
    Posts
    2,687
    Thanks
    9,179
    Thanked 9,109 Times in 2,233 Posts
    My Mood
    Cynical

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    I think we need a new word for "regulars" since most of them don't visit on a "regular" basis. Maybe we should call them "occasionally's" or "irregulars".


  21. #14
    God/dess TheBrownFox's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2010
    Location
    Maryland
    Posts
    10,995
    Thanks
    30,964
    Thanked 22,217 Times in 7,189 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    Ooooh yes. My AW "regulars" are incredibly disloyal. I am quite niche and fairly obvious to spot (being 300 pounds, only one of a small handful of very large ladies camming on there), and won't see my "regulars" for weeks sometimes. Then one will appear in my cam room, asking where I've been as they've not seen me for ages...huh? My silent rant to them as I grin inanely usually goes: I've been right HERE luv, 12 hours a day, six days a week, earning my rent, while a quick peek at your feedback shows you've been spending your money elsewhere.
    Guys on MFC were notorious for doing that shit. They'd come in my room and be like "Where have you been? How come you're never on here?" I used to tell them "No, that's not true. I've been on here as usual. Where have YOU been???" They'd whine "I never see you on here," and I'd think to myself (cuz I can't say aloud what I'm really thinking) "That's because you're too stubborn to follow me on Twitter like I've been telling you to do, and you're too busy checking out all the public cum shows in other rooms to pay any attention to me when I am online." And then the moments when you're offline, these guys act like that's a crime...like they expect you to be open for business 24/7 like a 7-11 store. Lol.
    My referral link for models to join the Boleyn Models daily pay program
    https://cammodelpay.com/ref?page=&campaign=&affToken=NDcx

  22. The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to TheBrownFox For This Useful Post:


  23. #15
    Veteran Member bootiebabe's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2013
    Posts
    233
    Thanks
    311
    Thanked 288 Times in 113 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Its not just you, men are fickle and there is only so much you can do with one guy after so many shows day in day out, this happened to me on aw and i just thought sod you all and filled my basket with different eggs, i still do aw but not as much you just notice it more on there as there is not as much traffic, just one good reg on there can make you have a terrific day.
    I have to say though its the same for every site, some become infatuated with us, there are some great whales BUT there are all fickle and will want to wank there cocks to others, i just milk them to my best ability while i have them, it just does not bother me anymore as they are replaced with others just like they replace us.
    Don't beat yourself up about it though, on aw especially these webcam programmes spoilt it as well as the dos attacks as so many new girls joined which would make no odds if aw advertised but i can't see it happening, i can still have great days on aw i just do not focus as much attention on it anymore.
    Lets face it its a business transaction they want to get off and we want to get paid.

    Its most certainly NOT you x

  24. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to bootiebabe For This Useful Post:


  25. #16
    Veteran Member beauvoir's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2012
    Posts
    700
    Thanks
    166
    Thanked 1,171 Times in 327 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Thanks girls, I feel better.

    I need to stop reading their feedback, and co-oberating that with the feedback of other girls. I feel like a jealous girlfriend!!

    xx

  26. #17
    Featured Member seicento's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2013
    Location
    Europe
    Posts
    1,397
    Thanks
    1,793
    Thanked 1,975 Times in 849 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    OP this is something normal on aw and maybe any other site.I can only speak for aw tho.I used to blame myself when they stopped coming because they kinda stopped all at the same time so I thought I was doing something wrong.Is not us,is them not being loyal to only one cam girl,finding another favourite or just stop visiting cam rooms.I never email them ,if they want to see me I`m online ,if not there will be other guys who will become regulars.I used to email them when I was new and got same short lame answers so I just ignore them.Work on making another regulars and dont blame urself,they rarely stick with only one camgirl for more than an year or two.xxx

  27. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to seicento For This Useful Post:


  28. #18
    Featured Member SophiaSylvan's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    855
    Thanks
    1,515
    Thanked 1,454 Times in 590 Posts
    My Mood
    Busy

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Quote Originally Posted by bootiebabe View Post
    Its not just you, men are fickle....
    I have to say though its the same for every site, some become infatuated with us, there are some great whales BUT there are all fickle and will want to wank there cocks to others, i just milk them to my best ability while i have them, it just does not bother me anymore as they are replaced with others just like they replace us.
    Don't beat yourself up about it though...

    Its most certainly NOT you x
    Best advice on this thread! <3

  29. The Following User Says Thank You to SophiaSylvan For This Useful Post:


  30. #19
    Featured Member LaylaLovely's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2014
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    1,168
    Thanks
    1,326
    Thanked 1,765 Times in 652 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Thats the thing with regulars they all move on.. and thats why you have to work hard everyday to recruit new ones because you always need to be working on having your new ones there for when the others slowly leave...and so on.. lol

  31. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to LaylaLovely For This Useful Post:


  32. #20
    Veteran Member Thymian's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2013
    Location
    In a private
    Posts
    286
    Thanks
    905
    Thanked 1,004 Times in 223 Posts
    My Mood
    Drunk

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    And just remember, for every regular who moves on to another model there's a regular looking for someone new to fap to. Dick likes new pussy, which is a good thing or we wouldn't have this job in the first place!
    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    It can really fuck up a sexy mentality flow if you question your own stream.

  33. The Following 9 Users Say Thank You to Thymian For This Useful Post:


  34. #21
    God/dess sexysusie's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2012
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    5,664
    Thanks
    8,080
    Thanked 10,331 Times in 3,728 Posts
    My Mood
    Aggressive

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Lol lol beauvoir, have you seen my feedback? ALL my guys that leave repeated feedbacks are also seeing tons of other girls. Only once this annoyed me and that's when my main reg used to roleplay with me about my best camgirl friend (the one that got me into camming). He eventually moved over to her but would still come back now and then with all this crap about me still being his favourite etc, then he would include on tweets together, and sometimes he even tagged ME in a tweet he'd meant for HER! Well eventually I told him look I don't care who you see it what you do, I have plenty of other guys who keep me busy and while I enjoy your company I won't be crying over you not coming to me as much!

    This is how I see it, total black and white. You may enjoy their company and rely on their money, but there will always be someone to replace them as long as you work on making them feel they're your number one, meanwhile milking that wallet while it lasts
    "If you want to earn more, learn more" ~ Zig Ziglar




  35. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to sexysusie For This Useful Post:


  36. #22
    Veteran Member Nina_Den's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    523
    Thanks
    1,194
    Thanked 1,417 Times in 361 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Quote Originally Posted by beauvoir View Post
    I need to stop reading their feedback, and co-oberating that with the feedback of other girls. I feel like a jealous girlfriend!!
    Please try to do your best to stop this habit. I'm in the process of doing it, too. I found it makes me extremely bitter, jealous and obsessed.



  37. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Nina_Den For This Useful Post:


  38. #23
    Senior Member AngelMari's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2014
    Location
    Denver
    Posts
    177
    Thanks
    390
    Thanked 314 Times in 114 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    They do come and go in waves.. I find if you ask them where they've been the last however many months... 9 times out of ten they got a gf and now they're back because they're single again. So don't take it personal.

  39. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to AngelMari For This Useful Post:


  40. #24
    Featured Member LaylaLovely's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2014
    Location
    USA
    Posts
    1,168
    Thanks
    1,326
    Thanked 1,765 Times in 652 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_Den View Post
    Please try to do your best to stop this habit. I'm in the process of doing it, too. I found it makes me extremely bitter, jealous and obsessed.
    Yikes!! i thought i was the only one.. i think its kindoff a new camgirl thing.. lol i did it wth my favorite regualr top $$ maker lol saw another girl that was his favorite as well and you start comparing yourself...etc..etc.. not good for us to do to our selfs

    Quote Originally Posted by AngelMari View Post
    They do come and go in waves.. I find if you ask them where they've been the last however many months... 9 times out of ten they got a gf and now they're back because they're single again. So don't take it personal.
    Exaclty! "just learn to take them as they come and let go of them as they Go"
    My top regular for the past 10 months has been away.. then he told me he had a gf..and that cam girls arent cheating.... hmm okay.. lol anyways looks like he has revisited that thought because his skype is always on away when he never was away

  41. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to LaylaLovely For This Useful Post:


  42. #25
    Senior Member
    Joined
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    143
    Thanks
    119
    Thanked 155 Times in 79 Posts

    Default Re: I'm losing a lot of my regulars

    Quote Originally Posted by beauvoir View Post
    I don't really know what's going on.

    Looking back on my feedback, around 80% don't talk to me anymore. I know more come and go, and that's fine, but the ones who do talk to me, stay for 10 minutes to catch up, then go. I feel a bit weird about it. I don't know if it's because I was online less over the summer, or I got older or if I put on weight or stopped escorting or what but I'm really doubting my performer as a camgirl. I've been doing this three years and thought I was pretty dedicated. Now, I'm really doubting myself. This is just on AW, where I (used to) pull my main income.

    x
    You just put into words everything I have been feeling as of late. Lets blame it on the moon and mercury retrograde, and football/hockey season.

  43. The Following User Says Thank You to Ashalicious For This Useful Post:


Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Losing Weight vs Losing FAT
    By Will in forum Body Business
    Replies: 12
    Last Post: 03-14-2011, 03:19 PM
  2. How to slim down without losing losing my ass
    By Nicole89 in forum Body Business
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 08-17-2010, 12:38 AM
  3. Losing Regulars
    By Nice2bNaughty in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 07-01-2008, 01:12 AM
  4. Losing a lot of weight...
    By cherry_sin in forum Body Business
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 07-19-2007, 09:16 AM
  5. Losing steam, Losing my Hustle
    By AkashaM in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 18
    Last Post: 12-20-2005, 10:27 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •