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    My regular and I had a small argument a month ago because I told him I can't sit by him for too long on busy days. So when I would leave him on busy days, these other two dancers would talk to him knowing it was my regular. I didnt mind them talking but I do mind when you try to suggest going out of the club, knowing he's a regular of mine. So fast forward to last night ... Their regular came in the club and came right to me. I did talk to him because I figured that's what these girls do in this club. This guy has more money than my regular and he's willing to do more monetarily. I guess my question is should I be a bitch and do the same thing to them, or forget about it just for the sake of peace?

    Note: one of the dancers rudely interrupted us multiple times last night, but he just ignored it and kept talking to me.

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    Default Re: Karma is a Bitch!!

    I say, don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Go ahead & take this new customer up on his interest in you. All regulars have a shelf life & it looks like his has expired w/ his previous girl, for whatever reason -- he's free to spend on whoever he wants.

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    Default Re: Karma is a Bitch!!

    Girls don't own customers.

    If a customer wants to spend money on you, you take that money and give him a good time.

    And the same goes the other way, if a customer wants to give another girl money, she's going to take it and give him a good time. If she's suggesting/agreeing OTC I hate to say it but that's between the two of them, and may just be part of her hustle however cheap that may be.

    Now if a girl comes up to him *while you are talking* to him that's not ok.

    But if you've left him to go on stage and didn't bring him with you, if you've left him to go smoke, or if you've left him to change your tampon, he is no longer "your customer". He's only "yours" as long as you are talking to him or in his lap.

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    You're so right... I guess I shouldn't worry so much. I don't have a personal relationship with any of the girls in anyway, so I guess that's why I don't feel bad. I got eyes from everywhere last night like I was supposed to get up and leave, but they did the same to me a month prior to that.

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    Totally agree with above posters. Sounds like your regular got butt hurt and is moving on. It's really nothing you did, and you sound like the only one acting logically in this whole situation. Your regular should not have expected you to spend all your time with him for free, and the other dancers should not get mad at you for talking to 'their' regular. Guys are not loyal; a regular will hardly ever just stick to one girl to spend on.

    You have every right to talk to the new guy. And it sounds like he will make you more money than the old regular. You are totally right, karma is a bitch and you kinda won here.. lol.
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    Default Re: Karma is a Bitch!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Apryl View Post
    I didnt mind them talking but I do mind when you try to suggest going out of the club, knowing he's a regular of mine.
    As long as another dancer is not interfering when you are seating with a customer trying to close a sale, I had never understood why so many dancers are so territorial with customers. It's their money and they can spend it how they see fit. If some other dancer is talking to your "regular" when you're not with him, leave her alone! No dancer owns customer.

    A customer who only has yes for you wouldn't have a problem of saying "I'm here to see _______".





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