I'm on seeking arrangement, and got messaged a little bit ago by an English guy who flies in to my area for work. I drove 76 miles into the city to meet up with him. During the meet, I find out that he had 3 girls lined up to meet with while he was in town, and was going to make his decision of which one he wants. He did not tell me this.
So I drive out totally clueless that he was basically holding a little contest, and that I was an unknowing participant. He tells me during the meet that he was going to have coffee the next morning, but that he really had a liking for me as "I wanted to take *you* to dinner; the other girl, I just wanted to meet for a quick coffee."
I go home. It takes me an hour to find my car, I made a wrong turn into a one-way street because I don't know that area, and get pulled over and ticketed. I guess that's good a cop stopped me immediately, because I was about to be involved in a head-on collision, no seat belt of course.
I get a text from him the next day, saying some bullshit like "You're lovely, and I may be making the wrong choice but I have gone with the other girl. So sorry blah..."
I feel so fucked over. I had every reason to believe he was legit and that we were meeting to set up the deal, not that I was just a player in his little game. Oh and he also insisted that we make out, so that he could make a better decision to see if we 'had chemistry' (I did not go 'make out' with this fool) AND he wanted me to send extra pics later, so that he had 'something to think about'. Yeah, did not do that either.
Despite all this bullshit, sadly I think he was legit in the fact that he *did* want a SB, and I think he really did pick this other chick. He just went about making his decision in the sleaziest way possible. Human beings are not fucking options to shop and pick in the grocery store or something...
So now I have a ticket, I lost out to this mystery chick, as if I didn't already feel totally inadequate and like shit about myself. Now this happened, I'm at the end of my rope



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