I figure if I can get a guy to come in and give me cash I can get him to buy me stuff, but I'm not sure how to bring it up. I'm so jealous of some of the girls I see that have there customers taking them on huge shopping sprees! I want one

I figure if I can get a guy to come in and give me cash I can get him to buy me stuff, but I'm not sure how to bring it up. I'm so jealous of some of the girls I see that have there customers taking them on huge shopping sprees! I want one
Next time you see one of your regulars, just mention a dress or outfit from a store you really like and how you wish you could afford it. Or "Do you ever go to ___ mall? We should go have coffee and walk around one day." If you see something you like he'll most likely offer to buy it for you. At least that's how I've always gotten boyfriends/husbands to buy me stuff. I don't see customers OTC.
^The problem with that approach is that there's no guarantee you will get compensated for the time spent with this customer OTC. Some of them won't get the hint that you want them to buy you what you're pointing out, others will simply nod and smile in hopes of avoiding having to drop cash, and a handful will think it's a date. You've gotta be upfront about what you want when going OTC or else you could very easily end up wasting your time and losing a good customer in the process.





Eh, spare yourself the 'field trip' headache & keep em ITC. As Shanna said, there are a lot of variables to consider when trying to orchestrate that kind of thing. Shopping sprees don't exactly put food on your table or savings in your bank acct. Keep them coming in & spending buttloads on you at work, then treat yourself to a shopping spree free of the hassle of dragging along a customer who may not turn out to be as generous as you're expecting.
Also, call me jaded as fk but I would question what exactly sm girls are providing in return for their 'huge shopping sprees'





I would NOT want to go shopping with some annoying/clingy/nasty/creepy dude I met from the club. I don't care if he's offering to buy me the entire mall. I would rather he give me the cash inside the club, then go shopping on my own or w/ friends later. I second what the others above have said.
I hate malls anyway. Just give me cash, thanks.
"Dancing tables, making deals with devils like a drunk beauty queen"



I have had a couple of clients offer to go shopping with me. Both times they shied away from discussing spending money.
Neither trip happened and they both were just looking for a way to hang out with me and get the girlfriend experience and female company without paying for it.



I have gone shopping with a handful of customers, they have always offered. Whenever a customer says he wants to take me shopping I tell him "are you sure? Because the last time I went shopping I spent $4000 and just want to give you a warning" (say it in a cute flirty way). This will weed out the cheap ones and warn the spenders to bring enough cash. I only get a good shopping spree like this once a year or so, but if I'm spending my day off with a customer it better be worth while. Also, they will assume you are going to go back to their house/hotel after (I mean they just spent $2000-5000) so make sure to have a friend call with an emergency so you can run out and drive your own car!





I agree with this b/c I was never big on fancy clothes.
If a girl wants to do this to test the waters with a sugardaddy, ask him to take you on a shopping trip and then have dinner with him. It's both a smoother way to "scope him out" without coming off as too crass, and it gives you time to make sure he's not a raving psycho.
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