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    Default Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    Hey everyone! First I'll say Hi, I just signed up here and am trying to set up my first Streamate show. I broke the newbie ice a couple days ago with a short show on Chaturbate, which went relatively well considering I had no idea how to use the apps, goals, or how to tell when tokens were fake or not ;P

    One concern that I keep having is my current living situation. Right now I'm staying in an old house with other 5 men, in a state I am still relatively unfamiliar with (no friends/family). I've come to completely trust at least one of my roommates (courteous and polite), however I still don't know the others very well. I'm going to be using audio for all my shows, but everyone's bedroom is on the same floor, and the walls are EXTREMELY thin...

    I've been contemplating "coming out" to them, either through email or just sitting down with them individually to let them know what will be going on, (they're going to know SOMETHINGS going one one way or another, that's for sure) but because I don't know them very well I'm terrified of any unexpected consequences that might incur.

    Have any of you guys/girls had this issue before? How did you handle it? The whole thing seems very awkward and delicate.

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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    Does the roommate you're most comfortable with know the other roommates better than you do? Maybe you could "come out" to him then ask him how he thinks they would handle it.

    I've always lived with guys (when not living on my own) and it's never been a problem. To minimize audio you can keep your voice low (get closer to the cam/consider using a bluetooth mic), stuff a towel under the door, play music between you and the door/whatever you think the weakest point is and even dampen the sound that travels through walls with things like bookcases or wall tapestries. Maybe even tell your custies that you can't be too loud because you don't want your roommates to know--even if they do know but you don't want them to really hear it, custies love the idea of the girl next door getting down and dirty in secret.

    But really, if the roomies aren't total creeps it shouldn't be an issue. You don't need to be explicit about what you do--in my most recent roommate ~talk I said that I'm a fetish model (pretty much true, since I mostly specialize in fetish anyway) so he got the gist that I work online in a somewhat sexual capacity but I don't have to say that I masturbate on the Internet for strangers.

    One last piece of advice: don't tell them your cam name or give them any specific information that would make it easier for them to find you online. People are curious by nature and otherwise non-creepy guys might get ideas in their head if they see your actual cam persona, especially if they catch a public show or something like that.

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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    Haha, yeah I was worried about them getting ideas in their head. Your advice about not being explicit was really great! I had no idea what I was going to tell them up till this point...I'll definitely have to remember that tip. Thank you! I'll probably just try to turn the quiet voice into something sexy and taboo...There's no way I can shell out for that right now ahh well....it'll go on the wish list
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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    Well, welcome to the Forum!
    There was a thread, camming w/room mates..lots of good suggestions.


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    Well you are certainly brave for living with five strangers! Can you try camming without audio?! When I used to live with a roommate, I'd always cam without audio. In my personal experience, once men know you do adult work, most would assume that you are easy and open so keep that in mind.
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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    You do NOT owe any of them an explanation.

    They will think of you as easy prey for sex.

    Do you hear them masterbating? Is it any of your biz? NO

    Get a fan, turn on some music. Add thick curtain to all the walls, which you can do cheaply. Curtains give the sound an uneven place to bounce off of & less likely to carry into other rooms. If that doesn't work, get those cheap eggs crate looking mattress pads & put under the curtains. Thus sound proofing your room.

    When in private & guys ask you to get loud, just ignore that request & keep on going. Those kind of guys are trouble makers.

    These guys are your roommates for NOW, NOT your friends or buddies. Work on turning them into your brothers kind of friendship, where they are protective over you. Which means baggy clothes & little or no makeup outside of your room. DO NOT GET DRUNK with any of them. Keep sober at all times, I say this for your safety.

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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    Thank you Sam and Marina, the cheap mattress pad idea is BRILLIANT! And I'm hesitant to remove audio from my shows because I know that it decreases over all revenue, and other than the fun of it, that's the main goal.

    I've never been naive about knowing the roomies would view me differently if I were to tell them, and on a good day I'm cautious and paranoid when it comes to men most of the time. I don't like to be, but that's just how it is these days. I'll do my best to keep the volume down and sound proof the room. If there is still a noise issue, I'll just do my best to stay vague and innocent about what's going on. Haha, might as well address if it comes up...better than having a strange sexual elephant floating around the house!

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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    You can keep audio on and not talk. Just type. Some days I do that when I'm having a bad day, or I can hear my neighbors outside.





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    Default Re: Living with 5 men in a not so sound proof victorian house....

    If you do streamate you could try only offering audio with the phone in option. I'm going to try that soon so I can get some extra time in when my husband is home. I think it would help entice customers to use exclusive more if they really really wanted audio and exclusive is a higher rate so I think it would be a win/win. I've always noticed that the guys who use phone stay a bit longer.

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