Why do these effin' people have to be such busybodies? Putting my model name, real name all over the place? And other then my clips stuff which is under another name... nothing new out there. So why won't they give it a rest![]()



Why do these effin' people have to be such busybodies? Putting my model name, real name all over the place? And other then my clips stuff which is under another name... nothing new out there. So why won't they give it a rest![]()





I feel your pain!.. same here... everyone knows my real name and even my address.. it's been public knowledge on fricken google.. thanks to doing porn and got outed from that wiki leaks site by some disgruntled male porn star or whatever. so that's been since like 2011



The locals found my video over a year ago and they find me everywhere now. That is why I have to keep the real free chat turned off so that they don't sit there and try to harass me. A few put in a credit card and still harass me there. I have had them to go so far as to type my name and profession on chat. It just get aggravating that they are so nosy. If they don't like my videos/ cam sites then how do they know them all so well.![]()







I'm going to add the this by saying "that we know of"
Think of it this way.... Most guys watch porn...A lot of the porn sites redirect or put pop ups for cam sites then voila...said guy sees girl he knows in real life and knows her model name
I know the world is a big place and all but heck last year I was halfway across the country and ran into one of my high school teachers if that can happen then a person from your real life can easily find you camming online....large amount of guys looking at a small pool of camgirls and eventually someone will find out
If someone typed my full name in free chat I would be freaking out big time....my name is pretty uncommon and if a crazy stalker saw it, it would be easy to find me even with me on social media lockdown.
If they do that I would explain to them they are potentially putting your safety endanger but then again if they are already so rude who is to say they would care.
Having my real name doesn't give someone power over me. It just doesn't. Yes, you have to be more worried about stalkers, but I was paranoid before I started porn. I never leave the house without someone else, and when I go into my yard I notify someone in my house to look for me if I don't come back in ten minutes... always been that way. Crazy world out there, but porn is nothing to be ashamed of....
Good article to read about porn and privacy: http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/09/op...tars.html?_r=0
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They probably won't give it a rest because they know it bothers you.
This is where developing a very genuine "I don't give a fuck" attitude is a must.
Everyone knows I cam. Everyone I went to high school with... my whole family... my Uncle recently, he likes to think he's better than everyone, he told my Grandma that he "accidentally found me" online and told her about it thinking she didn't already know... she already knew... she told my mom who tells me...
My response?
"Mother, how many fucks do you think I give?"
xoxo ~ Sarah
They didn't write about me in the local paper (yet, but just wait until Cam Girlz, the movie comes out. LOL) but word got out pretty fast about my camming. My ex told my mom and step-dad. Most people in my home town know. I was silently ostracized so I moved to a BIG city and now it's nice because I'm not in such a conservative environment. Guess my point is... if it bothers you, what about moving? I've been gone over a year and am really happy with the new environment. It was a drastic change but totally worth it to enjoy my life and be anonymous in a city of millions!![]()





It comes with the territory. Your putting yourself out there. I live in an area where people LOVE to gossip because they have nothing better to do. It ruined a relationship of mine because his friends found my twitter and called me out. I don't know why people expect to be naked on the internet and not be found out by anyone.





I just don't get how people would know all this about you unless you'd been very lax with your online privacy like using the same emails for cam and normal, having your Facebook settings open, telling people what you do etc.
Of course people will sometimes find out what you do, but it's not gonna turn you into the towns most gossiped about person unless there's other stuff in there too.
Or am I just too old to understand all this now lol? I've never stripped or done porn, and always been really private so it just surprises me is all.
Susie have you ever heard of six degrees of separation? I swear you can be as safe as possible but someone that knows someone will find you. I've had several people find out because someone they knew, that knew that person shared my links. I'm more focused on paying my bills and living my life than douche dicks being assholes. I'm in a share my shit and suck my dick state of mind these days. Lol





I feel your pain. One town I briefly lived in has a god damn town forum where they talk shit on their neighbors, the liberal agenda, and skateboarders at the library. Once I found myself on there when someone found out I had sex with this dude they liked. They mentioned my names, and the two other guys I had a brief sexual relationship with. Also posted my face, with MSpaint skills of the words WHORE and an arrow. (I actually still have it in one of my hard drives.)
People were coming up to me at my job, where I held a manager title, demanding I be fired since I was a whore. Also saying the most nastiest things to me. People I've never had a conversation with or knew who they are. One day my boss came down and told someone to stop caring so much about my genitalia and what I do with it. Worry about theirs instead. And that's when I stopped giving a fuck, why should they care about what I do with my cunt and what penis I have sex with. I am a consenting adult, who enjoys sex.
If only they can see me now...![]()



Moving is not a possibility due to husband's job. If it were just me I would not care but as it can (and in the past has) affected my husbands job which is our main income. I knew doing videos was a risk when I started but I underestimated how many around this small town area would watch porn. Boy do they seem to love it and since I previously had a very public job that just make it more juicy for them to think they know all about me, and feel they are better then me. It pisses me off more then anything that they are such idiots about all of this (which I know I cannot fix their stupidity). I have endured atrocious behavior from adults, who are supposed to be civilized and educated, at various functions and just going out to dinner. I was just aggravated with the Village Idiots the other night when I posted this.
Well, when i was paranoid about webcam and vids i used to wear wig and make very strong makeup, i still do.without makeup i look like a grey mouse with makeup i do look different.





I'm glad I live right outside of Phoenix. Unless you stab a person here, they could care less what you're doing.





SophieL,
I'm sorry there are too many worthless busybodies in this world. I empathize and understand your pain. Being outed can be awful in a small close-minded town. A few years ago, I was outed as a girl with a penis. So many people in my town freaked out and get so riled up. I was badly shunned and people were horrible to me over a fucking penis!!!
As if Jesus came down and fuck a child!
I didn't really understand it at the time but now I see it as some kind of weird blessing. It made me stronger, more confident and totally accepted myself to the point that I'd tell random dudes all the time these days how super jealous I am of them. They'd ask me WHY?!. I tell them I wish I had a dick, lol. I own now it so no one can use it against me!
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I've never had a customer find any of my real info, so thank God for that.
But as far as it being hard to be discovered by people you know... Most every guy watches some kind of porn. I've had high school friends find me because they like cam sites. Also they follow accounts on Twitter that do a lot of retweeting of girls photos. So if you are popular on a cam site, like consistently on the first page of SM for example, it's only a matter of time before someone you know sees you. For me, being in the top 1-3 rows... I just expect it. And I could care less! Making money and taking care of my family is way more important to me than what anyone thinks.![]()
xoxo ~ Sarah



You all are so great. I think I just get aggravated at the rehashing of it. It has been a year and half since first outed. I am really more like Just get over it- So what.. We ALL know about it. But it is the little playground antics of "Did you you know" "What was her name again" that just really pisses me off. In the past they have drug my husband into the gossip pages too because of my porn work. Such childish behavior from those who won't own up to what they do in life. While I do not hide at home nor deny what I do to I am certainly more aware of who is watching when out to dinner/ shopping or yes even following me in stores, taking pics and videos from a distance.
The thing that really pisses me off about this is that the people who are fapping to porn/camgirls and enjoying it are the same people who are shaming/condemning the women who do it. It's so sexist and hypocritical![]()
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