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    I'm always worried that what I do will hurt my kids. I'm trying to be more and more careful as they get older. Camming when they sleep, doing it quietly, wearing a robe over my costume if I have to go outside my room, etc.

    Sooo today we pick up my kindergartner from school and she tells us what they were doing at recess. Apparently one of the boys had pretended to tie up three girls and was eating them. And another boy was having her and another girl be a puppy for him.

    OK. So maybe it's just me overreacting because of what I deal with every day. BUT OH MY GOD WHAT THE FRICK????? What happened to tag. And cooties.

    She seemed to have a "whatever" reaction to it, so not too much interest but should I be doing something here. As a child sex abuse victim I just want to be really careful to not harm my own kids. Do any of you guys have advice?

    I told her that she can be the owner and the boy can be the puppy sometimes, because we live out in a backwards patriarchal country area and I wanted to make sure she didn't think that boys always have to be in control. Then I worried if I was turning into too much of a big deal and argh..................... what ever happened to being just worried about colic and teething.
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    I don't have any kids...
    I think that if you weren't in this line of business you probably wouldn't think it was so weird! But yes they should take turns at being the puppy! :-D

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    Yep being in this business can warp your mind. Sorry but I just choked when I read your response about taking turns being the puppy lmfao! Speaking from experience, my youngest kids have virtually grown up during my camming years and I have never out right told them what I do, but I would say I find it easier to talk to them both about personal matters and sex in general, made me more open minded if you like and because my response to anything sexually funny that might be on the telly or in a film we might be watching as a family, they know they can ask me anything or tell me if they are having probs.

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    I don't have any kids...
    I think that if you weren't in this line of business you probably wouldn't think it was so weird! But yes they should take turns at being the puppy! :-D
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    When i was in kindergarten my Barbies already had sex
    I totally molested a little boy on the playground then shoved my tongue down his throat.

    all in kindergarten

    I was raised by a psychopath cult christian mom that preached sex was sooooo wrong I WAS DAMNED TO HELL ON A DAILY.
    my barbies and that lil boy would beg to differ as I hid in the closet showing my goodies to the neighbors kids trade for trade?

    Im 37 with a level headed teen.

    Its the motherfuckers that shelter will have the crazy whack kids
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    Quote Originally Posted by temptingmodel View Post
    When i was in kindergarten my Barbies already had sex
    I totally molested a little boy on the playground then shoved my tongue down his throat.

    all in kindergarten

    I was raised by a psychopath cult christian mom that preached sex was sooooo wrong I WAS DAMNED TO HELL ON A DAILY.
    my barbies and that lil boy would beg to differ as I hid in the closet showing my goodies to the neighbors kids trade for trade?

    Im 37 with a level headed teen.

    Its the motherfuckers that shelter will have the crazy whack kids
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    I have to agree with you, My top paying regulars are huge on religion one of them doesn't even touch woman in real life do to his religion, but he is also the weirdest and into so many weird things and fetishes. Something is more desirable when it's forbidden.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goreantx View Post
    I'm always worried that what I do will hurt my kids. I'm trying to be more and more careful as they get older. Camming when they sleep, doing it quietly, wearing a robe over my costume if I have to go outside my room, etc.

    Sooo today we pick up my kindergartner from school and she tells us what they were doing at recess. Apparently one of the boys had pretended to tie up three girls and was eating them. And another boy was having her and another girl be a puppy for him.

    OK. So maybe it's just me overreacting because of what I deal with every day. BUT OH MY GOD WHAT THE FRICK????? What happened to tag. And cooties.

    She seemed to have a "whatever" reaction to it, so not too much interest but should I be doing something here. As a child sex abuse victim I just want to be really careful to not harm my own kids. Do any of you guys have advice?

    I told her that she can be the owner and the boy can be the puppy sometimes, because we live out in a backwards patriarchal country area and I wanted to make sure she didn't think that boys always have to be in control. Then I worried if I was turning into too much of a big deal and argh..................... what ever happened to being just worried about colic and teething.
    How will what you do hurt your kids? I guess I don't understand the concern here if you are working when they are in bed, never exposing them to your job, etc. Maybe it's just that you feel guilty for your job so you are making yourself feel like it must somehow be hurting your kids...?

    Also the playground thing...? I'm not seeing the issue here. Sounds like normal kid stuff these days. My kids friends all know about zombies so maybe they were playing zombies? The puppy thing... my kids and their friends pretend to be animals all the time. I think you are looking WAY, WAY too far into something that isn't there at all.

    My advice... if you can't mentally feel confident and secure in what you do for your job, stop doing it. Do something else. As a mother to twin 7 year olds, a 4 year old, and one on the way, I can confidently without a shadow of doubt say that I am doing absolutely nothing to harm my kids. If you can't say that, and know it to be true, then you should consider doing something else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LaylaLovely View Post
    Something is more desirable when it's forbidden.
    yes it is and I am living walking breathing proof. I rebelled from birth.

    As far as my child, normal, smart ass, I got lucky.
    She knows what I do. She is so normal. beyond normal.
    I dont hide, I cant hide, I m all over the place.
    I dont throw it in her face like "go to bed so mommy can cam" I just do my thing, what I do and when I do it is none of her business. Treat life normal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    How will what you do hurt your kids? I guess I don't understand the concern here if you are working when they are in bed, never exposing them to your job, etc. Maybe it's just that you feel guilty for your job so you are making yourself feel like it must somehow be hurting your kids...?

    Also the playground thing...? I'm not seeing the issue here. Sounds like normal kid stuff these days. My kids friends all know about zombies so maybe they were playing zombies? The puppy thing... my kids and their friends pretend to be animals all the time. I think you are looking WAY, WAY too far into something that isn't there at all.

    My advice... if you can't mentally feel confident and secure in what you do for your job, stop doing it. Do something else. As a mother to twin 7 year olds, a 4 year old, and one on the way, I can confidently without a shadow of doubt say that I am doing absolutely nothing to harm my kids. If you can't say that, and know it to be true, then you should consider doing something else.
    I agree with Sarah, and the recess behavior doesn't sound so bad to me.
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    I'm sure that, with it being recess behavior and all in good fun, there is really no hidden meaning behind what is going on. :p

    On the flip side, I go to kink parties every few weeks and there's a girl "puppy" there that loves to play fetch with her ball in the pool.
    And people are tied up and "eaten."

    But, had I never gone to these types of parties, I wouldn't even relate these activities to the playground activities, haha.
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    Like, I'm happy having my sexy pr0n everywhere, but I don't really want a bunch of clips of me popping balloons in diapers all over the place XD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vlodina View Post
    I think that if you weren't in this line of business you probably wouldn't think it was so weird! But yes they should take turns at being the puppy! :-D
    Totally agree! I went to a Catholic Convent primary school...we had boys there up to the age of 7, I had the hots for one of them very badly, we played doctors and nurses and I remember one boy using a stick against our private parts (through our dresses) and then pretending to eat from the stick. We played kiss chase and someone had the idea that we should cement our friendship by drinking each other's urine...so there you go, an excellent training ground. Kids naturally do the weirdest stuff and have very active imaginations.
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    I just wanna say that most abuse victims DO NOT end up abusing their own kids. Somehow people freak out about that possibility but studies have found a pretty low correlation between the two.

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    I never did anything remotely sexual as a child in elementary school age, or even thought about it... but man I turned into a hell of a pervert in middle school with no ones help.
    I have known plenty of people who did do sexual things in elementary school (without realizing they were sexual at the time of course), and they are all pretty normal and non-perverts.

    So i'm not sure what that says, but I think what I am trying to say its the kids have more of a chance of being perverts later in life if they don't do exploring at a young age.

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    It's not just you. There was a facebook video one of my friends posted the other day about little girls dressed as princesses and dropping F bombs (to raise awareness of inequality between men & women). Without thinking i left a strongly worded comment about tons of pervs now getting off on that vid. loads of people jumped on me about it and i thought shit they probably haven't got a clue have they. I just outed my own sick, perverted mind lol!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysusie View Post
    It's not just you. There was a facebook video one of my friends posted the other day about little girls dressed as princesses and dropping F bombs (to raise awareness of inequality between men & women). Without thinking i left a strongly worded comment about tons of pervs now getting off on that vid. loads of people jumped on me about it and i thought shit they probably haven't got a clue have they. I just outed my own sick, perverted mind lol!
    I saw that video on my feed today. WTF was up with that. Made me mad but I kept my opinion to myself! Lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    I saw that video on my feed today. WTF was up with that. Made me mad but I kept my opinion to myself! Lol
    i see posts on Facebook and think to myself "I would never let my kid go alone to your home"
    to even re blog the bullshit is 10Xs worse than what we do
    How come we need to make ppl aware of common manners?

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