I've known this guy for almost three months. A while ago, he told me he 'loved' me. He started a conversation with me after he came over the other day, and was worried I was starting to think he was using me for sex.
To cut a long story short, this is what he replied after I admitted that him telling me he loved me did, in fact, change some things in my life. What could it mean?
"It's really hard for me to express any feelings for people, and saying I love you is like climbing Mt. Everest for me, but I guess it's just by saying it I'm trying to let you know I'm there for you whenever you need me, that I really like you and being around you, and that it's unconditional in this way that I can have these feelings for you and not want or expect anything in return. Even for you to feel the same way. I guess what I'm saying is don't let my feelings get to you."
It sounds final to me, and also passive, especially the last part in which he basically says 'forget it, it's not even that important.' Please help, I'm confused and heartbroken![]()



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