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    I'm working in a club in Copenhagen, Denmark and on the weekends the only black girls in the club and me and another one. We get on quite well and sometimes hustle together.
    Do you think that would hinder us? Also I'm light skinned and she's quite dark

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    Default Re: Two black girls hustling together

    What was the need to mention the complexion for??? Not sure what you were implying but i kind of think i know smh. Anyways hustle alone i never understood the point of workng with someone else unless a guy specifically asks for that..

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    Default Re: Two black girls hustling together

    It's not what you think (although I'm thinking the worst?!)
    I mean I dunno if it might be too much of the same thing? One of the hosts/bartenders said that her and a white blonde girl teamed up and made good money because it was "the best of both worlds"?
    So I'm thinking maybe because we're not the same complexion it might be good

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    I've never been able to double hustle with other black dancers even though Ive attempted to set it up several times. Not sure why.

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    The thing is most of the time we're not trying to hustle together. It's a small club with not a lot of (but mostly quality) customers. Since we're normally talking or sitting next to each other while waiting for customers to arrive sometimes we end up hustling together. Tonight actually we ended up getting 4 songs out each of an American customer and he tipped us (this is why I love Americans lol). I just wanna know if you guys think it would hurt us or if we should try to sit apart or something.

    When I mentioned complexion I didn't mean anything at all by it! I didn't even think about that at all! I'm quite sad/shocked you thought anything about that tbh
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    Default Re: Two black girls hustling together

    If it's already working for you, why do you feel the need to ask us if it will work or not?

    If you & this other girl get on well, & working together boosts both of your $$, then … I think you have your answer, regardless of ethnicity/hair colour or whatever else.

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    dnt think it has anything w color persay more of who u trust.. most that work together usually are friends in some capacity outside of the club.. it has to b difficult trusting any random person when it comes to making money and lots of it..
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    What bluexxxtasy said is on point. When I was a total newbie out in nyc another , far more experienced dancer wanted me to team up with her. At first I was ecstatic because I was nervous and had no idea what I was doing. Soon enough I found out she was just trying to steal my money. After we went on stage one time and she ran off with our bucket full of ones that was it for me. I tore off the stage after her and we went at it. She was trying to stuff money and her bag before I got there and then split the rest with me after. After that experience I strictly hustled alone until I met my current hustle buddy . She compliments my personality very well, is a great hustler and is a trusted friend. I always work with my DJ, bartenders and waitresses as far as them pointing out any whales but besides that it's just me and my girl. No matter what thou every dancer should know how to hustle by herself. It's not good to rely on anyone else for your money. I decided to take off the rest of October and most of November and my hustle partner is really disappointed. But like I told her, she's awesome and all but it's not my job to make her money. Plus, on the nights she's not around I've still gone into work and made my $$$.
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    The way the club is set up it would be very hard to steal money from another girl while working. Also most of us live together anyway so if someone did want to steal from another girl they wouldn't do it at the club...
    Also, I'm definitely not trying to depend on this girl, that's just silly. I know how to hustle and make money (I mean I'm not the best but I definitely don't need to rely on other girls to help me). At the club I work at, it's not just about selling dances, but selling champagne as well so teaming up can work well as the bottle finishes faster and the customer will buy another one.

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    The sex industry can really bring out the racism in customers - just wanted to chime in to say that I completely understand why the OP included notes on her skin color! I have yet to be in a club where I didn't witness outright racism from staff and customers alike (very sad, but true).

    As for my thoughts on the matter at hand... Many customers are intimidated (turned off) by two white women doubling up to hustle them. I would imagine that, in general, WOC would struggle even more to hustle in doubles. Obviously this is extremely regional. My perspective is coming from having danced in Midwest and Southwest America.

    OP - especially since you have lighter skin than your friend does, I would hustle separately. IME, men who want to spend a fair amount of money in clubs are generally looking for a one-on-one connection rather than the gimmick of taking two girls back for private dances. Instead of making the initial sale together, perhaps there are other ways to include her. The next time you're stringing together dances with a customer and you feel his attention starting to wane, consider asking him if you could bring in some company to "spice things up." That would give you a way to include your hustle buddy while also keeping your custie entertained for a bit longer than you otherwise would have.

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    I've never been a fan of girls hustling together and/or "tag-teaming" customers. It can't really HELP you earn more, unless a guy is specifically asking for dancers in pairs, which isn't particularly common (at least in the places I've worked). Especially with both of you being black. You are already going to have to "compete" with her in a way, since you're the only black girls on ship... why make things harder on yourself? I'd say hustle alone, and help her out by bringing her into the equation when customers ask for it... or else you're just splitting your money with her, which won't help you financially.
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    Dont know if its a difference in location that may cause you to question it, but ive never had a problem. Im a caramel tone, one of my hustle bunnies is chocolate, the other is pretty bright. Whether its two of us or all three of us we've never had a problem. I understand your question so i thought id chime in.

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    Okay, I really didn't think I would get the reaction I did. I guess you guys think I'm think better because I'm lighter? Because that was not my intention and if you really think that I think that shows something about you, not me.
    I mentioned the complexion because it paints a more accurate description. You could reverse the situation and say I'm white in a black club asking if it's a good idea to hustle with another white dancer while saying that I'm blonde and she's brunette. Do I think one is better than the other? No, I do not.
    You guys need to chill your beans.

    Maybe I should have posted more about the situation. I am working in Denmark, there aren't a lot of black people here therefore men who come in here have this sort of fascination with us. In fact, because of this the darker skinned girl probably has more of an edge because I guess they see her as "more black" and more intriguing. A lot of the girls work together in this club, not necessarily on the same customer but if there is a group. We have to sell champagne as well as dances so egging the group on to buy bottles can work better with more girls and also the champagne obviously gets drunk quicker if there are two (or more) of us drinking it. Some of the girls have said that maybe working with the other girl would be good as we're both black, a couple other girls said maybe it's better to go with a white girl to maybe have some variety. I just wanna know what you guys think. Stop being offended for no reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misssincere View Post
    Dont know if its a difference in location that may cause you to question it, but ive never had a problem. Im a caramel tone, one of my hustle bunnies is chocolate, the other is pretty bright. Whether its two of us or all three of us we've never had a problem. I understand your question so i thought id chime in.
    Thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by newb2 View Post
    Okay, I really didn't think I would get the reaction I did. I guess you guys think I'm think better because I'm lighter? Because that was not my intention and if you really think that I think that shows something about you, not me.
    I mentioned the complexion because it paints a more accurate description. You could reverse the situation and say I'm white in a black club asking if it's a good idea to hustle with another white dancer while saying that I'm blonde and she's brunette. Do I think one is better than the other? No, I do not.
    You guys need to chill your beans.

    Maybe I should have posted more about the situation. I am working in Denmark, there aren't a lot of black people here therefore men who come in here have this sort of fascination with us. In fact, because of this the darker skinned girl probably has more of an edge because I guess they see her as "more black" and more intriguing. A lot of the girls work together in this club, not necessarily on the same customer but if there is a group. We have to sell champagne as well as dances so egging the group on to buy bottles can work better with more girls and also the champagne obviously gets drunk quicker if there are two (or more) of us drinking it. Some of the girls have said that maybe working with the other girl would be good as we're both black, a couple other girls said maybe it's better to go with a white girl to maybe have some variety. I just wanna know what you guys think. Stop being offended for no reason.
    I didn't mean anything by my post - I'm sorry if it sounded that way! It's interesting to me that WOC are in demand in Denmark. That's fantastic! My perspective was coming from my experiences working in the U.S. Sounds like my advice definitely doesn't apply to your situation due to the differences over there! However, the bit I mentioned about men being intimidated by two-girl hustles may still be relevant for you.

    Best of luck to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I didn't mean anything by my post - I'm sorry if it sounded that way! It's interesting to me that WOC are in demand in Denmark. That's fantastic! My perspective was coming from my experiences working in the U.S. Sounds like my advice definitely doesn't apply to your situation due to the differences over there! However, the bit I mentioned about men being intimidated by two-girl hustles may still be relevant for you.

    Best of luck to you.
    No I was mainly talking to the other girls don't worry haha

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    Related anecdote I just remembered.
    Black girls also do well with Irish customers as well for the same reason. There was only one time that an Irish customer has said no and it was because I wasn't "black enough"
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    ^ I think the double hustle would probably work where you are working now, I knew a girl who worked in that city before and I know black girls do well there, If there are rich men who want a black girl they might get excited by having 2, there was a guy in London years ago who used to ask for all the non white girls to be sent to him, there were only like 6 of us and he would have us all, if its working for you then don't stop, you don't have to be stuck together all the time. goodluck, and yes its better doing champagne rooms with other girls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by newb2 View Post
    Related anecdote I just remembered.
    Black girls also do well with Irish customers as well for the same reason. There was only one time that an Irish customer has said no and it was because I wasn't "black enough"
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    I have to disagree with the posters telling you to only hustle alone, because you say that you are working in a champagne/conversation based club. IME the double hustle and group hustling are important in those clubs.

    If you and the other black girl make $$ together, great! Keep it up. I would try to make a few allies at the club so you can mix and match depending on the customer or group of customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    ALL my clients are white. Which works out perfect because black men are cheap as hell.
    Well there has been one black customer here in the 4 weeks I've worked here xD
    So I guess it's good for me!

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    Black people in North America are sensitive and divided when it comes to skin tone. It's stupid, but it goes back to slavery when the slave owners split them up according to skin tone. The dark skinned people had to work the fields while the light skin ones worked in the house. They were pitted against each other and it was thought that the house workers thought they were better than the field workers and many of them were children of the slave owners with the slaves so it was thought they got better treatment than the field workers. Now in today's society sadly these same attitudes exist in the black community. That is why when you mentioned skin tone some people got offended. I understand what you meant, but others may not have. I'm just trying to break it down the mindsets of American Blacks vs Blacks in other countries. (Disclaimer - Not ALL black people think this way, but it is very prevalent in the black community in the usa)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    This ^^^^ along w/ your 'racially diluted' comment where you called the OP a self hater -- you're making this WAY more abt race than the OP was for mentioning the difference in skintone between herself & her coworker.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DEUCESWILD View Post
    Black people in North America are sensitive and divided when it comes to skin tone. It's stupid, but it goes back to slavery when the slave owners split them up according to skin tone. The dark skinned people had to work the fields while the light skin ones worked in the house. They were pitted against each other and it was thought that the house workers thought they were better than the field workers and many of them were children of the slave owners with the slaves so it was thought they got better treatment than the field workers. Now in today's society sadly these same attitudes exist in the black community. That is why when you mentioned skin tone some people got offended. I understand what you meant, but others may not have. I'm just trying to break it down the mindsets of American Blacks vs Blacks in other countries. (Disclaimer - Not ALL black people think this way, but it is very prevalent in the black community in the usa)
    I'm from the Caribbean so I know this but I didn't think in a million years that someone would take it to this level.
    Maybe I've lived too long in Europe haha :/

    Quote Originally Posted by KaraLynn View Post
    I always liked having someone to hustle with when it came to larger groups of guys because I was always shy and awkward when it came to approaching a group of 4-5 guys by myself.
    I feel like it could get overwhelming and overbearing if it's just one guy though and it'll make it kind of awkward if he picks one girl over the other. So I'd say use the Double hustling when it comes to approaching more than one guy
    And yes!
    When it's a big group I get shy and nervous! Also one girl going to a group saying "woo lets but champagne!" Isn't really going to have the same effect as two or three girls saying the same thing

    Quote Originally Posted by Prettyglitter View Post
    Wow you are really off the hook. Definitely displaced anger. Let this girl be.
    Yes the way she keeps going on about it when I clearly have explained myself makes me think there is something deeper going on

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    I'm glad guys in Denmark aren't as racist as in the US-NOT ALL, of course. Out here, it seems like they think being in a SC means they can say whatever retarded, backwards, racist shit that pops in their minds.
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    I know I am not a dancer but I think you should go for it. It sounds like you could offer your customers something unique. However, I do not think that it would go down well in America as much. But in Denmark....it could be gold mine for awhile. Just make sure you do it once in awhile. Not all the time



    Quote Originally Posted by newb2 View Post
    I'm working in a club in Copenhagen, Denmark and on the weekends the only black girls in the club and me and another one. We get on quite well and sometimes hustle together.
    Do you think that would hinder us? Also I'm light skinned and she's quite dark

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