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    Thumbs up What value does stripping provide?

    To your life and to the lives of others?

    I think stripping provides a positive source of income for women who are success-minded. It provides income to women who maybe can't get a job in any other sector, or need money fast. It liberates people like myself who choose to do things our way rather than anyone elses'. I've learned a lot about my values, my body, how to manage money. I can comfortably save and invest in my future, without having to sacrifice too much.

    I think we provide a valuable service to men who want to be entertained by a beautiful woman. Men love spending money on women, and a strip club is a great place to do that. We provide a naked, expensive shoulder to cry on.

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    For me it's provided financial independence and freedom of choosing my own schedule. I can still be at home and raise my own child, spend time with my family, and still make a decent living. How many people can live comfortably working 3 or 4 days a week? Not many.

    As far as the value we provide to customers: I think it's the fantasy. Most men are ignored by women all day long when they desperately want validation from us. Even the married men/or guys with girlfriends often get very little eye contact, smiling, or attention paid to them by their partners. How many men are approached by a gorgeous woman in a regular bar who then offers to get naked on their lap? It just doesn't happen anywhere else. I have customers tell me straight to my face "This would never happen in real life" as they hand me $20 after $20.

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    I always tell people that I'm in the marriage saving business. I entertain men who love their wives and yet the desire and sexual spark has left their relationship. Strip clubs provide a safe outlet for those sexual feelings without jeopardizing marriages. I also entertain men who, for whatever reason, are not ready to enter a romantic relationship with another person, but still desire the company and sexually charged atmosphere that strip clubs provide.

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    On a personal level, the number one value stripper provides is financial independence and stability. I like that I am in control of how much money I make and it's up to be to budget, save, file taxes, etc. I take pride in that.
    Also I find that dancing is a value of itself. I personally love doing stage sets. Not only is it exercise, but it's somewhat cathartic for me. And I'm basically being paid to learn and practice pole dancing.

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    Awesome answers, ladies! I plan on writing about how the sex industry helps and improves the lives of women and men. There are a lot of negative views about us, and sure there always will be, but if I can influence someone in a positive way with my experience, I would love to.

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    The biggest value I saw on stripping was learning about human behavior.





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    On a personal note, the desire to strip has made me completely reevaluate myself. I have struggled with eating disorders, BDD and low self esteem for years and any improvements have been slow. Making the decision to strip and getting to grips with it, the mentality of it, what you need to do to make good money has sort of saved me. I WANT to be healthy, I love my body, I want to look after it. Confidence is sexy and if you don't think you're the hottest thing, nobody else is going to. And it has helped with the competitive streak that eating disorders have - skinniest, hottest, all 'est'. All the most of something compared to other women. Nope. I'm hot as fuck, other women can also be hot as fuck and that's awesome. Better health mentally and physically.

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    Stripping provides a great value in terms of financial stability. Women who choose to go to school can sustain themselves and pay for their tuition just having a part-time job. To men, we provide a safe emotional outlet.

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    Default Re: What value does stripping provide?

    Yes. What kind of value do you guys think it provides for men?

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    its obvious what stripping provides for me : lots more money, and time. only having to work 2 or 3 days a week is amazing. it also gives me a great outlet for dressing up and doing my makeup to the nines..(yes i still enjoy that haha).
    it provides men with boobs to look at, scientifically proven to prolong life lol.
    entertainment and relaxation after a long day, so many men tell me that its a huge stress reliever to come in and see beautiful naked women and have a beer.
    we also provide an "emotional outlet" to borrow a term from another poster. half my job consists of listening to men who just want to talk or vent, and be there to really listen to them and be a sympathetic ear. a lot of them are genuinely lonely and just want somebody to talk to and interact with..its a haven from the real world

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    Quote Originally Posted by NightGoddess View Post
    Awesome answers, ladies! I plan on writing about how the sex industry helps and improves the lives of women and men.
    There are a lot of negative views about us, and sure there always will be, but if I can influence someone in a positive way with my experience, I would love to.
    So will you be using our answers in your book and framing them as your experiences?

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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    Let me first say that I fucking LOVE sex work, I have since I was a young teenager! It is an emotionally and sexually charged profession. I feel like I was made for this. I can't imagine my life without it-but I know it would be bland, blah and colorless. Sex work provides me an interesting and lucrative life. It's giving me a life that I can look back on when I'm old, and know that I didn't miss out on anything.

    It lets me merge my business-minded self with my free, sexual and adventurous self. I'm a big dreamer and I love that! Unlike a lot of vanilla people, I do not have suppress ANY part of myself. If someone pisses me off, I do not have to smile and chant "The customer is always right!" I can tell 'em to fuck right off! I can express myself, and I can literally *be* anything I want to be.

    I've learned soo much from this industry. The only downside is, I know how men really are now, so that is one of the few things I view through jaded eyes. Dating and marriage will be a challenge if I *choose* to pursue it. But you know what, who cares, especially at my age?? I'm just thinking, I'm going to go do whatever the hell I want! I'm so free
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    Default Re: What value does stripping provide?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    So will you be using our answers in your book and framing them as your experiences?

    Confused.
    I'm not writing a book? Where on earth did you get that from? I am a college student... I write papers! LMAO!! I also have a blog, where I write about my *personal* experiences as a sex worker.

    Sorry you're confused! I certainly am not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KikiGem View Post
    Let me first say that I fucking LOVE sex work, I have since I was a young teenager! It is an emotionally and sexually charged profession. I feel like I was made for this. I can't imagine my life without it-but I know it would be bland, blah and colorless. Sex work provides me an interesting and lucrative life. It's giving me a life that I can look back on when I'm old, and know that I didn't miss out on anything.

    It lets me merge my business-minded self with my free, sexual and adventurous self. I'm a big dreamer and I love that! Unlike a lot of vanilla people, I do not have suppress ANY part of myself. If someone pisses me off, I do not have to smile and chant "The customer is always right!" I can tell 'em to fuck right off! I can express myself, and I can literally *be* anything I want to be.

    I've learned soo much from this industry. The only downside is, I know how men really are now, so that is one of the few things I view through jaded eyes. Dating and marriage will be a challenge if I *choose* to pursue it. But you know what, who cares, especially at my age?? I'm just thinking, I'm going to go do whatever the hell I want! I'm so free
    Awesome! I love your answer. I think that men who come to the strip club, though, do not speak for all men. They certainly do not speak for the men that I associate with in my personal life, anyways. The men I know personally are very respectful and openminded. I mean, they're still perverts, but... I'm probably more of a pervert than they are. I just happen to get paid for it!! LMAO!

    Thankfully, not all men are like the guys in the club!

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