I am sore! I have only been working 15 hours a week at most.. but its awful! Do you lovely ladies have any advice how to be nice to your body? lol!
Thanks!!

I am sore! I have only been working 15 hours a week at most.. but its awful! Do you lovely ladies have any advice how to be nice to your body? lol!
Thanks!!



Rule #1: Don't bend over backwards for customers. If they keep telling you "harder bb faster" they aren't worth your time. I have never ever encountered a customer like that who stayed for more than 5 minutes. It's not worth it to completely exhaust yourself for customers. Another camgirl on here once told me that "Your health is most important" and I've really taken that to heart. You should too!
TIPS:
1. Make sure that you are using toys that are comfortable for you. When I first started as a cam model I bought whatever Dildo's and toys I thought would be appealing for my customers. Turns out that a few of my "customer favorites" were actually toys that had were made with chemicals that severely irritated my lady parts (Doc Johnson). I eventually ended up being out of service for a few weeks due to a yeast infection. I did some good research into toys since then. Glass and 100% silicone are a good way to go. Lelo is a really good brand and their vibrators are not made too large. There's a whole section on this forum dedicated to safe toys.
2. Raise your rates. Play around with different rates and find one that allows you to make good money while not exhausting yourself so much.
3. Don't have real orgasm's on cam. Sometimes I do, but only with really a select few really good regulars who genuinely want me to have a good time and give me enough time to do it. If I attempted to actually have a real orgasm for every single private I'd probably only be able to be on cam for maybe an hour each day lol.
4. During a private if a customer wants to see what toys you have show him and then pick out your smallest most comfortable toy and say "This one is my absolute favorite, I love the way this toy feels" or something along the lines of that. 9 times out of 10 they will tell you to use that toy. +1 for you!When I started to realize that certain toys were causing problems I started doing this and it worked like magic.
5. Get yourself in a position that is easy and comfortable for you. Occasionally customers will ask me to change my position and I will. But if I asked single customer what position they wanted me in I know I would exhaust myself very quickly.
6. Turn your volume sensitivity way up. This can work out really well, you just have to make sure that you are talking quietly in freechat otherwise customers will leave because you are waaay louder than other models and they don't want to turn their volume down or they will turn their volume down and the effect this can have on privates won't be as dramatic. Here's the deal-io...Most of my customers like a lot of moaning. For a while I was having headaches after working because of constantly moaning lol and not breathing correctly. By turning my volume sensitivity I no longer have to be as loud for it to have as much of an effect and I'm no longer getting headaches.
7. Wear clothes that are easy to get in and out of. When I first started camming I invested in all this really nice lingerie and it was horrible trying to get in and out of it. I wasted a lot of time getting dressed and undressed. Now all I wear on cam is a tank top and panties. I can literally get dressed in 10 seconds.
*I also apologize for any typos, tried to get all this in while typing on a phone and I hate phones haha.




- Don't use toys unless they ask for them
- When you do use toys, try glass toys with tons of lube (coconut oil is the bomb)
- Work on teasing them with your body and words to give your pussy a break
Of course, I should follow my own advice. I've been working a lot this week and over-using my Hitachi... my pussy's fine and the area looks OK but I'm pretty sure I bruised my pubic bone from holding the wand against my clit lmao. Totally worth it though![]()



Ah yes. Totally forgot the "Don't use toys unless they ask you too" part. Do that first lol!
Coconut oil is a really great inexpensive lube. It's naturally antibiotic and will keep you from getting infections. Just make sure that you buy virgin coconut oil. It needs to say "unrefined" on the bottle. If it says "refined" coconut oil it doesn't offer nearly the same benefits and can possibly upset the PH balance of your vag and lead to infections.



I think the best solution to this problem is to buy small glass toys, simple shape, without bumps, swirls, etc. I don't even feel them inside. Metal is in my opinion even better and more smooth, but it is also more expensive.Silicone, even if it is 100%, will cause more friction. So it's probably best to have glass as your first option, and only use silicone if customer requests so.




get the smallest toy possible, tell guys its all that will fit. thats a turn on cos they be thinking wooo she tight.
or dont use toys at all.
get a vibrator for the outside instead.
just rub ur self on the outside with fingers and hover over so u aint actually touching but i t look like u r.
bend a knuckle so it looks like a finger went in.
Vixskin. Better on your lady parts then even glass. Also, take seabuckthorn supplements. Helps you stay nice and lubed naturally and builds up your mucous membranes so you are protected from uti and yeast infections. Amazing stuff. Also helps with a lot of other things.





I've learned all of the above the hard way when I first started camming. (and didn't know about this forum).
Since I have been celibate for many years, the word 'ouch', and 'too tight' were a constant.
If you ask a custie what his dick looks like, they will most likely say that it's big, over 7 inches, thick, etc.I was so naïve when I first started, and got huge dildos that were painful, just so I could make it 'real' for them.
I can go days, sometimes weeks without even picking up a dildo now, because I use words, and body teasing to get them off. I will use my dildos for blow jobs.
I only use a toy for penetration(and it's a small one), if they request one, and if they have been paying for over 5 minutes, or so.
Nobody has ever complained.
When a rude custie tells me to go faster, harder, I tell him that until I get going it will be painful. Then I turn it on him, and ask them if they really want to see me hurt myself.
Most of these guys don't know the female anatomy, so they just need some guidance.![]()
Agree with everything said so far.
Also a trick I do is get those small ice cube trays - I got mine at the grocery store, silicone tray that has smaller cubes shaped like, a bigger gumdrop? lol I'll have to find a picture, it's bigger but not like a huge one.
Anyways, get one of those and fill each cube pocket with coconut oil and freeze. Then before you work, pop one in the pussy and wah-la! now you're lubed for at least 1 1/2 - 2 hrs no mess.
This is the tray I have. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00CR2...10_SY165_QL70#



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Everytime I fuck myself, my hymen gets pissed off at me. It's my body, and doesn't matter how much lube I used. To accommodate, I only do penetration in exclusive or when I make goal in a gold show.
I do not go hard, because it's uncomfortable. If someone tells me "harder bb," I tell them my cunt isn't made out of steal, but a very sensitive fleshy material.

Kegel muscle training helped me a lot. When I started camming, I got sore a lot. I did most of the things that the other ladies already recommended. Kegels are now a daily routine. My lady parts recover much quicker and my orgasms are stronger too![]()





^^ Telling them "My cunt isn't made of steel."
Brilliant!!
May I use that?
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When I first started I figured I didn't need lube because I get ridiculously wet all on my own. Nope. Lube. More lube. Use twice as much as you think you need. I like coconut oil because it is solid, i keep a little container of it next to my dildo off cam and when i reach for the dildo I grab a lump of coconut oil to subtly put on me. I am totally taking the ice cube tray idea, because a big selling point for me has always been how wet i get.
I had a great vibrating dildo, but after a year it is starting to not feel great on me (and i broke the vibrator bit) so I am replacing it. I'm going with a sooth glass dildo, small slim vibrator, and then a realistic dildo for bj shows and clips. I tried with Roger (yeah I named him) to get all in one, and I'm going to try it differently this time
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best advice I can really give is to pace yourself - dont start up with the fast pace more intense play right off the bat, work into it and take little breaks when you can, and if need be load up on more lubes to just help cut back on some discomfort . I had a bad habit when I first started of going into high gear too soon, and at the end of even a short hour shift I'd be sore for a day or so, Ive had to learn to sorta- scale my hustle from subtle and attract pvts that would be more layed back - and gradually work my game up as my body was " warmed up" and ready to comply. Also hot showers and other decompressing tricks before or after a shift help too, as well as having a little bit of wine, or absinthe or whatever your choice is to sip on " not get drunk, just a glass or so to start to loosen up and relax) that seems to be where alot of owies come from is just being too tense
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You are all soo wonderful!! Thanks for the advice!





hummm.. guess what?? I don't use any lube at all!.. haven't in a decade.. I rarely get sore anymore.. I guess all them shows every single day .. day in and day out just does it for ya.. I am naturally pretty wet the entire month.. there are only a few days I am not and I use my SALIVA.. just always hated lube .. you end up eating that.. I recommend a GOOD diet, cleansing a whole food supplement.. I think that's why I don't need any lube at all.



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LOL.. I just want to clarify that you EAT the supplements and not stick them up your coochie!.. but the coconut oil in the ice trays is a great idea for when I hit menopause.. I'm sure i'll still be here even if it's part time.. who can pass up money?? not this girl!
p.s. I haven't been HORNY since 2011 so I am NOT wet for that reason.. I swear sometimes I am dripping in my panties.. I know .. TMI.. but it's SW!





I'm actually the same way. I never use lube for camming...I'm always wet enough on my own. Sometimes during sex after going for a while we'll use coconut oil because of all the friction drying me out. But yeah, I'm always good to go from the start....just always have been this way.



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