Thats something he was talking about, but he said that single moms are raising boys not men.
So no matter what, it is a female who is at fault for what is wrong with the males in the world.
I can see him saying this because of our own upbringing. It is true that my mother made it difficult for our father to see us, but when he did have the opportunity to be present he failed miserably. He always chose whatever tail he was chasing over his kids, and that is fact. He always counters our father's fuck ups with stuff he thinks our mother did.
its very interesting all the things you bring up, because he even recently told me that he thinks our brother doesn't have the same dad as us. My mom was a lot of things, but I don't remember her ever being promiscuous by bringing men home. She respected our home in that sense, whatever she did when she left for days without us knowing where could be entirely different.
I think some of his issues are mommy issues as well. He has a lot of anger and hatred towards our mom and I understand that. I live on the opposite coast of my entire family and she is a huge factor as to why. I like keeping her away myself.
He does think that those are important things for a man to do, keeping his word and all. But he believes that no one is truly a feminist. He says there are no feminists in a burning building or a sinking ship.
As far as his success with women, idk. The girls he has dated have seemed weird to me. Ugly tbh. Last one he dated was super crazy. He acts even cocky at times though and thinks he can pick up women easily because he knows what we want. I have seen him fail at it miserably twice though. LOL one time I took him out with a friend from work and we all happened to bump into this girl who danced at my club but she was an escort on the low. She tried to pick up my brother and he didn't even realize she was a hooker! lol it was so funny! He told her he was on leave from the army for only a few days so he didn't want to hook up and leave and hurt her. Poor thing. Then he gave her a ride and she asked him to drop her off on a weird street corner and he was worried about her and was all "are you sure this is a good spot?"
I told him he should consider online dating to narrow down his fields on what he is looking for in a woman or to look into "mail order brides" but he said he doesn't like the negative connotation behind it.
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R: Mommy issues, immaturity, lack of real-world-civilian experiences.
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