And it was so normal. I felt bad because unless there's a really electric connection it's pretty hard for people I'm not in love with to get me off. Even though this was the first person I'd been naked with privately in two years besides my SO I'm super used to it from work. I've actually had way hotter experiences with girls just during a lapdance....
Right so it started out just me and her, she's an acquaintance sleeping over after a party nearby, she dommed me a little and slammed me around - lifting me up and moving me, whipping my ass, biting, hair pulling, etc. All of which kinda bores me because I'm pretty physically indifferent- it's the emotional shit that gets me riled up. But I do have a nice eager to please streak? Anyway, I'm pretty exhausted, and I'm pretty sure she's not like inflamed with desire....some fingering, salad tossing, more smacking and hair pulling while she shocker's my g-spot which was nice. Thankfully my SO heard the commotion and woke up to join in (I already had a green light and we've discussed boundaries many times before this) and I finally got turned on, and the pressure was off of just me wanting to please someone whose body I don't know how to work at all.
My favorite thing was getting to be a team with my bf, and when I finally got some penetration. I liked the whole everybody's mouth on everybody else's genitals, and at one point the face sitting/PIV rhythm got really nice. I also liked knowing how turned on my bf was watching me get eaten out. At one point we got to make out while Eiffel Towering her which was fun. Overall I was happy when it was over and we could all kiss and crawl into bed.
If I could do it again I'd like to have my vibrator help kick things off, and to have it be one of those super lusty ovulation nights where you're just over sensitive. I would also like time to give myself some mental build up, flirt, seduce, the whole deal. Maybe have my bf fluff me a little better :p
Ultimately it just felt the way having sex with someone for the first time usually feels- everyone is trying to please and show off while simultaneously adjusting to different signals and bodies. I think I'd also like to handpick someone with a much stronger personality next time- there's this weird thing about people who are a third to a couple because they can be kinda used as a prop if they don't assert their needs and style....
It does however make amazing fantasy fodder for later - if only I'd been that turned on in the moment! Bf and I talked this morning and while we're both pretty riled up and randy now he said it's definitely a novelty thing and he wants to explore our usual sex life more before we do the next one. I have a feeling it will be a lot like taking acid- it just shows up at the right moments and you go for it. Also had a laugh because I've been wanting him to do more butt stuff and he's been really finicky and then he saw this girl (and me) just go full face and hands and show him up![]()



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