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    Some guy took me private last night without even saying hi first. And I started my intro/strip tease and then he tells me he's 17. I said "are you even allowed
    on here?" And he said "lol idk" so I just kinda ignored it and went on with the show . Then he was talking about how he's a virgin and stuff and I just thought it was his fetish or whatever. But then he sent me a c2c request and I'm pretty sure he was being serious. He looked like a geeky 15 yearsold. Anyways; I kept my panties on the whole time and he basically just wanted to talk. And when he asked if he could show me his dick I said no, and he didn't show it. It was kind of weird though but he ended up staying a good 30 mins. I'm wondering if I could get in trouble for this on sm? Whenever he mentioned his age I just like ignored it and didn't say anything. Also, what if he was using his moms credit card or something? Does sm protect against stolen cards? I'm kinda scared . I know I should've just closed the private and now I'm kicking myself for not doing it

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    I am not judging but if it were me, I would have ended the private when he told me he's 17. You can't unring the bell so I would just let it go. SM doesn't allow underage play even though I know some girls do it.
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    I would end private, ban, report to the site.
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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    Yeah, I always report them when they say they're under age. If they are just role playing and don't want their account shut down then they shouldn't say it.

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    I know for some guys being under age with an older woman (I'm 53) is their fantasy but as soon as anyone implies or states it, I ban them. I explain that I have to and apologise if it was just their fantasy but I have no choice. I won't even do it as role play.
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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    This was probably the 'innocent' incident which you described. But there is also the potential that it was something else ... such as LE 'fronting' an under-aged customer as part of a potential 'sting'. Thus the 'safe' play would have been to stop show / ban / report as others pointed out already.

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    In most countries it is illegal to watch porn under the age of 18, we are porn, no he is not allowed on the site and most sites cover that in their T&C's. I always ban & report if they say, imply or suggest underage RP. The thing is, worst case scenario, if the guy was using mum/dads cc, they will find out, they could decide to take it further and involve the police, you are the one who would lose your profile/source of income, possibly end up on the sex offenders register, maybe face a court case etc etc, the site wouldn't suffer as a result because they covered their asses. I'm not trying to frighten you, it's highly unlikely and you will probably never hear from him again. Of course the guy can go watch free porn etc I don't know what happens in that situation regarding the law, tbh I don't really care, I just make sure I am acting within the law.
    If we really want sex work to become more acceptable we have to work with the laws and make ourselves whiter than white.
    Having said all that I do feel the age laws, certainly in the UK, are confusing at best and damn right stupid at worst! i.e you can legally have sex at 16 but you can't legally watch someone having sex untill you are 18+! Oh and don't get me started on underage drinking lol. It is NOT illegal to drink alcahol under the age of 18, it's NOT even illegal to buy it but it is illegal to SELL it to under 18's. The seller of the booze is the one that gets prosacuted not the kid, not the parents. This is one law that is widley missunderstood/misinterpreted in the UK.
    Anyway I digress, to get back to the original question, if in doubt BAN & REPORT always.
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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    really so many little boys here?

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    Yeah Im surprised he was able to sneak past the filters if theres a site requirement to be at least 18. I know some of these teens are more sexually advanced than even some young adults but still...

    Yeah as strict as they are on older men and underage girls, you definitely dont want to be on the flip side of this. For all you know that boy could have been a decoy LE like in that Catch a Predator show.

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    Anytime someone says they are underage, I copy their text that tells me they are underage and paste it in the report for proof. After working in a bodega and being slapped with a $500 fine for selling cigarettes to an undercover kid for the police. I was 16 and young- I didn't card, so it was my fault. I take age seriously. I don't fucking care if they say they are 6, I'm reporting their asses. Age play is not aloud. Period. And if that person is underage, I'm not getting my ass thrown in jail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hustler Kelly View Post
    really so many little boys here?
    I'm thinking no way was he underage.

    Underage guys are going to pretend to be older.

    Doesn't matter though. I still ban and report. Not getting in trouble for some old guy wanting underage roleplay.


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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    Yeah I usually have all the guys who want me to be younger . I'm 19 so I guess I look "young" and I always tell them no and end the show if they persist. Also, I guess that's why I wasn't instantly like "omg, ew" because we're essentially the same age. But, underaged is underaged . So I know what to do next time. Thankyou ladies!

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    You are partly right, a lot of younger guys will pretend to be older, but a lot of 16/17 year old guys are also confused by the laws, they think because they can have sex they can watch us and are quite happy to tell us. I have had guys do just that, I have had them tell me in freechat, 'but I'll will be 18 in a couple of weeks', practically begging me to play, a bit elaborate for a RP I think lol. I do feel that guys these days don't see us as 'porn stars' or percieve us as performing porn I don't really know what they think porn is these days as they seem to think that boobs out is NOT nude lol

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    I'm thinking no way was he underage.

    Underage guys are going to pretend to be older.

    Doesn't matter though. I still ban and report. Not getting in trouble for some old guy wanting underage roleplay.
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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    He might have written an illegal age as proof to show you broke the law & so he could get out of paying for the show as in chargeback.

    Soon as he wrote 17 you KNEW BETTER! You under law have read the tos & signed it. YOU BROKE the LAW!

    You PUT all our jobs at risk at sm for your greed. If you can't tell the difference between right & wrong then go back & reread the TOS. He could report it to the credit card company which can pull the billing for SM & shut it down FOREVER! Yet, you come here & brag about getting a 30 minute show with an underage kid.

    You should stop camming all together since your first reaction wasn't to stop the show immediately. Obviously you don't know the difference between right & wrong or the LAW!

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    I suppose it depends on how the site verfies the customer, it's not like they make them jump through the same hoops as us cammodels lol. Anyone can have a prepaid debit card but as far as I know, certainly in the UK, you have to over 18 and have a steady income before you can have a crdit card.

    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Yeah Im surprised he was able to sneak past the filters if theres a site requirement to be at least 18.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Missymissdemeanour View Post
    You are partly right, a lot of younger guys will pretend to be older, but a lot of 16/17 year old guys are also confused by the laws, they think because they can have sex they can watch us and are quite happy to tell us. I have had guys do just that, I have had them tell me in freechat, 'but I'll will be 18 in a couple of weeks', practically begging me to play, a bit elaborate for a RP I think lol. I do feel that guys these days don't see us as 'porn stars' or percieve us as performing porn I don't really know what they think porn is these days as they seem to think that boobs out is NOT nude lol
    Yup, the law makes no sense. You can have heterosexual sex at 16, join the army, get married.. But you can't smoke, drink or watch porn. D'oh!

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    Default Re: Custie tells you he's under 18??

    I had a few guys take me private, even one that took me twice (I found out the second time private he was underage, he told me he was older the first time) that were underage and I immediately blocked and reported. No amount of money is important when it comes to stuff like that.

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    I've had guys come in freechat and say they are browsing with their sister. I then always ask "How old is your sister?" When I think of a brother having a sister I always imagine the sister being younger. But anyway, 4 out of the 4 times this happened the sister has been under 18. I reported the user instantly.

    If someone mentions they are under 18. You report them immediately. IMMEDIATELY.

    Maybe it's from all the statutory rape laws and articles I browsed through when I was 15 with a 18 year old boyfriend... but you can get into serious do-do for doing anything with a minor.

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    I had someone in my free chat today ask me if I'd do 16. Not sure if he meant that in age or inches but I blocked him right away. I'm too paranoid when it comes to underage because some kids might be using a parent's credit card number. I don't risk it.

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    If he's really underage chances are it's a stolen card and you won't be paid for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missbeth View Post
    I would end private, ban, report to the site.
    Exactly!

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    I ban their ass. Either they are under 18 or they are a liar. Either way I dont want to deal with them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wish View Post
    If he's really underage chances are it's a stolen card and you won't be paid for it.
    She is on SM, we are covered there from chargebacks. But that's beside the point.





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    I wasn't "bragging" nor did I keep the private to be "greedy" . Like I said above, I didn't really think . Yes it was a stupid move. Yes I regret it now that I'm thinking about it. And no, I won't ever do it again now that I've had time to comprehend it. But, insulting me doesn't solve anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lollydollie View Post
    I wasn't "bragging" nor did I keep the private to be "greedy" . Like I said above, I didn't really think . Yes it was a stupid move. Yes I regret it now that I'm thinking about it. And no, I won't ever do it again now that I've had time to comprehend it. But, insulting me doesn't solve anything.
    I used to deal with the underage drinkers when I was a cocktail waitress--I never sold to anyone underage, I had to take drinks from the underage drinkers and get security to remove them. I wasn't about to lose my job and have a fine--or risk the bar's license. Underage drinkers would still find their way in. Someone will always try to say they are underage or they might be underage. You don't know for sure--you have no way of knowing absolutely. You learn to deal with the idiot customers--was probably just an idiot--but you don't know know for sure. It is not worth the trouble. I stay far away from some taboos--the custies will try, they will try anything to get their fantasy fulfilled.
    Ban them and report them.
    Don't let this throw you off your game. Underage users is not a little thing--I'm not making light of it. I immediately just report and ban--stay in command of your show.
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