My wife and I (both early 40s) were celebrating our anniversary and decided to visit a strip club for novelty's sake. It had been 20+ years since I had been, and my wife had never been. She was game for it, although she didn't think she'd like/want a dance for herself.
Found an upscale club that advertised itself as couples-friendly. We went, were approached by a couple of dancers before we settled on one that we both liked - very nice attitude and came across very friendly. Spent $100 on dances - and was pleasantly surprised when my wife got into it and had a couple of dances herself. Decided to call it a night, but before we left, our dancer (unsolicited) offered her number to my wife and I. Neither one of us was born yesterday - obviously a ploy to get us back in and spend more $$$. Didn't think much of it, since I was thinking this was a one-time deal. However, the next morning my wife suggested we go back that night. After I picked my jaw up off the floor, I sent a quick text and made a date to meet up with our dancer that night. Dropped $450 on dances and time with her that night. A good time was had by all (no "extras" by any strech of the imagination - just dances for the both of us and general adult conversation).
2 weeks later - we were back and spent $700 for several more hours of her time. And we'll be visiting her again in 2 weeks time to celebrate both my wife's birthday and my own (6 days apart). We're budgeting $1000 for this trip.
Based on what I've seen on SW, it appears I've managed to capture lightning in a bottle. I found a dancer who enjoys dancing for couples (she even sent us some Halloween pics of herself in her costume), and my wife is open-minded enough to go and enjoy herself and have some fun. All because a dancer sat down and talked with my wife for 5 minutes and established a rapport before asking if we wanted to have some fun.
We're fully aware that she sees $$$, but we have no problem with that. It gives us a chance to get out and escape the day-to-day routine with the kids. Granted, we could probably find a cheaper outlet for fun, but we're enjoying our time with her.
I know we're probably the exception to the rule, but I know there's a dancer that's probably pretty happy she took a chance on us...



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Sure thing Julia Roberts!



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