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    Default Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    Hey guys,

    I've heard from so many girls here and other sites/blogs, that freestyling is an important part of being as SB, especially now that sites like Seeking Arrangement are so flooded with girls looking for a POT. Basically, I've heard that when you find a potential SD through freestyling, you want him to feel like you're actually in a relationship so that you can take on the role of a spoiled girlfriend.

    A month or two ago, I was out at an event and was approached by a gentleman in the health care industry. We exchanged numbers and ended up going out a few times after that night. He's paid for all of our dinners and dates without being asked or prompted and has even talked about us going on vacation this winter, but I'm really not sure how to move forward. We've been on four dates and nothing is what I'm used to: there are no gifts or shopping and no allowance. I feel like I can't do what I'd do normally, which is to just state how much I'm looking for in allowance/dates/etc., lest I come off like a gold-digger and blow the whole thing.

    Do any of you ladies in the sugar bowl do freestyling? Does anyone have tips for how to navigate a relationship that you find while freestyling or tips on playing the spoiled girlfriend role?

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    Default Re: Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    Dominov, freestyling could be quite important as a sugar baby because many sites are just crap now. Many career sugar babies do not use websites because splenda daddies and fakes on them.First, you need to start treating this like an business. Being a sugar baby is about being a business woman first. Many people do not think so but it is true. You are playing an persona that you created in order to get what you need. What is your persona? You want to play the "spoiled girlfriend"? You should model your persona after this character. Watch every movie and read every book featuring the spoiled girlfriend. You might need to write up an sugar baby business plan. What are your goals as a sugar baby? Do you want gifts and allowance? Or do you want your sugar daddy to financed your lifestyle?Also you need to talk about the arrangement before going on the third date. Sometimes men will try to get over on you because they have entitlement issues. Make sure money and luxury is always on your mind during the arrangement. Remember to always look and dress the part of the "spoiled girlfriend" I hope this helps you




    Quote Originally Posted by dominov View Post
    Hey guys,

    I've heard from so many girls here and other sites/blogs, that freestyling is an important part of being as SB, especially now that sites like Seeking Arrangement are so flooded with girls looking for a POT. Basically, I've heard that when you find a potential SD through freestyling, you want him to feel like you're actually in a relationship so that you can take on the role of a spoiled girlfriend.

    A month or two ago, I was out at an event and was approached by a gentleman in the health care industry. We exchanged numbers and ended up going out a few times after that night. He's paid for all of our dinners and dates without being asked or prompted and has even talked about us going on vacation this winter, but I'm really not sure how to move forward. We've been on four dates and nothing is what I'm used to: there are no gifts or shopping and no allowance. I feel like I can't do what I'd do normally, which is to just state how much I'm looking for in allowance/dates/etc., lest I come off like a gold-digger and blow the whole thing.

    Do any of you ladies in the sugar bowl do freestyling? Does anyone have tips for how to navigate a relationship that you find while freestyling or tips on playing the spoiled girlfriend role?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Many career sugar babies do not use websites because splenda daddies and fakes on them.
    Not to derail the thread. Where should a real sugar daddy be looking for these girls? From our side the same websites are filled with 30min/1 hour girls.

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    Default Re: Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    Gringuito, you never tried to meet a sugar baby offline? You can always try to find locate sugar daddies in your local area or major city. If you want an online sugar daddy...you can always set up an account in a virtual world such as Second Life and try there. In addition, you should try to research "How to be a career sugar baby" because many career sugar babies do not depend on online sources alone.





    Quote Originally Posted by Gringuito View Post
    Not to derail the thread. Where should a real sugar daddy be looking for these girls? From our side the same websites are filled with 30min/1 hour girls.

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    Default Re: Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    Dona, I met my last sugar baby in a club. She was brought to my table by my host/promoter. That worked out great for a year and a half. The one before that was in Vegas but distance was a problem. I'm not sure I understand what an online sugar baby would be. I'll look up career sugar baby, thanks!

    dominov, if you want a sugar daddies opinion let me know.

    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Gringuito, you never tried to meet a sugar baby offline? You can always try to find locate sugar daddies in your local area or major city. If you want an online sugar daddy...you can always set up an account in a virtual world such as Second Life and try there. In addition, you should try to research "How to be a career sugar baby" because many career sugar babies do not depend on online sources alone.

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    Default Re: Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    What is a 30min/1 hour girl?

    I meet my sugar daddies at work. I am very cautious. I look to see if potential daddies are upfront and do what they say they will. If not - I forget about them.

    Being introduced through a host or manager who knows what you are looking for or an elite agency could work well.

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    Default Re: Sugar Bowl: Freestyling, Yay or Nay?

    These are girls that are filling up the websites. They are not looking for a sugar daddy, they are looking for a client that day for a 1 hour appointment. What type of elite agency are you referring to? It would be great if there was someone matching verified people. It would save quite a bit of time. You can meet guys at your work, I just live my life and hope to bump into someone mostly by accident. Not very efficient.

    Quote Originally Posted by amberlly View Post
    What is a 30min/1 hour girl?

    I meet my sugar daddies at work. I am very cautious. I look to see if potential daddies are upfront and do what they say they will. If not - I forget about them.

    Being introduced through a host or manager who knows what you are looking for or an elite agency could work well.

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